Well that means that the OP doesn't get to avoid the responses that don't high-five him like a stud for getting a blow job from his best friend's girlfriend. How he has this mess and vacillates between tremendous guilt and faux swagger. It's really sad and pathetic to see in print.
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My Best Friend's Girl
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Well that means that the OP doesn't get to avoid the responses that don't high-five him like a stud for getting a blow job from his best friend's girlfriend. How he has this mess and vacillates between tremendous guilt and faux swagger. It's really sad and pathetic to see in print.
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I'm inclined to cut Coldneck a break
I don't condone all of his choices, and I like to think I'd behave differently if the events had unfolded on me the way they did him. It's really easy for us to sit back in our pious chairs and pass judgment on him. Some of the comments are honest objections to his decisions and actions. Others are equally honest praises for his steady nerve and handling of a difficult situation. I can see both sides.
But whenever a controversial issue arises, there there are a couple of trolls who are only interested in rallying antagonism and hot emotions. Due to their long history of this activity, most know to ignore them no matter how severely their behavior challenges the value of Midol.
This is not something that was calculated and planned. It happened, and was dealt with in a manner that involved nobody getting hurt. That's the bottom line as I see it. There is such a thing as too much honesty, and my opinion is that Coldneck DID tell the truth in the correct measure.
Coldneck, my hat's off to you, good sir. Congratulations on a job well done.
I don't condone all of his choices, and I like to think I'd behave differently if the events had unfolded on me the way they did him. It's really easy for us to sit back in our pious chairs and pass judgment on him. Some of the comments are honest objections to his decisions and actions. Others are equally honest praises for his steady nerve and handling of a difficult situation. I can see both sides.
But whenever a controversial issue arises, there there are a couple of trolls who are only interested in rallying antagonism and hot emotions. Due to their long history of this activity, most know to ignore them no matter how severely their behavior challenges the value of Midol.
This is not something that was calculated and planned. It happened, and was dealt with in a manner that involved nobody getting hurt. That's the bottom line as I see it. There is such a thing as too much honesty, and my opinion is that Coldneck DID tell the truth in the correct measure.
Coldneck, my hat's off to you, good sir. Congratulations on a job well done.
'struth. Sometimes I think that, next to furries and feminists, we're the most easily-trolled community I've ever seen.
Oh, and I can't be the only one who can't get this song out of his head after reading this thread, can I?
Finally some common sense!
Since most of the Vaghaver's and even a few of the OscarMeyer's are getting their collective panties wet over a blowjob,
(yes, a fucking blowjob, let's put this in perspective, people. Christ, Bill Clinton didn't take as much shit as I am over this),
I'm going to do the right thing and follow the advice of a wise TMF member and ....
... post some pics of Fab and Selma (oops, I mean Paola, who by the way, is totally on coldneck's radar!)
ENJOY!
http://s1237.photobucket.com/albums/ff480/coldneck/
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Wellllll.....let's not go overboard. The slight hyperbole you proclaim I am guessing is due to outrage that not everyone gave you high-fives due to your sorted behavior. Yeah, I mean, some people are being a bit brutal. BUT: Would you say to your friend, "Hey man, let us put this in perspective: she just gave me a blowjob!" That would help it go over better. Then you don't need to 'protect him', as you put it, anymore.
Also, you asked we answered. Sorry you don't like the guff you are taking, but the fact that you are surprised and sooooo upset by it blows my mind!
By the way: The more you show off your extensive vocabulary, with words like, "Vagehaver" and "OscarMeyer" (I honestly like that one a little) the harder it is to take you seriously. Sidenote: The possessive apostrophe wasn't necessary for those words. Just saying.
Hey, I'm just a guy who was lucky/stupid/fortunate enough to be on the receiving end of pretty awesome blowjob at a party. Yeah, it happened to be my friend's new GF, but that sort of stuff happens, a lot.
I don't expect to be paraded around like a Sultan, but I also didn't expect to be burned at the stake by members of a fucking fetish forum who consider their moralistic integrity beyond reproach.
That just screams: double standard.
Anywho, the photos should clear up a lot of the confusion, as well as create some too.
I will answer to some speculation/questions about the um ... entertainers at Jeremy's party.
This was held at a private residence, not a club w/ asshole bouncers and $12 drinks.
There is no pretense here. These women were not paid to send you home with a hard-on and a peck on the cheek.
So of course there was a free exchange of ca$h, sex, baking recipes and quantum physics theories.
Jeremy knows how to throw down... 'nuff said!
I don't expect to be paraded around like a Sultan, but I also didn't expect to be burned at the stake by members of a fucking fetish forum who consider their moralistic integrity beyond reproach.
That just screams: double standard.
Anywho, the photos should clear up a lot of the confusion, as well as create some too.
I will answer to some speculation/questions about the um ... entertainers at Jeremy's party.
This was held at a private residence, not a club w/ asshole bouncers and $12 drinks.
There is no pretense here. These women were not paid to send you home with a hard-on and a peck on the cheek.
So of course there was a free exchange of ca$h, sex, baking recipes and quantum physics theories.
Jeremy knows how to throw down... 'nuff said!
Nice pics! Yeah, those are some great looking women. Notice no one ever messes with their best friend's girl if she is butt-ugly.. lol
The bottom line is this. Coldneck's original post did not ask the members to hail him as a king for what he did. He was expressing what happened to him. There was tickling involved, then further sexual activities. Whether people like it or not, this is not a "new" situation to the world. This kind of crap happens all the time. Is it something I would ever do? No. Why? Because I am not that type of guy. But I damn sure know a lot of other guys who would have done the same thing.
Granted, praising Coldneck for what he's done may seem bad, but that depends on who's perspective you are looking at. I do find it hilarious that certain members always seem to be shaking their fingers at someone when they do something "wrong" in their eyes. But, unless they are perfect in their lives, who are they to judge? Yet, thread after thread after thread, they chastise anyone for not fitting in their relam of what is right and wrong. For me, I am not going to praise Coldneck because I just don't believe in messing with your best friend's girl, but I'm not going to tell him that he should give a soul cleansing confession to his best friend either. To each their own.
I think what should happen is Coldneck should take me to this party and let ME tickle/play with Fabiola and he can play with her friend! That way, the best friend doesn't get hurt at all right? A win win for me, Fabiola, Coldneck, her friend and Jeremy! Any votes for Primetime?
The bottom line is this. Coldneck's original post did not ask the members to hail him as a king for what he did. He was expressing what happened to him. There was tickling involved, then further sexual activities. Whether people like it or not, this is not a "new" situation to the world. This kind of crap happens all the time. Is it something I would ever do? No. Why? Because I am not that type of guy. But I damn sure know a lot of other guys who would have done the same thing.
Granted, praising Coldneck for what he's done may seem bad, but that depends on who's perspective you are looking at. I do find it hilarious that certain members always seem to be shaking their fingers at someone when they do something "wrong" in their eyes. But, unless they are perfect in their lives, who are they to judge? Yet, thread after thread after thread, they chastise anyone for not fitting in their relam of what is right and wrong. For me, I am not going to praise Coldneck because I just don't believe in messing with your best friend's girl, but I'm not going to tell him that he should give a soul cleansing confession to his best friend either. To each their own.
I think what should happen is Coldneck should take me to this party and let ME tickle/play with Fabiola and he can play with her friend! That way, the best friend doesn't get hurt at all right? A win win for me, Fabiola, Coldneck, her friend and Jeremy! Any votes for Primetime?
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Before I start, (for the fifth time or something) I just want to say that you have taken a lot of shit. Waaayyyy more than you deserve. You asked for advice and I gave you some. I don't know if it was what you were referring to as "real advice", but it was the best I had. By the way what is 'real advice'? (I am guessing it is the advice you wanted to hear) And you getting burned at the stake is another exaggeration you are so fond of, you weren't far off. What with people letting off their steam about ideals of moral ambiguity and sex just being sex or whatever, I am surprised you kept listening.
But your statements seem to belie one another. Let us take a look here, shall we?
If you believe all these things, and you are trying to convince us they are all so true: Why don't you just explain it to this Jeremy? I am sure you can calm him down by saying, "Hey, man, you know the rules: There was grass on the field; I was just playing ball!" He will certainly get a kick out of it! Then just explain how you didn't lie the other day. But to be clear:
Now you say you didn't tell lie, you just didn't tell your friend all of the truth; You stopped at the Austin Powers impression. Now I don't remember that from the original story (perhaps you edited it for space, or that it was kinda lame). But if you substituted that impression bit for what happened, you did lie. IF when she kissed you that was what said, and then you start 'kissing like your plane was going down' maybe we are all just splitting hairs about the lie factor.
Besides, now you are done with Fab. You are going after her friend! I am sure he will wish you luck on that one! And I bet Fab will be thrilled! And be sure to tell him, as you told us, that no matter what happens, "fucking man, was it ever worth it!" I am sure he will understand. I am sure that after you have attended another one of his high end, classy parties, compounded with the fact that he may have kissed the whole where your (and other guy's possibly since) dick has been, hearing you say the words, "Any remorse I have is drowned out by her super sexiness, and that laugh. It's haunting me." Will instantly dissolve any and all anger he may be feeling! Go get 'em, Coldneck!
Now I do want to address the concept that a lot of people have been bringing up: They were drunk, they were stoned, it was a party, neglectful bf. True. But, they both knew she had a boyfriend and who it was, booze doesn't erase that. They also started the flirting and tickling while sober, I think. But most importantly, if he was sober enough to remember, he should have been sober enough to stop. More importantly, if she was able to give him mind blowing head, which involved crushed ice cubes, I think she was lucid enough to know exactly what she was doing. You can use booze as an excuse only if you don't remember what happened. Just a personal rule. Not saying I am perfect. I am saying, if it were me, I would still feel responsible and not blame the booze. Not trying to sound holier than thou, I just think it is common sense.
Oh and speedbump (and or any of the others who got in page long interactions with rhiannon) and rhiannon should just SCREW ALREADY! Seriously! Are you guys married? This was not worth bickering over! Chill!
And sorry primetime, no vote for you from me.
But your statements seem to belie one another. Let us take a look here, shall we?
Okay how is saying Fabiola having a MTV show being a good idea "common sense"? Seriously! Don't answer, just trying to make a point. A little off topic but I just wanted to get it out there.
...It does?
If you believe all these things, and you are trying to convince us they are all so true: Why don't you just explain it to this Jeremy? I am sure you can calm him down by saying, "Hey, man, you know the rules: There was grass on the field; I was just playing ball!" He will certainly get a kick out of it! Then just explain how you didn't lie the other day. But to be clear:
Now you say you didn't tell lie, you just didn't tell your friend all of the truth; You stopped at the Austin Powers impression. Now I don't remember that from the original story (perhaps you edited it for space, or that it was kinda lame). But if you substituted that impression bit for what happened, you did lie. IF when she kissed you that was what said, and then you start 'kissing like your plane was going down' maybe we are all just splitting hairs about the lie factor.
Besides, now you are done with Fab. You are going after her friend! I am sure he will wish you luck on that one! And I bet Fab will be thrilled! And be sure to tell him, as you told us, that no matter what happens, "fucking man, was it ever worth it!" I am sure he will understand. I am sure that after you have attended another one of his high end, classy parties, compounded with the fact that he may have kissed the whole where your (and other guy's possibly since) dick has been, hearing you say the words, "Any remorse I have is drowned out by her super sexiness, and that laugh. It's haunting me." Will instantly dissolve any and all anger he may be feeling! Go get 'em, Coldneck!
Now I do want to address the concept that a lot of people have been bringing up: They were drunk, they were stoned, it was a party, neglectful bf. True. But, they both knew she had a boyfriend and who it was, booze doesn't erase that. They also started the flirting and tickling while sober, I think. But most importantly, if he was sober enough to remember, he should have been sober enough to stop. More importantly, if she was able to give him mind blowing head, which involved crushed ice cubes, I think she was lucid enough to know exactly what she was doing. You can use booze as an excuse only if you don't remember what happened. Just a personal rule. Not saying I am perfect. I am saying, if it were me, I would still feel responsible and not blame the booze. Not trying to sound holier than thou, I just think it is common sense.
Oh and speedbump (and or any of the others who got in page long interactions with rhiannon) and rhiannon should just SCREW ALREADY! Seriously! Are you guys married? This was not worth bickering over! Chill!
And sorry primetime, no vote for you from me.
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Sorry. I guess I missed the part in the Fetishist's Handbook that stated that because I liked tickling that I also had to approve of lying and infidelity.
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My post might have been more of a comment on MTV programming.
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Thought so. And in a strange way, you aren't wrong. I was just wondering how from his point of view it was 'common sense'.
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But you can't help but keep reading it. I don't blame ya! This is some sick ass train wreck. And the popcorn's cheaper! Although I think the butter was used on the two girls faces. Just my own humble.
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🙄 I know you are female. I wasn't asking if you were married in general, just to each other; you were bickering like an old married couple. I know you were done. And I think you missed the point of that post. You were just a side note
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Cold Neck, you told your friend part truth to spare the friendship you've had with this other guy. I totally get that and understand it, having said that I'd like to know if the roles were reversed and your friend got a bj from your gf and he hide it from you would you be ok with that?
