My Shy guy crush

[april]

So, theres this really cute guy in my class and Ive been crushing on him for about a month now. He's painfully shy but I know he likes me because Im basically the only one he talks too plus us girls just know these things. Anyhow, Im sitting next to him in class (mind you, its a four hour class) and there just seams to be this heat emanating between the two of us. we cant stop sneeking peeks at eachother, were both red from blushing and all I want to do is reach over and tickle him because I was dying to know what kind of reaction Id get. Would he jump? Would he laugh out loud? Auugh! I was in hell just wondering. Well, during break I was teasing him by telling him that he needed to shut up 'cause he talks too much (which of course he doesnt lol). That got me a smile and so I proceeded to inform him that he needed to smile more and that if he didnt, I would make him smile. He got this sexy grin on his face and replied "I highly doubt that." What??? A challenge??? Ha! So I leaned over and poked him in the ribs and his reaction was awesome. He turned bright red, smiled and brought his hands up to cover his face. Round one...I win!

 

[milagros317]

A good beginning. Definitely tickle him more. 😀

 

[april]

^ I deffinately will lol! Ugh, the only thing is that If this goes somewhere, I dont know if I want to be in another vanilla relationship. I did catch him looking at my feet but that doesnt mean anything. Wishfull thinking (*sigh*)

 

[milagros317]

It won't hurt to find out what his kinky interests are (if any). 😀

 

[Backstep]

It's a little easier for women, I think, to introduce something kinky than for men. IMHO, men tend to be more accomodating to a degree in order to have their needs in the bedroom satisfied. Though of course everyone has their own ideas about what too far or too different might be.

As for this guy, since he is quite shy, I think you should make the first gesture. Nothing fancy, just say you'd like to meet him for coffee or for lunch and get to know him better. When you talk to him the first time going out, just play it cool and enjoy yourself.

And on a side note...

 

[april]

It's a little easier for women, I think, to introduce something kinky than for men. IMHO, men tend to be more accomodating to a degree in order to have their needs in the bedroom satisfied. Though of course everyone has their own ideas about what too far or too different might be.

As for this guy, since he is quite shy, I think you should make the first gesture. Nothing fancy, just say you'd like to meet him for coffee or for lunch and get to know him better. When you talk to him the first time going out, just play it cool and enjoy yourself.

And on a side note...

I agree

 

[Mike3355]

always good to have fun..perhaps some flirty fun is what ya need instead of a relationship

 

[april]

always good to have fun..perhaps some flirty fun is what ya need instead of a relationship

Im not really looking for a "relationship" per say, I should rather say "being involved with" lol, But yes, flirty fun is good, it would just be better to have flirty fun with someone who indulges the same fettish. But alas, regardless, I dont think i can stay away from this guy; he's way too cute to be ignored hehe!

 

[He-Man]

Round one...I win!

I dunno, I'd say he won too. lol