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2 years ago I was interviewd by a BDSM magazine here in Norway about my tickling fetish. I took the time to translate it if anyone is interested in reading it. 🙂
A big picture of the article can be find in this post as well (in case you who acculy understand norwegian want's to read it)
(SMil is the name of a BDSM community in Norway. It think it stands for "Sado Masochister i Landet" (Sado Masochists in the country). The word SMIL means "smile")
"Creates the smiles at SMil"
Cavum have been a tickle fetishist for a long time.He hopes more people with the same fetish contacts the SM-community and dare to open up about this lust.
-It would have been great to see more people with the same fetish at SMil. Alot of people who have this fetish don't think that it can be a part of BDSM. There is no right awnser on what BDSM is, so I hope to see more people with this fetish on parties in the future. We're the ones creating the smiles at SMil, Cavum tells.
The 25 year old have turned on by tickling for as long as he can remeber. -I remeber I saw a cartoon where a girl was tied up and tickled under her feet when I was 7 years old. That scene made me tingle all over my body, but I didn't understand why. I guess thats not odd since I only was 7 years old. It wasn't untill I was around 10-12 years old that I started to realize that this was something sexual for me. At that time there wasn't any chance to discover what this was since I didn't have many girl friends, Cavum explains. But he got the chance some years later on junior high school. -I acculy remever the first time I tickled a girl. We where a gang of friends who had been outside walking. It was raining and one of the girls had a hole in her shoe, so she took off her shoes and socks when we got in. During the evening the temptation became to big, so when we started playfighting I used that chance. I held her ankles and tickled her feet. She was also very ticklish so that experience I still remember today, he explains. Besides from being a tickle fetishist, Cavum is also a foot fetishist. -It's one of the moust commun fetishes to have for a person who also is a tickle fetishist.
"Technic is important"
How to perform a tickle fetish can be done different way, depending on what you like the moust. -Some people turn on by erotic tickling where the tickling happends wile they just cuddle. Others like playfighting combined with tickling where the person is pin down and tickled. Others like to combind bondage together with the tickling. That is absolutely my thing. For me tickling ain't a build up to sex or anything else. Tickling is all I need. Im a "knismolagniac", Cavum smiles. He recomend the people who wants to try out this fetish to learn how to tickle. -To tickle is a technic you should try out to find the best and moust effective ways. It's also a difference on persons you tickle and how they react to different tickle technics. It's like whipping a sub. You can't just start hitting really hard, Cavum says. He also emphasizes responsibility during a tickle session. You can get dehydrated really fast by laughinc and sufferent. To drink enough is important. -Another tip is to change to several tickle spots. If you tickle to much on one place, it can only become painfull. The purpose is that it's supose to tickle, and that for a long time. Switch tickle spots fast and surprising so the sub don't get any chance to think or to prepare themselfs. It normaly have a really good effect, Cavum explains.
One way to perform your tickle fetish is to tie the sub on her back in a spread-eagle position. Then all of the moust important tickle spots are helpless and vulnerable. A blindfold can also be a good idea since this makes the suprice moment more intensive.
-When the sub lies there ready to be tickled, I like to start gentle on the spots she's moust ticklish. That was she will become pretty nervous from the start. By experience this also makes it hard for the sub to relax and get into a "non-ticklish mode". After you gotten the sub nervous you can continue a bit harder on her other ticklish spots and switch tickle spots by need. Don't give the sub time to relax. Then you increase the intensity on the worst spots. At the end you give all you have and tickle like crazy on the worst spots untill the tears come, Cavum smiles.
"Not silly"
Many other tickle fetishists are, as written earlier, afraid to open up by the fear of being looked at as ridiculous. Cavum has chosen to be open about his lust. -But I have still never met a tickle fetishist in the norwegian community. I have met people who like to tickle, but thats not the same thing, Cavum explains. He thinks it's a shame that some BDSMers think tickling is a silly fetish. I have gotten comments like "tickling is just childish". Some time ago I heard about a girl who was into tickling. But she left the whole BDSM community because she felt being pushed away. They just didn't want to accept her fetish. I also think this can be the reason why you don't meet tickle fetishists in the community. But if anyone of you read this, then mark my words: Don't be afraid to be who you are. You think the "whipping-SMers" are so tough? 90% of the subs I met can take beatings untill theyre yellow and blue, but tickling? That they can't handle.
-Do you need any special tools to perform this fetish?
-Fingers are the best tool you have. If you learn the technic you don't need anything else. Feathers have becomed a symbol for tickling, but theyre not a effective thing when it comes to tickle torture, Cavum explains.
If you wish to tickle a sub under her feet a electric toothbrush can do the trick. Rubbing lotion and oils on the skin can also make the sub more ticklish.
-It's a big difference tickling a pair of feet that isn't rubbed in with lotion than tickling a pair of feet that is. It seems like the sensitivity increases 10 times after the lotion is on. Another favorite I use to combind with feet that have lotion on them is a hairbrush. Especially the plastic ones that have small balls on the top. The subs I tryed this one normaly scream for mercy few seconds after I start, the tickle fetishist smiles.
A big picture of the article can be find in this post as well (in case you who acculy understand norwegian want's to read it)
(SMil is the name of a BDSM community in Norway. It think it stands for "Sado Masochister i Landet" (Sado Masochists in the country). The word SMIL means "smile")
"Creates the smiles at SMil"
Cavum have been a tickle fetishist for a long time.He hopes more people with the same fetish contacts the SM-community and dare to open up about this lust.
-It would have been great to see more people with the same fetish at SMil. Alot of people who have this fetish don't think that it can be a part of BDSM. There is no right awnser on what BDSM is, so I hope to see more people with this fetish on parties in the future. We're the ones creating the smiles at SMil, Cavum tells.
The 25 year old have turned on by tickling for as long as he can remeber. -I remeber I saw a cartoon where a girl was tied up and tickled under her feet when I was 7 years old. That scene made me tingle all over my body, but I didn't understand why. I guess thats not odd since I only was 7 years old. It wasn't untill I was around 10-12 years old that I started to realize that this was something sexual for me. At that time there wasn't any chance to discover what this was since I didn't have many girl friends, Cavum explains. But he got the chance some years later on junior high school. -I acculy remever the first time I tickled a girl. We where a gang of friends who had been outside walking. It was raining and one of the girls had a hole in her shoe, so she took off her shoes and socks when we got in. During the evening the temptation became to big, so when we started playfighting I used that chance. I held her ankles and tickled her feet. She was also very ticklish so that experience I still remember today, he explains. Besides from being a tickle fetishist, Cavum is also a foot fetishist. -It's one of the moust commun fetishes to have for a person who also is a tickle fetishist.
"Technic is important"
How to perform a tickle fetish can be done different way, depending on what you like the moust. -Some people turn on by erotic tickling where the tickling happends wile they just cuddle. Others like playfighting combined with tickling where the person is pin down and tickled. Others like to combind bondage together with the tickling. That is absolutely my thing. For me tickling ain't a build up to sex or anything else. Tickling is all I need. Im a "knismolagniac", Cavum smiles. He recomend the people who wants to try out this fetish to learn how to tickle. -To tickle is a technic you should try out to find the best and moust effective ways. It's also a difference on persons you tickle and how they react to different tickle technics. It's like whipping a sub. You can't just start hitting really hard, Cavum says. He also emphasizes responsibility during a tickle session. You can get dehydrated really fast by laughinc and sufferent. To drink enough is important. -Another tip is to change to several tickle spots. If you tickle to much on one place, it can only become painfull. The purpose is that it's supose to tickle, and that for a long time. Switch tickle spots fast and surprising so the sub don't get any chance to think or to prepare themselfs. It normaly have a really good effect, Cavum explains.
One way to perform your tickle fetish is to tie the sub on her back in a spread-eagle position. Then all of the moust important tickle spots are helpless and vulnerable. A blindfold can also be a good idea since this makes the suprice moment more intensive.
-When the sub lies there ready to be tickled, I like to start gentle on the spots she's moust ticklish. That was she will become pretty nervous from the start. By experience this also makes it hard for the sub to relax and get into a "non-ticklish mode". After you gotten the sub nervous you can continue a bit harder on her other ticklish spots and switch tickle spots by need. Don't give the sub time to relax. Then you increase the intensity on the worst spots. At the end you give all you have and tickle like crazy on the worst spots untill the tears come, Cavum smiles.
"Not silly"
Many other tickle fetishists are, as written earlier, afraid to open up by the fear of being looked at as ridiculous. Cavum has chosen to be open about his lust. -But I have still never met a tickle fetishist in the norwegian community. I have met people who like to tickle, but thats not the same thing, Cavum explains. He thinks it's a shame that some BDSMers think tickling is a silly fetish. I have gotten comments like "tickling is just childish". Some time ago I heard about a girl who was into tickling. But she left the whole BDSM community because she felt being pushed away. They just didn't want to accept her fetish. I also think this can be the reason why you don't meet tickle fetishists in the community. But if anyone of you read this, then mark my words: Don't be afraid to be who you are. You think the "whipping-SMers" are so tough? 90% of the subs I met can take beatings untill theyre yellow and blue, but tickling? That they can't handle.
-Do you need any special tools to perform this fetish?
-Fingers are the best tool you have. If you learn the technic you don't need anything else. Feathers have becomed a symbol for tickling, but theyre not a effective thing when it comes to tickle torture, Cavum explains.
If you wish to tickle a sub under her feet a electric toothbrush can do the trick. Rubbing lotion and oils on the skin can also make the sub more ticklish.
-It's a big difference tickling a pair of feet that isn't rubbed in with lotion than tickling a pair of feet that is. It seems like the sensitivity increases 10 times after the lotion is on. Another favorite I use to combind with feet that have lotion on them is a hairbrush. Especially the plastic ones that have small balls on the top. The subs I tryed this one normaly scream for mercy few seconds after I start, the tickle fetishist smiles.
