My first experience being tied and tickled (:

[jessicajane]

Hey everyone! Well Im kind of a newbie when it comes to being tied and tickled because I've never had that experience before. But last weekend I got the pleasure of meeting up with a friend from here and getting and giving some tickles. I didn't get tied up but I did get held down, which considering it was my first time experiencing this it was probably for the better that we did what we did.

Now, when I first joined this forum about 2 months ago, my only goal was to have my fantasy of being tied and tickled (which has grown into a much larger, dirtier fantasy) a reality. All I really knew was I wanted a man to do it and that's it. Now obviously I have restrictions (now that I've thought about it and had 50 year olds talk to me) like age, looks, distance things like that. But back than I didn't. I also never knew that I'd actually meet someone that I'd really like here.

I guess I thought that who ever made my fantasy come true would talk with me for awhile, wed Skype maybe once so I could make sure he is who he said he was and than we'd meet at a hotel do the fantasy and be done? But that's not what happened. I met a guy and we talked for a while and got to know each other and than did the fantasy. I knew that it would hurt if thats all he wanted or when we stopped talking but I just kept doing it. I have no regrets though. I just wish it would of worked out. But of course with my luck we are no longer talking. Sigh.

Anyway, I just wanted to tell you all I finally had my first sort of experience! Yayy (I feel like I'm announcing thay I lost my virginity lol) but moral of story, I guess I never knew how hard it would be to just do the fantasy and move on. Esspecially when you have feeling for that person. Sigh.

 

[Sandisk444]

I'm glad you had your first experience! It must have been so exciting, sorry that the aftermath hadn't worked out the way you planned though, live and learn I guess 🙂

 

[APFlondon]

are you ever in london jess?

 

[jessicajane]

Thanks! Yeah I was sooo nervous before hand but it was worth it. Yes live and learn 🙂 merry Christmas! Or happy holidays if you're Jewish or something else 🙂

 

[jessicajane]

no I do not frequently go to London. We've talked about this, though you probably don't remember. I want to visit but not for tickling. Sorry.

 

[robmic]

It sounds to me like maybe you tried to bunch too much into your fantasy at one time. It's hard enough to make one situation at a time to work out, let alone more than one. From what I gathered from your description of the event you had wanted to be tied and tickled, become friends, lovers and live happily ever after. Slow down a little. Take a breath. Take things one step at a time. Get to know someone as a friend for a while, then try the tickling thing and see how it goes. If that works well, then see where the friendship is going. If that seems well, then you can see if it could go any further. A little at a time. Either of you can bow out at any point it it doesn't seem to be what you want. At the very least, you can have some fun along the way.... And what's the issue with 50+ guys????

 

[APFlondon]

sorry jess, i am sorry, i do remember our previous chat now, good luck finding what you want

 

[JoePTickle]

Congrats on your fantasy coming true, and thanks for sharing. Always good to hear stories about meet-ups through the TMF. I hope you get more chances now that your fantasy's changed over time.

 

[jessicajane]

Thanks Joe. And bob. No it really wasn't like that. I don't want to explain our whole "relationship" on here but basically we were wanting to date. Atleast I thought we did. I guess I just have a big problem with doing things with people I'm not dating because than I feel used, but at the same time I really wanted my fantasy to come true and since I thought we were going to date in the near future anyway it'd be fine. Its like I said you really have to be able to just do the tickling and move on. I'm just awful at moving on.

 

[FeatherQuill]

Congrats on your first experience. Sorry things didn't work out :/

 

[BellybTickler]

Glad to hear you had a wonderful, first experience! Here's to hoping you have many more.

 

[robmic]

Thanks Joe. And bob. No it really wasn't like that. I don't want to explain our whole "relationship" on here but basically we were wanting to date. Atleast I thought we did. I guess I just have a big problem with doing things with people I'm not dating because than I feel used, but at the same time I really wanted my fantasy to come true and since I thought we were going to date in the near future anyway it'd be fine. Its like I said you really have to be able to just do the tickling and move on. I'm just awful at moving on.

I'm sorry for you're disappointment. I actually had a kind of opposite experience some years ago. I wanted to get involved with this girl mostly for tickling because she was wicked ticklish and she did let me tickle her at first, but she wanted more of a love relationship. I tried to be up front with her about my feelings but she just let my pleas go in one ear and out the other. And after a while, the tickling suffered, too. So, I ended up breaking it off with her. I felt like I mis-led her, even though I made my intentions as clear as I could. She just didn't want to pay attention to that. Oh well, live and learn....