my theories for the ‘sorry’ and ‘please’ begs

[natscott6282]

i know ppl will disagree as theres so much info on tmf about how ppl beg when they are being tickled but tbh the main ones i ever heard were just ‘sorry’ and ‘please’ like wailed or even mouthed when they couldnt get words out

theory 1 for why ‘sorry’ is that they are tryna apologise just in case they had done something wrong to deserve this, so they try to cover all bases and just be the most sorry they have ever been to make u go ‘ok’ and stop

theory 2 for why ‘please’ is simply please stop or please dont do it there (specific place) or please let me say something which i think is a main one as they need to tell u how much this is tickling them in case u dont realize (this last one happens even if they had previously denied being ticklish as it suddenly becomes a big panick to them that you dont understand how unbearable it is)

anyway i would loveee to hear all ur theories about these 2 begs

and also any other begs - the most begging ones u ever heard wailed when they are tickled so intensively that they cant get more then a word out

 

[WickedTouch]

I think you're right about those being the most common, and I totally agree with your reasoning as to why. I've not quite put it into words like that before for the "sorry" one, but after reading your post, I realized I've always intuitively felt that way. I've always loved how sorry often comes out of people's mouths, even when there's nothing obvious to apologize for. I've even caught myself doing it sometimes when I'm a lee. If someone gets me into one of those states of tickle-induced panic, I get into such a state of desperation that I start apologizing for all the world's sins, even if I personally did nothing wrong lol.

I also like hearing "please" in a state of true desperation like you mentioned. I don't know if I've heard anything more sincere than a strained "please" from someone being tickled silly and nearly breathless.

A little more rare, but hearing someone scream "mercy" is fun. Not quite a beg, per se, but I also like to hear "I can't!" If playing to break the lee, it can be very satisfying to hear them scream their safe word, though it means play ends or pauses, so it's mixed from that angle. I really love building up to the begging for a stubborn lee. And for a lee who begs early in the session, but you can tell there's not much heart in it–eventually they hit that point where the energy tilts and they're like, "OH! Okay, OKAY!" and then the real sincere begging starts....it's just delicious to me...

 

[South_Atmo]

theory 1 for why ‘sorry’ is that they are tryna apologise just in case they had done something wrong to deserve this, so they try to cover all bases and just be the most sorry they have ever been to make u go ‘ok’ and stop

I honestly think I've only ever hear 2 ticklees say "I'm sorry" completely out of context when being tickled. Both were in videos; one was a Ticklecentral video and the other was a TicklerInBlack video with, I think, Audrey Dupree as the tickler. The ler just laughed heartily in response, but in the latter video the ler kept asking why the lee was sorry.

I didn't know it was a common beg as I'd only ever seen it happen twice. And it was random. It wasn't a revenge tickling, at least that I was aware of, and they weren't being told to apologize for anything. It just came out. I think I like your explanation of the phenomena.

 

[Cloudbusting]

My beg is weird. I usually go "waitwaitwaitwait".

 

[WickedTouch]

My beg is weird. I usually go "waitwaitwaitwait".

Oh, that is another I've heard before, though I think I more often hear "hold on" or "okay" (as in, okay, we did it–no need to continue lol). I love teasing people who do the "okay" thing with stuff like "oh, it's okay??" or "oh, whew, I'm glad it's okay" and then tickle more vigorously 🙂

 

[natscott6282]

My beg is weird. I usually go "waitwaitwaitwait".

loveee that and I have heard it quite a few times !

 

[Cloudbusting]

Oh, that is another I've heard before, though I think I more often hear "hold on" or "okay" (as in, okay, we did it–no need to continue lol). I love teasing people who do the "okay" thing with stuff like "oh, it's okay??" or "oh, whew, I'm glad it's okay" and then tickle more vigorously 🙂

For me, I know I'm essentially fucked, but I'm pretty stubborn that I think I can extract a conversation and distract the ler for at least a few moments. So I cry out for wait and then will try to think of things to ask that can provide me like a few seconds of reprieve before the inevitable.

 

[Titillating 2.0]

i know ppl will disagree as theres so much info on tmf about how ppl beg when they are being tickled but tbh the main ones i ever heard were just ‘sorry’ and ‘please’ like wailed or even mouthed when they couldnt get words out

theory 1 for why ‘sorry’ is that they are tryna apologise just in case they had done something wrong to deserve this, so they try to cover all bases and just be the most sorry they have ever been to make u go ‘ok’ and stop

theory 2 for why ‘please’ is simply please stop or please dont do it there (specific place) or please let me say something which i think is a main one as they need to tell u how much this is tickling them in case u dont realize (this last one happens even if they had previously denied being ticklish as it suddenly becomes a big panick to them that you dont understand how unbearable it is)

anyway i would loveee to hear all ur theories about these 2 begs

and also any other begs - the most begging ones u ever heard wailed when they are tickled so intensively that they cant get more then a word out

My beg is weird. I usually go "waitwaitwaitwait".

I’ve heard that one a lot lol, sometimes I listen sometimes I don’t 👀

 

[tickletime1976]

I tend to get no and please, usually when you are going near a particularly ticklish spot. One of the first sessions I ver did I was worried she was saying it because it would totally overwhelm her as I got close to the underarms and I didn't do it, she afterwards said she was playing and had wanted me to do it. So I have never stopped on the basis of it since, unless it is a safeword of course. Indeed now I tend to tease her for begging.

 

[Captain Bad]

Interesting theories. Tickle psychology is fun. I think my go-to tickle response is flattery. "You don't need to do this - why you so pretty?" "I thought we were friends!"

 

[Wade]

If I'm in pleading mode then my mouth is on automatic pilot -- I'll say "wait" a lot (absurd, as though they can be reasoned with, as though this is just a logistical misunderstanding that can be resolved if we just give it a little more time); I say "cut it out" (which I swear I never say in any other circumstance of daily life ever); and I'll toggle between the classics "no" and "please." I hate to be driven to "please" because it's embarrassing and it feels like an admission -- of how helpless I am, of how thoroughly they've bested me, of my powerlessness and abjection, and also of how torturous the tickling is -- because if I'm begging "please" then they know I must really must be suffering, and when they ignore my "please" it's a real power move -- like "You just told me you can't stand this and I'm doing it to you anyway." All of these involuntary beseechings are just various ways of giving them information against my will -- of telling them "You've got me where you want me and there's nothing I can do about it; my only available strategy is to appeal on your sense of mercy, and you're about to confirm what I already knew: you have none." I hate to be driven to "please" but I always end up saying it anyway, over and over, to absolutely no effect.

 

[Lee Ishler]

i know ppl will disagree as theres so much info on tmf about how ppl beg when they are being tickled but tbh the main ones i ever heard were just ‘sorry’ and ‘please’ like wailed or even mouthed when they couldnt get words out

theory 1 for why ‘sorry’ is that they are tryna apologise just in case they had done something wrong to deserve this, so they try to cover all bases and just be the most sorry they have ever been to make u go ‘ok’ and stop

theory 2 for why ‘please’ is simply please stop or please dont do it there (specific place) or please let me say something which i think is a main one as they need to tell u how much this is tickling them in case u dont realize (this last one happens even if they had previously denied being ticklish as it suddenly becomes a big panick to them that you dont understand how unbearable it is)

anyway i would loveee to hear all ur theories about these 2 begs

and also any other begs - the most begging ones u ever heard wailed when they are tickled so intensively that they cant get more then a word out

Well, I've never found anyone to do it with, not a true ticklephile anyway, but I've imagined being in a lee scenario, and "please" or "sorry" would be the most obvious exclamations, but I know I can be a lot more creative than that. But I really do like the "sorry" one, because that to me means the ler is getting back at me for something, namely having tickled HER, and this is something I fantasize about a lot, having someone take their revenge out on me, which makes the tickling so much better, if she is a sadistic tickler.

I often imagine my tickling of her being extremely intense, so that her revenge is very intense too!

 

[dan77]

It turns me on to hear my wife beg and plead to do anything sexual for the tickling to stop, I would love to see if another man or woman could make her submit sexually as she’s being tickled

 

[RickyN]

My favourite pleading that I've ever gotten as from an ex girlfriend who if I got near her feet she'd say a variation of "please not there" or "anywhere but there". She was super ticklish everywhere and found it torture but I also thought it was great that she'd please to he tortured anywhere else as her feet were too much to handle for her

 

[natscott6282]

My favourite pleading that I've ever gotten as from an ex girlfriend who if I got near her feet she'd say a variation of "please not there" or "anywhere but there". She was super ticklish everywhere and found it torture but I also thought it was great that she'd please to he tortured anywhere else as her feet were too much to handle for her

sounds like she needed her soles to be completely immobilized, covered in coconut oil, and gently but persistently scratched (or brushed with hair brushes)

 

[Johnny lea]

Psychoanalysis's have theorised in one study around the relationship of BDSM that both consensual participants will both enter two different psychological states.

Applied to tickling, the LER will enter a flow state and become immersed in the activity and focused on the skilful aspects of the session.

On the other hand the LEE will enter a state called Transient Hypofrontality a state where the conscious mind dwindles and takes a back seat to create a state that is similar to that of day dreaming or hypnosis, which would explain why random words can be thrown out as it’ll touch the subconscious more . The case of “sorry” or “please” will be a psychological mechanism to try and influence the LER in showing mercy. I have a personal theory that this is probably built into us from social conditioning and survival fitness.

 

[TMF Jeff]

One time I was tickling a woman and she blurted out "Do not open the green door!"

I have no idea why and neither did she.

 

[Mavran3]

When I tickle, the usual begs I get are nonono! Or wait! Anywhere but there! And of course lots of pleases