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[ticklebird]

So, learning recently that a tickling fetish existed made a lot of sense to me. How do I experiment and explore my preferences with any men I get together with? I think I might like to be a lee, but I've not tried it before and I have no partner at the moment who I trust to play with. I'm a bit scared, but don't want to miss out on a lot of fun! What should I do?

 

[milagros317]

Welcome to the TMF, ticklebird, and congratulations on making your first post. 😀 This is a wonderful place, have fun here.

When you are with some man that you are interested in, and when the two of you get some place private, just tickle him for a second and tell him that being tickled turns you on. He will be glad to know it. 😀

 

[DLazarus]

So, learning recently that a tickling fetish existed made a lot of sense to me. How do I experiment and explore my preferences with any men I get together with? I think I might like to be a lee, but I've not tried it before and I have no partner at the moment who I trust to play with. I'm a bit scared, but don't want to miss out on a lot of fun! What should I do?

Welcome to TMF Ticklebird. You will find the people here very helpful and very nice.
The best way to start is talking to someone you are dating and would love to be into tickling with you. Let him know that tickling turns you on and I believe he will be more than happy tp accomadate you wishes.
People here will more than happy to offer sugeestions and talk to you about tickling or any thing else you want to talk about.

Don

 

[Bugman]

So, learning recently that a tickling fetish existed made a lot of sense to me. How do I experiment and explore my preferences with any men I get together with? I think I might like to be a lee, but I've not tried it before and I have no partner at the moment who I trust to play with. I'm a bit scared, but don't want to miss out on a lot of fun! What should I do?

Welcome to the TMF.😀 When you have seen some guy a few times you might try provoking a tickle fight by poking him a few times.I would imagine he will answer back in kind.Take it from there and see what happens.

 

[Helena]

Hello ticklebird,
I'm Helena. It's very nice to meet you. Welcome...I know you will enjoy yourself.
You just discovered recently that you have a tickling fetish? The only way to discover what you enjoy is to experiment.

 

[maniactickler]

So, learning recently that a tickling fetish existed made a lot of sense to me. How do I experiment and explore my preferences with any men I get together with? I think I might like to be a lee, but I've not tried it before and I have no partner at the moment who I trust to play with. I'm a bit scared, but don't want to miss out on a lot of fun! What should I do?

Welcome to the forum. as to your issue, i highly suggest we meet to solve this problem of yours.

 

[huskys]

Hello ticklebird,
I'm Helena. It's very nice to meet you. Welcome...I know you will enjoy yourself.
You just discovered recently that you have a tickling fetish? The only way to discover what you enjoy is to experiment.

What she said 😀
And .................. hope you have fun!!!

 

[marcusb]

So, learning recently that a tickling fetish existed made a lot of sense to me. How do I experiment and explore my preferences with any men I get together with? I think I might like to be a lee, but I've not tried it before and I have no partner at the moment who I trust to play with. I'm a bit scared, but don't want to miss out on a lot of fun! What should I do?

Welcome. 🙂

Just have fun with it. Play around. Have tickle fights and see what develops. Forget about the "fetish" word for now. 😀

 

[Myriads]

Hello ticklebird,

Welcome to the TMF. I hope you enjoy.

Many have answered your question. I'd add that once you have a regular relationship again, just discuss you like with your partner and explore. Treat the fetish as you would any other aspect of your sexuality. Play with those whom you are comfortable being intimate with. And have fun.

Myriads

 

[isabeau]

^ what Myriads said...trust is the key issue...i was so in a hurry to experience getting tickled when i first joined...take your time..get to know the people first..then it will be a more fun experience for you...and have fun here...🙂

 

[ticklebird]

Thanks

Thanks all for the lovely welcome. Hopefully I'll be letting you know how I get on soon!! Just need to find a bloke I trust, so maybe in a few years...!!

 

[sonictails77]

Hey, welcome to the TMF!!

Enjoy yourself here, the best thing for you to do is get to know all the interesting people on here, learn their experiences. And most of all, have fun!!!! 😀 😀 😀

 

[paracarl44]

You used the word Bloke.

Welcome to TMF. Are you from Australia when you use the word Bloke?
Just Log On to this site and you will find helpful information. Hope to hear more from you.

 

[the wiz]

So, learning recently that a tickling fetish existed made a lot of sense to me. How do I experiment and explore my preferences with any men I get together with? I think I might like to be a lee, but I've not tried it before and I have no partner at the moment who I trust to play with. I'm a bit scared, but don't want to miss out on a lot of fun! What should I do?

Welcome to TMF, depending on where you live, there are members who host tickling gathering throughout the year. If you go to the gathering section of the home page, you can judge for yourself. once again welcome.

 

[slap'n'ticklee]

Howdy

Are you from Australia when you use the word Bloke?

Over here in Blighty we use the word 'bloke' too 😛

@ ticklebird, welcome and have fun, hope you find a 'bloke' thats trustworthy that you can enjoy exploring and finding out if your a lee or ler or both hehe.

See ya around 🙂

 

[drew70]

Thanks all for the lovely welcome. Hopefully I'll be letting you know how I get on soon!! Just need to find a bloke I trust, so maybe in a few years...!!

A few years?! Good Lord, I hope it doesn't take THAT long. Maybe in the meantime, you could try...oh I don't know...maybe being a Ler? You wouldn't have to find somebody you trust. You'd just need to find somebody who trusts you. 😀

Either way, best of luck to you, and nice to have you here with us.

Drew