My latest tickle session: Is it weird to enjoy firmly tickling ladies upperbody?

[eddyderf]

Thread 'do most ppl here find it weird for a girl to be an extreme ler?'

May 4, 2024

cause I get loadsa DMs from ppl saying they are shocked I’m a ler and trying to force me to rp with them and tell them what I would do (and I dont rp or act like a slave to guys demanding I do it)

but anyway, I always thought it was normal to be a ler as a female 😂

• natscott6282
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In the spirit of equality I was inspired by the above thread by Natscott (I like how real and matter of fact she is). I just had a tickling session that was 80% upperbody and 20% feet and legs (M/F). I learned from that discussion that it is perfectly okay for a lady to extreme tickle men to their limits (or was it beyond?). In fact a few men giddily volunteered how much they looove to be "t*rtured" by women. So I am curious to see if there is any man willing to admit here that he likes to, not extreme tickle (I find it unnecessary, only continuous genuine laughter interests me), but to robustly tickle ladies upperbody? Are there ladies willing to admit that they love to be firmly upperbody tickled by M or F?

My session was about 20 mns of actual tickling after the breaks. Although I moslty alternate between 3s and 5s, one of my most fun moves is when I hit one particularly ticklish spot on the lower torso, I poke that spot for about 10s to silent laughter. Or to poke and hold inside the armpit hollow. Hopefully this is not rated-R. 😎

 

[Maneo]

In the domain of fetishes, or just intimate behavior in general, I think there is nothing that I would call “ weird.” One person’s weird is another person’s normal.

While my preference is to tickle a woman’s feet, if she is extremely ticklish on her upper body, that will be my focus.

The degree to which I enjoy tickling a partner may be considered weird by some and mild by others. I could care less what others think or how much my desires are shared by them. I’m only interested in how my tickle consensual partner and I are in sync.

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I love to tickle. I’m more playful than torturous. If the person I’m tickling wants to be tied up that’s fine as for me being tied up no thanks

 

[U.N.Owen]

Um, no. There's nothing even slightly weird in what you describe. It just sounds like fun.

 

[WickedTouch]

Thread 'do most ppl here find it weird for a girl to be an extreme ler?'

May 4, 2024

cause I get loadsa DMs from ppl saying they are shocked I’m a ler and trying to force me to rp with them and tell them what I would do (and I dont rp or act like a slave to guys demanding I do it)

but anyway, I always thought it was normal to be a ler as a female 😂

• natscott6282
• Replies: 144
• Forum: Tickling Discussion

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In the spirit of equality I was inspired by the above thread by Natscott (I like how real and matter of fact she is). I just had a tickling session that was 80% upperbody and 20% feet and legs (M/F). I learned from that discussion that it is perfectly okay for a lady to extreme tickle men to their limits (or was it beyond?). In fact a few men giddily volunteered how much they looove to be "t*rtured" by women. So I am curious to see if there is any man willing to admit here that he likes to, not extreme tickle (I find it unnecessary, only continuous genuine laughter interests me), but to robustly tickle ladies upperbody? Are there ladies willing to admit that they love to be firmly upperbody tickled by M or F?

My session was about 20 mns of actual tickling after the breaks. Although I moslty alternate between 3s and 5s, one of my most fun moves is when I hit one particularly ticklish spot on the lower torso, I poke that spot for about 10s to silent laughter. Or to poke and hold inside the armpit hollow. Hopefully this is not rated-R. 😎

Weird essentially means strange, unusual, or unnatural. I would never say liking it is unnatural, but it is unusual, and maybe a little strange in the context of the whole population. It is not, however unusual within the tickling community. I love giving and receiving it, as does my wife. I’ll say it’s just more important to be aware of the individual’s preference and their personal tickle-pain threshold. Some people can’t be tickled this way unless there’s careful attention to pressure, some people want a lot of pressure, and some only ever want light tickling. Generally speaking, people are more likely to bruise this way (even with moderate pressure), and women much more so. That can make it uninteresting to some as well. There’s a whole spectrum of interests in and out of the tickling community, and in general, as long as you’re working within the bounds of safe, sane, and enthusiastic consent, you can be as weird or wild as you like.

 

[eddyderf]

Weird essentially means strange, unusual, or unnatural. I would never say liking it is unnatural, but it is unusual, and maybe a little strange in the context of the whole population. It is not, however unusual within the tickling community. I love giving and receiving it, as does my wife. I’ll say it’s just more important to be aware of the individual’s preference and their personal tickle-pain threshold. Some people can’t be tickled this way unless there’s careful attention to pressure, some people want a lot of pressure, and some only ever want light tickling. Generally speaking, people are more likely to bruise this way (even with moderate pressure), and women much more so. That can make it uninteresting to some as well. There’s a whole spectrum of interests in and out of the tickling community, and in general, as long as you’re working within the bounds of safe, sane, and enthusiastic consent, you can be as weird or wild as you like.

Respectfully that's not my experience. Poking, wiggling, and kneading on actual ticklish spots using gentle but focused pressure (with enough breaks and safewords) doesn't bruise anybody. It is using unnatural flat fingers technique while pressing down hard to prevent the lee from bursting into beautiful laugher (among other pretend tickling techniques commonly used out there) that is more likely to bruise a lady's delicate body.
Also mentally, tickling when done with appropriate restraint (especially on moderately ticklish ones) is a lot more dignifying to the ladies than say belly punching, anal sex, whipping and shocking, and there is no shortage of models in those fetishes. I fear that the current generation of men is being taught to worship/massaging women's body instead of actual gentle tickling with beautiful laughter (as opposed to giggles). It's quite unfortunate really.

 

[Bellydancer-Becca]

Upper body/belly and armpit tickling is so underrated. I adore it.

 

[pocketblondie]

I love being tickled on my upperbody !!! it’s such an incredible feeling

 

[WickedTouch]

Respectfully that's not my experience. Poking, wiggling, and kneading on actual ticklish spots using gentle but focused pressure (with enough breaks and safewords) doesn't bruise anybody. It is using unnatural flat fingers technique while pressing down hard to prevent the lee from bursting into beautiful laugher (among other pretend tickling techniques commonly used out there) that is more likely to bruise a lady's delicate body.

No problem—I was responding to your descriptor of “firmly,” which both means different things to different people, and affects different people at the different levels of firmness. Gentle but firm pressure will absolutely bruise some people, my wife included. Others, you could press really hard and it wouldn’t. Some of the people we’ve met with initially felt really bad about her bruising easily despite them not tickling her with much pressure, but were okay with it after her reassurance and enthusiasm. I’ve encountered a few people like this. All I’m saying is that some people bruise really easily, some of which are fine with that and others only prefer the lightest touches to avoid it. Neither is wrong.

Also mentally, tickling when done with appropriate restraint (especially on moderately ticklish ones) is a lot more dignifying to the ladies than say belly punching, anal sex, whipping and shocking, and there is no shortage of models in those fetishes. I fear that the current generation of men is being taught to worship/massaging women's body instead of actual gentle tickling with beautiful laughter (as opposed to giggles). It's quite unfortunate really.

Those really aren’t my kind of thing either, but there’s a legion of women that love it. I understand that you prefer gentle forms of kink engagement (and really, from my perspective I do to), but there’s plenty of women (and men) that enjoy more extreme things in very healthy ways. Within the context of consensual kink, those activities are driven by mutual desire (otherwise, it's just abuse).

To refactor my answer to your question, yes, plenty of women do enjoy firmer upper body tickling at levels all along the spectrum of firmness.