explanation
yes I am male and I don't disguise the fact - I give a clear explanation of my groups purpose in the documents that I send out when individuals are accepted or rejected.
My initial document was not well worded and I apologise for any hurt feelings due to this - this has been ammended.
Males will be accepted when I have some female moderators to help run the group -they will decide on content and membership not me.
If you visit any Uk tickling or feet groups you will see reams of male members - there are so few females in the uk who seem interested in the scene and yet loads of men - why? I think its due to the fact that a lot of groups have not developed over the years are very "unromantic" and perhaps a little daunting/scary/off-putting to girls who may wish to simply express their views and discuss their interests rather than being propositioned all the time by a barrage of desperate males! I understand because we all get a little desperate on occasions - but this is an attempt at a safer and friendlier group where hopefully the girls will feel more empowered and more confident. I am not trying to offend anybody - please help support this project because the Uk needs something new - If it doesn't work, fine , but I am willing to give it a try. I hope in a couple of monthe time, with a little effort we will have a really good group with many female members and hopefully some from the uk. It will then be nice for the guys to join an already vibrant group and get involved. For the moment, if you have any ideas or suggestions please E-mail me here and get involved. With all due respect, we don't all want to chat or meet other men and that is the situation in the uk at the moment from my experiences with various groups. If you prefer girls this may be a better option?
Finally - if I had not decided to moderate initially I would have 31 female members and 311 male members - get my point?
peace.😎