Wow - first off, thanks for all of the support! I have definitley been enlightened about my situation along with some new ideas and explainations for things....
MasterPaladin - Nylons have absolutely escaped my mind! I had tried the lotion, but I bet the nylons give a different sensation. I have tried the pelvic region with success, but I will try the inner thighs if she is comfortable with that. I suppose my real upset is the feet because I'm a footman - so I hope the nylons will help!!! I will also go for different areas of the feet with different techniques/tools!
Monster - Thanks for the kind words, it took me 15 months to open up to her about it, and I don't regret it at all! When I was without her, I was just missing her, and I have realized love is more important than tickling. I have taken advantage of those other creative spots, and can almost always get a reaction out of her underarms and pelvic bone/hip region. I need to realize that is a blessing in itself. I suppose I'm just caught up on the feet not being ticklish because I'm a footman. I will definitley try to cheat and invest in some tickle tools, along with possibly going for the doomsday button. It's funny you bring up Viper, because he is the man, and truly puts my fantasies into video. I would really like to tie her up/blindfold, please her, and then tickle her - but she is still new to this, so I'm going slow. I know for a fact that the doomsday button makes her ultra sensitive, so I have a lot of hope in that theory. I will also have to get a blindfold! Understandably, I have only come out in the open about 2 weeks ago, so we haven't had too many sessions, and guess I just wanted some advice. You definitley assured me in my efforts! Thank you!
Mammers - Yes, I thought I could MAKE her more ticklish/sensitive, but I'm beginning to believe it's more of a comfort/care/love thing first, and then tickling play comes after! Because the fact that she's so open and comfortable with my fetish to begin with, I'm very grateful and appreciative!
LDTickler - Because we are both relatively new at actually doing this, I do still have hope of her being ticklish. She said she was very ticklish as a child under her arms, and her mom would take advantage of that - so I'm hoping to spark that back up. There is a possibility I'm not doing it as well, but I have had 3 past girlfriends since high school who were easily ticklish without any restraint or special attention. Over the past 15 months we've been dating, I THINK I have caught her faking it, especially when intoxicated - laughing uncontrollably and giggling... and yes, that definitley did it for me too, haha. If all else fails, I'm sure she'll understand and occasionally let me tie her up and she'll 'fake' it, but I still have hope!!! Thanks for the suggestion!
Maniactickler - that could be the case, but I will not give up hope. She used to be ticklish when she was younger, and I can usually get a ticklish reaction out of her underarms and pelvic bone/hip region. I guess I'm just bitter about her feet not being ticklish...
Haribish - You have definitley put a different perspective on things for me. In my past gfs, I never really had to put much effort into setting the scene because they were so very ticklish and I didn't need restraint (and was too shy to suggest it). In this case, it has only been 2 weeks since we've actively been tickling, and we've only had about 3 actual sessions. She said she used to be very ticklish when she was younger, and her mom used to torment her underarms (I can easily get a reaction here), but she was a soccer player/CC runner, so I'm thinking maybe that had tarnished her ticklishness on her feet? I need to warm her up into the right mindset, and make sure she is comfortable in this situation. I'm thinking of letting her tie me up and tickle me so she knows that I'm completely comfortable with her and the situation - and maybe also to show her how aroused I get over it! lol. Thank you for your insight, and I will keep updating this post.
Sean - I've definitley realized love is more important than tickling, but I won't just give up my fetish all together! I need to compromise, if all else fails, at least she lets me play with her and gives it her all!
Thanks again to all of you for your support! I will keep this open to further suggestions, but I really want her to read these posts/replies to maybe give her some more insight on where I'm coming from and hopefully not freak her out! I'm not sure if she understands how supportive and caring all of these members are! I will keep this updated, and maybe even introduce her into the community once she feels comfortable about it! One thing that is always good, is she likes tickling me