No Black Men?

[kcantankerous]

Hello all,

So I have noticed a lot of escorts of all races will not cater to black men. What are some of the reasons this would be the case?

Thanks,

K

 

[TMF Jeff]

Hello all,

So I have noticed a lot of escorts of all races will not cater to black men. What are some of the reasons this would be the case?

Thanks,

K

Do you have anything to support that statement? I've never been to an escort, but from what I know they love money, so it sounds pretty unlikely to me that they would rule out any class of customer.

 

[Cosmo_ac]

Racism?

 

[Wolf]

I have a feeling the data backing up this claim will be epic.

 

[a7hgsir4h3jk]

Wow, I really hope this isn't true.

Maybe they think your dicks are too big?

 

[kcantankerous]

Hello all,

Please go to backpage.com and look at the escort and or fetish section. I was looking St Austin specifically, but then I did a Google search and found others complaining of this in many other states.

I am for anyone's decision to have parameters, especially in that profession. I am more concerned as to the why.

Thanks,

K

 

[Tenebrae]

Wow, I really hope this isn't true.

Maybe they think your dicks are too big?

Hahahahaha I wasn't gonna reply to this thread until I saw Smeg's answer. Which reminded me of Full Metal Jacket's Papillon Soo Soo (of "Me love you long time" fame) pointing at the black guy, saying: "Not him! He is trop beaucoup". Which is French's (incorrect) of saying "way too much". And to make it even more clear, she showed them by making a "size" gesture with her hands

 

[primetime]

I looked up backpage and yeah, some of them do state they do not want black men. As a black guy, that sucks.... I wonder why they do feel this way. I even saw one by a black woman saying "no black men" so it can't be just racism.

 

[BlasterMaster]

Wait, "escorts"? As in "paid for sex"? Is that what you guys meant?

 

[kcantankerous]

Hello Damsel,

That is correct. I think I may have stumbled onto the answer. I did a search, and it may be because of the high instance of HIV/AIDS in black men compared to other races. That seems like the most logical reason offhand.

Thanks,

K

 

[Tenebrae]

Yeah the package size explanation was too funny to be true, I guess

 

[Libertine]

I've lived on two continents for decades. As a generalization, garnered from the working girls I've known socially it's because of the way an unfortunately significant portion of Blacks/Muslims/Indians/Arabs/South Asians feel about, and treat, hired women. Said women are providing a service and naturally do not wish to be denigrated.

Kindly don't shoot the messenger.

 

[the tickleshow]

I have never sought out the services of a full on Escort, but I have gotten many sensual massages, over the years. I have noticed a great number of "masseuses" who say "no Blacks" or "no African American/Hindu men." Of course, the Black man in me is disappointed, because as medically relevant as they may think their restrictions are (if that's, in fact the reason for the exclusion), it is a racist exclusion because they are defining and stigmatizing an entire race of people by a pre-conceived negative notion.
The former Journalist in me started asking questions and I called roughly 20 of these massage providers in the last 12 months. All in Western Florida, Alabama and Illinois, which is where I saw the majority of the "no Black men" restrictions on BP. Three of them were Black. With NO exceptions, the response i got was that either Black men were too "ghetto" and too "dirty" and, apparently spent more time bargaining for cheaper payments for the Masseuse's services. They were very open about this. I even managed to procure a woman's services for massage by showing her I ran my own business and she said I "sounded White" on the phone, so I was "probably ok".
Obviously, 20 is a small sample and the geography was limited, but I went where the sentiment was. You never see this where I live, in NY. It's really quite sad, if you ask me.

 

[shippyshippy]

Gotta be fuckin' cops, man!

 

[kcantankerous]

I have never sought out the services of a full on Escort, but I have gotten many sensual massages, over the years. I have noticed a great number of "masseuses" who say "no Blacks" or "no African American/Hindu men." Of course, the Black man in me is disappointed, because as medically relevant as they may think their restrictions are (if that's, in fact the reason for the exclusion), it is a racist exclusion because they are defining and stigmatizing an entire race of people by a pre-conceived negative notion.
The former Journalist in me started asking questions and I called roughly 20 of these massage providers in the last 12 months. All in Western Florida, Alabama and Illinois, which is where I saw the majority of the "no Black men" restrictions on BP. Three of them were Black. With NO exceptions, the response i got was that either Black men were too "ghetto" and too "dirty" and, apparently spent more time bargaining for cheaper payments for the Masseuse's services. They were very open about this. I even managed to procure a woman's services for massage by showing her I ran my own business and she said I "sounded White" on the phone, so I was "probably ok".
Obviously, 20 is a small sample and the geography was limited, but I went where the sentiment was. You never see this where I live, in NY. It's really quite sad, if you ask me.

Hello,

This is what I instantly thought. Not so much the the negotiation for the lower rates, but the ghetto kind of attitude - or the experience of black men being disrespectful to them. Thus if my small sample size is X, I won't deal with the rest on the same basis. You will see things like "absolutely no black men and thugs." technically they are one in the same in the poster's eyes.

I am simply looking for someone who will let me worship their feet, and tickle them [non bondage]. I haven't had much luck so far. I was hoping it had more to do with the health issue, than the perception of attitudes. I am literally trying to indulge my fetish responsibly, as many have suggested I should do. It seems like there are barriers to that at every turn lol.

Thanks,

K