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[dar man]

Sooo...you find someone to date.....How soon do you bring up your thing for tickling...and would this person reaction be the deal breaker?

 

[DarthGrinn]

I tend to let things happen at their own natural pace. For me, tickling has always brought itself up; and by then, I had already made my mind up about the person based upon other criteria.

 

[tickler1799]

Well, I wouldn't bring it up as a "deal breaker". In other words, you don't sit down with your girlfriend and say "Hey, I'm a tickler. If you don't like to be tickled we should just end it now".

The best time to introduce it, imo, is during "normal" sexual experiences. For me, I'm a very oral person. When I'm going down, I can use my hands to tickle thier sides and hips very gently. Over a long period of time, the tickling will associate with sexuality, and you might get a better chance of acceptance of the fetish without ever talking about it at all.

 

[Camel26]

The best time to introduce it, imo, is during "normal" sexual experiences. For me, I'm a very oral person. When I'm going down, I can use my hands to tickle thier sides and hips very gently.

*drools profusely* THAT is incredibly HOTT!!!!


I told my ler when we began having sex...the conversation began with me telling her that I would be willing to make any fantasy of hers a reality--no matter what it is. And brought it up every once in a while that if she ever wanted to do something to just say the word...she responded shortly thereafter with, "I would do the same for you...and I think I have an idea of what you want..."

You'll find the right method/time...

Best of luck!!! 😍 :super_hap 😛 :greenstar :flower: :leaf:

 

[TKLVR181]

I'd be more worried about it being a deal-breaker for them, really. And how I bring it up? I haven't actually done that yet...first I think I'd need a significant other😛

 

[DarthGrinn]

Thanks for sharing tickler1799, that's actually a technique this celibate d00d fantasizes about. I'm very much an oral person myself btw, just the idea of putting my mouth "there" literally makes me drool with delight...

*ahem* what were we talkin about? 😛

 

[P[a]pi]

I would tickle her and see her reaction. I think I could tell if she liked it, hated it or was neutral. If I thought she liked it or was neutral then eventually I would have to ask her if I could tie her up and tickle her. Before that, I might tickle her feet or else where while we are "doing stuff" like other people have mentioned.

 

[chickles_:)]

Sooo...you find someone to date.....How soon do you bring up your thing for tickling...and would this person reaction be the deal breaker?

Hiya :flower: :flower:
Wow,, actually the funny thing is that for most of my b/fs over the years it hasn't been an issue - they've usually discovered my joy of being tickled by tickling me for some reason or other.. 😀

However, ironically one critical exception is my guy now..
In his case it took a lot of encouragement. Mostly by me being amorous in response to his hesitant tickles - and a lot of patience.

I remember the first couple of experiences he'd happen to tickle me and i'd giggle - which immediately had him apologise! 🙁 Finally i found myself having to take the initiative - first by saying reassuring things like "it's okay" "it feels nice" etc. after a little while he stopped worrying and became more relaxed.
Then i tried the old and long-used. "okay, try tickling 'here' and see if i can keep from laughing,,,"

Anyway, Thank God, he fell for it 😉 - which gave him a chance to see me squirm and discover that it could be fun to tickle. 😎 😱 😱

Soon my Venus fly trap had closed on a happy 'ler. :tounge: :note: :note:

I hope that helps someone out there discover the joy with their special someone. 😎

Many blessings,
Chickles😍