My tickle fetish has made me make some really bad decisions...

[method11236]

Does this happen to anyone else? I have two horny-meters. My standard heterosexual 21 year old male horny scale. And, my insatiable tickling fetish horny scale. The latter is far, far stronger than the former.

When it comes to sexual encounters, I am proud to say I generally make good decisions. I generally hook up with nice, attractive, not entirely insane females.

When it comes to tickling, I will pounce on any opportunity and mask it as a hook up. I have found myself alone with, in awkward situations and hooking up with god awful chicks I would never touch in other circumstances just because I am hoping to get a tickle. I once took a two hour china town bus ride to Philly to "hang out" with this enormous chick because she said I could tie her up and tickle her. I felt totally dirty when I left and vowed never to do it again. But, the shame has worn off and I just dropped her an IM. I'm only a man!!

In short, my tickle fetish has made me make some really poor choices when it comes to shacking up with ladies.

This ever happen to anyone else?

-Meth

 

[WorkInProgress]

Dude, what are you complaining about? If you want to tickle her and she wants to be tickled by you, what's the difference, besides nothing, if she's enormous? Broadening your horizons is a virtue, not a vice. If anything, it's the act of talking disparagingly about heavy people that should make you feel dirty.

 

[method11236]

Dude, what are you complaining about? If you want to tickle her and she wants to be tickled by you, what's the difference, besides nothing, if she's enormous? Broadening your horizons is a virtue, not a vice. If anything, it's the act of talking disparagingly about heavy people that should make you feel dirty.

I think you missed the point, though I wasnt very clear in my post.

I have no qualms about fatties or tickling them. i was simply using it to illustrate a situation in which I would not have been there for any other reason other than to tickle the person. I know, youre thinking, well thats a perfectly good reason to be somewhere, isnt it? Well, I dont know. Its the same with sex...after I nut I immediately regret it, hate all women and jet. This happens to everyone else right?

 

[P[a]pi]

I think sex and tickling are best with love between the two.

You just gotta only look for "the one" if you want love with your sex and tickling.

It's a great thing.

Sometimes you just have to fight your urges. Don't let your tickling fetish control you.

 

[vsa7a]

Sometimes you just have to fight your urges. Don't let your tickling fetish control you.

like this guy said above. sometimes even with all urges. there is indeed a time and place for tickling

 

[brianspencer66]

Does this happen to anyone else? I have two horny-meters. My standard heterosexual 21 year old male horny scale. And, my insatiable tickling fetish horny scale. The latter is far, far stronger than the former.

When it comes to sexual encounters, I am proud to say I generally make good decisions. I generally hook up with nice, attractive, not entirely insane females.

When it comes to tickling, I will pounce on any opportunity and mask it as a hook up. I have found myself alone with, in awkward situations and hooking up with god awful chicks I would never touch in other circumstances just because I am hoping to get a tickle. I once took a two hour china town bus ride to Philly to "hang out" with this enormous chick because she said I could tie her up and tickle her. I felt totally dirty when I left and vowed never to do it again. But, the shame has worn off and I just dropped her an IM. I'm only a man!!

In short, my tickle fetish has made me make some really poor choices when it comes to shacking up with ladies.

This ever happen to anyone else?

-Meth

I understand and can relate to what your saying. About 5 years ago I took a trip all the way down to Florida (I live in NYC) to meet a married woman who was very into tickling. When I got off the plane at the airport she did not even pick me up and I had to pay 40 dollars for a cab ride to her house. Now keep in mind she was married but her hubby was a sickly sort of guy and was ok with all this. Well she was ticklish and all but it was all the other crap I had to put up with. For one she was not very bright and she never seemed to stop talking. Her husband was a really nice guy but was in a medicated stupor most of the time. And there were other things to long to go into here on the forum. All I can tell you is to try to use good judement when doing things like meeting someone. Your not going to be spending ALL your time tickling this peron and your going to want to do other things while your there. So really talk to this person and find out what their intrest are other than tickling if your going to travel. Enjoy the place your visting and have her show you around and make the visit a more well rounded experience. And in the event the person is local well keep in mind she has feelings too and may see this in a diffrent light than you do. If your not that attracted to her you need to go easy and explain that your only intrest is in playing and your not looking for a romantic relationship. This way no ones feeling are hurt.

 

[lk70]

Does this happen to anyone else? I have two horny-meters. My standard heterosexual 21 year old male horny scale. And, my insatiable tickling fetish horny scale. The latter is far, far stronger than the former.

When it comes to sexual encounters, I am proud to say I generally make good decisions. I generally hook up with nice, attractive, not entirely insane females.

When it comes to tickling, I will pounce on any opportunity and mask it as a hook up. I have found myself alone with, in awkward situations and hooking up with god awful chicks I would never touch in other circumstances just because I am hoping to get a tickle. I once took a two hour china town bus ride to Philly to "hang out" with this enormous chick because she said I could tie her up and tickle her. I felt totally dirty when I left and vowed never to do it again. But, the shame has worn off and I just dropped her an IM. I'm only a man!!

In short, my tickle fetish has made me make some really poor choices when it comes to shacking up with ladies.

This ever happen to anyone else?

-Meth

As has been mentioned before, women generally have more options when it comes to lers, so I'm wondering how wise you think it is to post something like this if you're looking for them?

It's quite possible that some "not god-awful", "non-fattie" might read this and decide you're an ass and therefore not worth meeting or playing with.

Poor choices include meeting someone without making arrangements for safety, or maybe meeting a married person whose husband barges in with a shotgun. Most people wouldn't say that meeting what you consider to be an unattractive person is a poor choice worth feeling crappy about later.

 

[Banshee]

Pathetic

I think you missed the point, though I wasnt very clear in my post.

I have no qualms about fatties or tickling them. i was simply using it to illustrate a situation in which I would not have been there for any other reason other than to tickle the person. I know, youre thinking, well thats a perfectly good reason to be somewhere, isnt it? Well, I dont know. Its the same with sex...after I nut I immediately regret it, hate all women and jet. This happens to everyone else right?

What exactly qualifies as a "fattie"? That's pathetic.

Your last statement is correct and common to just about all mammals.

 

[MrTicklefeet]

It's quite possible that some "not god-awful", "non-fattie" might read this and decide you're an ass and therefore not worth meeting or playing with.
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Sure, like the chances of bumping into someone who also happens to be a member of the TMF is gonna happen. We may be united here, but outside, we are still a minority.

 

[maniactickler]

Does this happen to anyone else? I have two horny-meters. My standard heterosexual 21 year old male horny scale. And, my insatiable tickling fetish horny scale. The latter is far, far stronger than the former.

When it comes to sexual encounters, I am proud to say I generally make good decisions. I generally hook up with nice, attractive, not entirely insane females.

When it comes to tickling, I will pounce on any opportunity and mask it as a hook up. I have found myself alone with, in awkward situations and hooking up with god awful chicks I would never touch in other circumstances just because I am hoping to get a tickle. I once took a two hour china town bus ride to Philly to "hang out" with this enormous chick because she said I could tie her up and tickle her. I felt totally dirty when I left and vowed never to do it again. But, the shame has worn off and I just dropped her an IM. I'm only a man!!

In short, my tickle fetish has made me make some really poor choices when it comes to shacking up with ladies.

This ever happen to anyone else?

-Meth

No, i wont tickle any girl unless im attracted to her physically.

 

[ViperGTS]

You'll get over it.

I'm 21. I live in Philly. I know what the tickle scene is like here. (It's fucking awesome, by the way.) You'll make what you consider to be bad decisions so you can get your tickling-rocks off, and after a while, your taste will develop and mature, and you'll make less impulsive decisions pertaining to the fetish.

Eventually, you won't be going to the girls to tickle them. They will be coming to you so you can tickle them. 😉

Don't get riled up about it. Do what you need to do but keep your priorities straight. Remember, always look out for Number One. Make sure you don't do anything dangerous or illegal, and you'll grow out of the phase eventually.

It's just like puberty...you'll grow and mature and change and soon you won't have to worry about it anymore. 😉

Oh, and don't be such a chauvinistic dick.

 

[lk70]

Sure, like the chances of bumping into someone who also happens to be a member of the TMF is gonna happen. We may be united here, but outside, we are still a minority.

No I mean right here on the TMF. He lives in a hotbed of tickling activity and there are A LOT of female members in this area. Believe me when I say we check out someone's posting history before deciding to play.

 

[maniactickler]

No I mean right here on the TMF. He lives in a hotbed of tickling activity and there are A LOT of female members in this area. Believe me when I say we check out someone's posting history before deciding to play.

Damn, no wonder why no ladies here want to meet me!

 

[method11236]

First, thanks to everybody's concern about me jeopardizing my tickle opportunities, but don't worry, I'm not banking on meeting people on the TMF- I do OK in the real world.

Now, back to business: my thought process goes something like this:

"She's going to want to hook up...but I'm not really into her like that, I just want to tickle her. Ah fuck it, I'll hook up with her as the price for getting to tickle her"

In fact, I have a young lady coming over tonight to "listen to music". Not at all interested in hooking up with her or listening to music. But, its a great tickle opportunity. What I am saying is, I hang out with lots of girls in sexy situations I otherwise would not just to tickle them and wind up hooking up with lots of girls I'm really not into.

Sorry if all that talk about fatties disrupted the point of the discussion. It wasn't very relevant, I just like talking shit.

-Meth

 

[method11236]

Oh I forgot- I'm incredibly good looking and almost too charming with the ladies. This gets me into lots of trouble too. Sometimes I don't know when to turn it off.

Also, another problem: there is a squirrel living in my air conditioning unit.

 

[ViperGTS]

You know, as much as I like to help a fellow young man deal with his issues regarding the fetish, here's one problem with your angle here.

"My fetish has made me make bad decisions" is a load of shit. Nothing MAKES you do things. YOU lack self control. YOU lack maturity. This isn't a personal attack, so don't take it that way. You simply have a lot of growing up to do, much the same way many of us here, myself included, do as well.

Before you place blame for your actions, make sure it doesn't rest squarely on your own shoulders. Once you realize that nothing you do is beyond your control, you'll be much better off as a person, and as a ticklephile.

 

[method11236]

You know, as much as I like to help a fellow young man deal with his issues regarding the fetish, here's one problem with your angle here.

"My fetish has made me make bad decisions" is a load of shit. Nothing MAKES you do things. YOU lack self control. YOU lack maturity. This isn't a personal attack, so don't take it that way. You simply have a lot of growing up to do, much the same way many of us here, myself included, do as well.

Before you place blame for your actions, make sure it doesn't rest squarely on your own shoulders. Once you realize that nothing you do is beyond your control, you'll be much better off as a person, and as a ticklephile.

I firmly agree with you. A man must be responsible for everything he does. I don't intend to imply causality. My fetish doesnt make me do anything. I make myself do things. I was trying to express that I make decisions in the interest of my fetish, not in the interest of other things that a rational person might prioritize.

 

[method11236]

Is anyone going to respond to the issue and not the way the post is phrased, my trash talking or other peripheral issues. The issue people.

Brianspencer, your post was very helpful. I feel like I've been in that exact situation before. Who the hell takes a long trip to Florida to hang out with some dumb broad and her gimp husband?! Someone like you and I who makes bad decisions in the interests of tickling.

This is the point where, you, the reader, don't respond to the issue, but comment on my making fun of some people in Florida you've never met.

 

[Ayla ny]

I won’t go into any detail… but not ending up on a milk carton was just plain luck a few times.

 

[darkhand]

I'll admit that I have tickled girls that I would not date for one reason or another. The thing is, I have never done it under any false pretenses. Most of the time it is nothing serious either. It's like something pops into your head and you justify your actions by saying "I just need to get it out of my system"

For play purposes, while it is an inately sexual act for someone with a tickling fetish to tickle someone (or be ticked) I feel that if there is a mutual fetish it can be done in fun. I have actually never had the honor of meeting someone else with a tickling fetish though. I think it would make me wary, tickling someone who I am not dating that is not a member of this website, simply because if a woman is willing to let you do that (without compensation mind you) then she is probably hoping that it will get you to stick around.

I've had my feelings hurt quite a bit in my 25 years. I have no desire to inflict that on others. If I feel the need to tickle someone, I typically just go buy a video clip or something. My life isn't as interesting as it could be, but if I'm sparing someone's feelings, it's ok.

 

[notcoolzeus]

Man when reading the original post, I never would have expected this. Seemed rather unnoffensive to me. Shrug. Oh and Ayla Ny's post was awesome. I'm actually strangley curious for some stories now...