Need advice

[t1kl3r]

I know this girl who i have been speaking to for a little while now (about a month) when one day in the past few weeks she just comes out with "having my feet tickled turns me on" i just stoped, i couldn't text back i was in sooo much shock. no one but me know about my fetish and here i was with another person who is into the same thing. however she likes my bestfriend not me. shes invited me to the cinema though just me and her. should i try to tickle her and see how it goes or should i tell her i have the same fetish? id love to tickle her and shes pretty and will love it but she doesnt like me in that way :S

any help?

 

[rhiannon]

She invited you to the cinema and doesn't like you in that way? She tells you what turns her on and doesn't like you in that way? Whatever! 🙂

 

[Justboy]

Bring it up in conversation, ask why she told you that! Then go from there, just be straight with her. She might not have told you the whole story, it may well be she only enjoys being tickled in private, or by certain people!

 

[mustang]

The fact that she divulged that having her feet tickled is a turn on for her seems to me to be an invitation. If you don't follow through, you will be kicking yourself in the butt for the rest of your life over letting this one get away from you. Take a deep breath and then tell her that you are also into foot tickling and ask her to put her feet in your lap. Go from there.

 

[rhiannon]

it may well be she only enjoys being tickled in private, or by certain people

Yeah, like - HIM! Why else would she have told him?

 

[Justboy]

Yeah, like - HIM! Why else would she have told him?

People work in strange ways and sometimes we regret telling people things! I hope for his sake you're right and she did tell him for that reason! Surely it's best just to chat about it first to make sure though?

 

[rhiannon]

People work in strange ways and sometimes we regret telling people things! I hope for his sake you're right and she did tell him for that reason!

If not, she should really learn a thing or two about guys! 🙂

 

[TickleSwitch24]

maybe i'm an idealist, but why don't you just ask her? i mean, even if she doesnt like you, she enjoys it so... why not ask? think of it like a foot massage. if a female friend of yours said "i like you as a friend" then said "i love having my feet massaged" and you offered to give her one, she would probably say yes. at the very least i think you have a positive outcome for foot tickles here. if she says no, at least you dont have to wonder anymore.

 

[mustang]

Let's not make a mountain out of a molehill. We are just talking about tickling feet, not having sex at high noon on a downtown street corner. There is no big f-ing deal about stroking someone's soles while their feet are in your lap.

 

[hockeygolf13]

Just tell her you like to tickle feet. She will be glad to know you also like it. Just tickle her though nothing more. I have a friend that is a girl that loves being tickled and we got together and it went further and now things are awkward. Just tell her and tickle her.

 

[mustang]

In the 'True Tickling Stories' section I told about a date I had in which a babe with hot legs and feet out of nowhere blurted out that for some reason all of her life people have loved to tickle her feet. I asked her what she meant by that and she repeated that literally everyone has tickled her feet all of her life. This statement was so out of context with what was going on and so unusual to bring up completely out of the blue that I was too shocked to react. I was college-aged and in the closet at the time, but I realized later that she must have gotten off on having her feet tickled and that is what she wanted when she made the statement. What other explanation could there be for such an unusual revelation in the first hour of the first date? I have regretted blowing that opportunity my entire life. She was a definite '10' all the way around and I let my inhibitions get the best of me. Someday you will regret every opportunity that you missed due to fear, shyness, etc.