Need a little help...

[laughter_n_love]

Hi everyone,

I don't post much outside of stories section, so I'm not entirely sure if this is the right place or not to post this question.

I have a lovely fiancee (spelling?) who knows all about my tickling fetish. I've hid nothing from her, other than that I sometimes spend my work hours browsing the TMF and writing stories, but maybe some day I'll share even that with her too. She's seen my collection of tickling videos (all from the early TC Videos days), and my stack of Tales from the Asylum comics, and she knows these things turn me on. The problem is, they don't do much for her. She says she can understand how I might find the helpless women compelling, but since there is no sex in these videos, they don't get her hot and bothered like I'd hope. I love her for watching them with me and indulging my fetish, but I want her to enjoy them as much as I do.

So, my question is, are there any videos that combine tickling and sex (and are worth buying)?

Also, my personal focus is on foot tickling, so I'd be interested in really quality foot tickling videos, even if they didn't contain sex. (These are the ones I'll watch when I'm alone.) I'm hoping there are enough foot ticklers out there like me that have done the research to help me make educated decision when I go to buy.

Thanks again everyone, and if this should have been posted in the video review or request section of the Forum, I apologize for my ignorance.

Laughter

 

[Dave2112]

Hi Laughter, nice to see you around again!

The problem with finding tickling and sex videos is the same problem as finding bondage and sex videos. You can't show penetration when a model is in resrtaint. Some weird regulation about "rape" or some Robertsonesque crap. Since the type of tickling you're loking for contains bondage, you might be S.O.O.L.

I know where you're coming from, as a few of my girlfriends have found little interest in watching vids without sex, even though they liked to play in real-life and knew about my fetish. I would suggest a compromise where you each watch a film the other is really into.

If you're gonna be married, you might as well try these half-way steps now.😀

 

[P.H. Tickler]

good luck...

a few clips I have seen mentioned tickling the model to orgasm, but the tickling and sex content is something I have yet to even HEAR about. This is where YOU should help her with the association by tickling her DURING sex. It may or may not eventually spark arousal in her when you just tickle her, because generally, it either turns you on or it doesnt... that don't mean it can't still be fun for both of you, but don't be disappointed if you're "thing" isn't hers.
The best approach would be to ask her what DOES turn her on, and incorporate that along with your tickling. I have been married for 10 years, and tickling has been a part of that for as long. To this day, tickling does not turn her on by itself, but the other stuff that goes on does ,so she don't mind all the tickling. I don't mind that she's not "into" it like I am, I'm just glad she's ticklish😀

 

[laughter_n_love]

Thanks guys, I believe you both are right. I will have to accept that she may never get 'into it' like I get into it, but that shouldn't be what it's about. She's willing to watch them for me, just like I'm willing to watch what she wants. That's what people that love each other do, right?

And P.H., I have tried to incorporate tickling into our sex, and sex into our tickling. We've 'played' a few times, and I always make sure that the final objective is sex. If I can get her to associate being tickled with having sex, I'm halfway there, right?

Luckily for me, she's not the type that needs a lot of encouraging when it comes to being intimate. My goal here was to find a way for me to buy more tickling videos that might appeal to her as well. As Dave pointed out, that might not be possible, so I'll just get what I want for me, and get what she wants for her as well. Then we both win, right?

Laughter

PS. It's good to be back, Dave!

 

[P.H. Tickler]

sounds good

you have the give and take thing well figured out! Now all you need to learn from the relationship zen training is how to have the last word in any argument... they must be "sorry dear"... right or wrong 🙄 ("j/k about the last one... oops, huh? oh, sorry dear"...guess I showed HER LOL)

 

[TickledToDeath]

Laughter_n_love..

Might I make this tidbit of a suggestion to ya my friend...
Instead of showing her a video of actors and actresses portraying a tickle/sex scene......just SHOW her!
IF she will allow you to tie her up and tickle her, do that instead and during it all...take it to a sensual and sexual stage and make her feel the sensations. ON the flip side of that, have her tie YOU up and tickle you, showing her how turned ON you get have her "make love" to you during the tickling. In addition, if she will allow it, you may want to video tape yourselves and watch it all afterwards.

Just a suggestion.


TTD

 

[Dave2112]

And a good one at that, TTD.😀

 

[TickledToDeath]

And a good one at that, TTD.😀

Why thank you very much indeed, My brother Dave2112😉 😀

TTD