No one gets to Heaven till they've live a while in Hell

[alchemy1]

Well everyone...so much for my angel...

I was informed by her that she could not be in a serious relationship with me. Why? Surprisingly enough, it wasn't the tickling thing at all...she was fine with that. It was religion. She was a born again Christian...I am a former Catholic and hover around agnostisism and atheism. You know, I completely accepted her for who she was. I did not judge her in the least and always tried to make her happy...that's all I really wanted...was to have someone wonderful that I could make happy...that I could hold in my arms and share my life with... She could not accept me for who I am. She was actually convinced that by being with me somehow she would be taken away from God. She could not get past that... You know, I am not a bad person and I expect VERY little from others. In a relationship I expect only 2 things: trust and acceptance. If you give me those two things, I will devote part of my life to be there for you, to make you smile, to being the best companion that i can. Do I ask too much? I don't know...I don't have any answers anymore. I really cared for this girl...I was falling in love with her...and just like everyone else, she leaves...simple another false bottom...there's a surprise.

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

dude the hollywood brother is sorry to hear your romance is no mroe but if the hollywood brother remembers correctly brother are you not in a rock and roll band brother? If you are and the hollywood brother is right then go for the groupies and the millions of rock and roll fans. They will love you long after you grow old and feeble brother and your fans will always be there to hear you play the rock and roll just the way the hollywood brother loves it

 

[nessonite1]

Religeon can be a major deal breaker for a lot of people. Im sorry such a promising relationship had to end, alchemy. 🙁

 

[chode]

At least you found out now bro.

 

[nessonite1]

yjg...um...letters...has a point. It became a wedge between my parents after years of marriage and two kids. The mutual heroin addiction didnt help either.

 

[naveltkltr1350]

Hey man, Sorry to hear about the loss of your angel. I worry a lot that imma do something stupid(since I do a lot of stupid things) and lose my angel. Let me tell ya, That you are one of my fave persons on this site. Youre a really cool guy, friendly, and I respect you a lot. If someone couldnt accept you for who you are, then you dont need that person. I know its hard to lose someone, I lost out once before, but this time Im making sure I dont lose her again. If I can do it, I know very well you can find someone who will love and respect you for who you are. I will always call you a friend Alchemy! Here is some others who will also call you a friend 😀

 

[naveltkltr1350]

Oh..looks like some others have stepped forward to also say you are a really good friend! :happy: and a message to any of your haters! :cyclopes:

 

[jj82277]

congradulations on a succesful dating relationship alchemy. why do i say that? the goal of any dating relationship is to be as open and honest as possible and allow the other person to make an educated concious sober and logical decision of how to place their heart. society has morphed it into the idea that it shoulkd be two pepole trying to change themselves to fit together, or make compromises. this young lady just saved you about two years of neurochemical dependance.

 

[lazy_tickler]

damn dude im sorry to hear that. dont worry, theres someone out there for ya. u just gotta find her

 

[laughingboy2000]

Religion, breaking up happy couples since 1 AD. As an atheist I worry about this exact scenario.

 

[SmileyTkls]

Religion, breaking up happy couples since 1 AD. As an atheist I worry about this exact scenario.

I feel for ya, alchemy. However, I have to say that religion has been breaking up couples long before 1 AD, before Christianity came to prominence. Anyhow, the main focus should be that hopefully, you will find another gal who's on the same page, tickling and otherwise, as well as more suited for you in the long run. Keep the hope alive, even though it seems like it is an elusive goal. 😉

 

[alchemy1]

:happy:
Thanks everyone, that was really cool. Those pics rocked navel, they cheered me up quite a bit actually. Yeah...actually, this is the first time that religion has been a stumbling block for me in a relationship. You know...If it wasn't for my music and the band, I don't know how I'd get through life. But
...once again, thanks for puting up with me venting my personal life (As I've said before, I've kinda found a home-away-from-home here).
You all rock.

 

[naveltkltr1350]

Hey man..i was just doing what any friend would do to cheer up someone. Plus..your pics that you post always crack me up. Its a good trend that you started here. Hope all is well with ya and PLAY LOUD!!! ©

 

[AphroditeRabbit]

Hey man, I hope everything is cooled and you aren't so down! Life is such a bummer sometimes...but reasoning why certain things happen can often help. Just wait now until you meet your dream girl and everything DOES go right. You'll be thanking whatever you hold dear that the previous girl let you go so you could be with the one that gives your life meaning. It's hard sometimes, especially when things like this happen, making you wonder what you do to deserve it. I guess these unhappy experiences exist so we truly appreciate the happy ones, and it makes them that much greater. So keep your head up and know that there is someone for everyone, just be careful to be the open friendly person you always are so she doesn't have a hard time finding you! (She's just waiting right now to approach you and ready herself, so when you guys do get together, she can rock your socks off.) Just don't let yourself get into a sinkhole of bad feelings! You'll eventually want to get out, and it will end up being that much harder! Don't worry man, things'll work out, they always do! Sometimes it just takes awhile....worth the wait though!