nervous ticklee

[PsYcO]

just go around him naked or almost naked and put your feet in front of him or something. If he does tickle you playfully be like stop and stuff. The more you instagate that you do not like it the more he will do it. Or I would anyway he may be different from me though

 

[TicklingIsLife]

Make a bet where you offer to let him tie and tickle you if you lose........then LOSE!

Yea but that sounds too simple.....😉 🙂

 

[optamist]

I'm sort of new around here...at least at posting.

I've been lucky enough to have a couple girlfriends that liked to be tickled and would pester me into tickling them to hysterics. You are probably looking for some spontaneity, which is a great way to go! If he knows/suspects you like it and that it turns you on, you shouldn't much trouble getting him into it.

One girlfriend did ask me to tie her up (I'm not in bondage) and through that I learned that she loved to be tickled before 'other things'. Another gf simply loved a good tickle fight before tearing each others clothes off.

Good luck...it sound like your man cares about you...things will probably work out rather well for you.

 

[Ticklegrrrl]

cool

Hey guys,
Wow every time I turn around this thread pops up again. You fabulous folks have been giving me good advice for months now. Hopefully this whole "telling my b/f about tickling" thing will all work out great. I've been writing him some sexy notes about it and talking about it on the phone hopefully he'll catch on (sorry can't do it live right now, we're in a long distance thing, boohoo). Well keep that advice coming folks and I'll keep trying! Too bad I just can't yell "tickle me tickle me boy!" (it's much easier to type than it is to actuall yell, heehee).



ticklegrrrl

 

[Giantfan]

My story..........

It seems that all the advice needed as been given so what I'll do is give you a real life true story..........

I just started dating my girlfriend in February. Being the old man that I am (40yrs) I'd grown tired of hiding my love for feet and especially for tickling. So on our 2nd date (hey Im not totally insane.........good joke huh!!) I told her about my love of tickling. I think at first she was a bit weirded out but being the wonderful woman she is she gave it a try. Well if you can believe it she found that she really loved being my "lee"! She truely does love it. Our love making is the best we've both ever had!

I guess my point is that being honest and telling people what you like can only lead to an open line of communication. And to heights that you cannot believe!

Go for it girl!!!! Go for it.

Giantfan

 

[g_man313]

I moved to LA a few years ago and quickly started dating this great girl. I was originally concerned about telling her about my tickling fetish, especially since I quickly learned how much she hated to be tickled. That made me concerned about bringing it up, but I liked her so much, I mustered up the courage to bring it up. First, I asked her if there was anything that she really liked (in the bedroom) that we weren't doing. Then she asked me, and following a deep breath, I told her. Thankfully, she was open to hearing it, and after that tied me up and tickled me without mercy - more so than even girls who weren't averse to being tickled themselves.

Bottom line - if I wasn't honest with her, she never would've done it! Love to hear how it turns out...

[email protected]

 

[Ticklegrrrl]

interesting

I moved to LA a few years ago and quickly started dating this great girl.

Wow G_Man! How'd you do that? I moved to LA five years ago and have built up a huge group of friends but it's taken forever! It's really hard to meet people in LA, I'm impressed! Thanks for the good advice. I'm excedingly honest in regular life and I'll try to do the same with this whole tickling issue, ugh. Wish me luck!


Ticklegrrrl

 

[g_man313]

Ticklegrrrl,

LA has been good to me -- met some good people very quickly since I moved here from NYC, but I know that's the exception to a lot of people's experience in setting up camp here.

Feel free to drop me an e-mail and I'll share some of my experiences (don't want to bore the community with that, though I did sample Lady Lauras Dominion and Passive Arts here in LA with some mixed results).

[email protected]

 

[Ticklegrrrl]

thanks

Hey g_man thanks! I just added you to my im buddies in case you wanted to chat that way. I'm always happy to have more LA friends and I'm actually moving in NY in a month or two so any advice is appreciated on all these topics. Talk to you soon,




Ticklegrrrl

 

[AphxA]

advise

I would like to be real honest here. I think you should flat out tell him about the tickling fetish and that you would want to be tickled. I doubt that he would say no. I mean that. Your quite a brave ticklee though. I think its easier for females to explain things like this to their partners. Good luck!!

 

[TicklingIsLife]

Re: My story..........

It seems that all the advice needed as been given so what I'll do is give you a real life true story..........

I just started dating my girlfriend in February. Being the old man that I am (40yrs) I'd grown tired of hiding my love for feet and especially for tickling. So on our 2nd date (hey Im not totally insane.........good joke huh!!) I told her about my love of tickling. I think at first she was a bit weirded out but being the wonderful woman she is she gave it a try. Well if you can believe it she found that she really loved being my "lee"! She truely does love it. Our love making is the best we've both ever had!

I guess my point is that being honest and telling people what you like can only lead to an open line of communication. And to heights that you cannot believe!

Wish everbody can have your luck! 😛 😀