Need some advice?

[ticklingisfun26]

Well, I had a date this past Monday first we started out with dinner/movie, and while at the movie she put her head on my shoulder for a little while. About an hour or so later she grabbed onto my arm during intesne parts of the movie, and after all this we go back to my place I get a massage/back scratch (nails felt amazing by the way) so after taking a nap with her on the couch. I get up to get a drink of water, come back and sit down. she starts scratching my back with her nails (longer than the first time) I also remember her hugging my arm then going back to sleep. Yah a little tickling was involved, but hopefully more next time around now the question is. Do you think she wants me this is my first date in a long long time...kinda inexperienced here help me out? thanks! : )

 

[Aimee]

Yes.

 

[rhiannon]

Definitely. Girls don't touch you if they don't like you!

 

[mabus]

Yep. I know married men who could only dream of getting a back rub.
Good luck!

 

[TicklesFemales]

Well from a guys point of view, Yes she likes you definitely and I do believe she wants to see more of you. You should ask her out again. Maybe this time you can massage her a little and find out if she is ticklish. Hope it works out for you

TicklesFemales

 

[Adam]

Absolutely. Best of luck with her, man. She sounds really affectionate. 🙂

 

[brainiac]

It does sound like she is into you, especially because she went back to your place with you. You should however watch for signs to see if she is really "wanting you" as you said.

I just had a date with a woman [our 5th actually], had the perfect romantic evening. It was at my home, I cooked for her, she had wine [I don't drink] and even gave her a full body massage. We watched a movie, kissed most of the 3+ hours she was there and she almost fell asleep in my arms. It was awsome, 3 days later I recieved a "Dear John e-mail" and I don't get to see her anymore.

Every encounter is unique and you have have to read her body language and moods to see how you should proceed. Since she came back to your place definatly ask her out again. The fact she fell alseep says she trusts you.

 

[love feet]

yop she wants you!!

 

[ticklingisfun26]

I told her we should see each other again, and her response was definantly! so that is a plus 🙂

 

[Adam]

I told her we should see each other again, and her response was definantly! so that is a plus 🙂

Sounds good! Treat this lady right, my man. 🙂

 

[ticklingisfun26]

Oh I will! she was telling me she does not know me that well, but feels like she should. then she asked me how i feel about friendship which is what i wanna establish first off. be both agree how we feel about each others friendship. what's it mean when she says "I feel like I should know you better but at the sametime she doesn't"? she playing hard to get or something? lol

 

[duannewalton]

Yep. I know married men who could only dream of getting a back rub.
Good luck!

Indeed.

 

[rhiannon]

Oh I will! she was telling me she does not know me that well, but feels like she should. then she asked me how i feel about friendship which is what i wanna establish first off. be both agree how we feel about each others friendship. what's it mean when she says "I feel like I should know you better but at the sametime she doesn't"? she playing hard to get or something? lol

Friendship? Careful! Once you're in friendship zone, you will most likely stay in there!!

 

[-Hari-]

Definitely. Girls don't touch you if they don't like you!

Agreed, its a simple but perfect rule.

 

[ticklingisfun26]

but why would she cuddle with me on the couch, scratch my back, massage me, sleep beside me etc if it's friendship? most relationships start with good friends right? we're hanging out this week...i owe her a massage/back scratch so maybe i'll get another : )

 

[rhiannon]

She might not have been sure whether she wanted friendship or more than that. Maybe she is also dating different people and has a "candidate" that is more interesting to her, so she wants to keep all options open.

Usually, when a girl offers friendship, she does not want to be lovers!

And usually, no, only very very few relationships start with good friends. If us girls are interested in someone, we date them, try to figure out if we can imagine more than friends. If we can, we know that pretty quickly. If we offer friendship, in 95% of the cases we decided that we do not want the other person to become our lover.

Lovers can turn into friends, but the other way around hardly ever happens. I have never experienced it and I have never seen it around me, unless the people knew each other since they were kids.