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non consentual tickling

"First and formost, non-con tickling is known and familiar with our particular group, just the same as tickling as a fetish is known and familiar in our group. Take one step outside of our group into the mainstream, and we're nervous and sometimes even paranoid to "come out" to vanilla friends and family members about our little corner of the sexual universe."

Take one step outside our community and you look to the contract that the model signs before the camera is turned on. The law is the law.

1. Would a vanilla jury of her peers actualy view this as an assault? She was paid to do a bondage scene and even signed a release form afterward and was paid for the services she gave. As we've seen ourselves thanks to the Tyra Banks show alone, tickling is not widely known outside our circle and a vanilla jury could have an impression of it being a harmless, if not playful, act.

It wouldn't necessarily be a jury trial though. Not every legal tussle is resolved by a jury. In the case of a contract, I don't imagine a jury would even come into play. Jury trials are very rare.

Vanilla or not...depends on the wording of the contract. The contract I signed required me to check off the box that said I agree to a non-con scene that included A, B and C.

If it is shown that the contract was violated, then yes, the way would be open for an assault charge to be filed and acted on. If the contract was proven in a civil court to have been violated, you bet your sweet ass a jury would convict assault. They would almost have to.

However, what most people don't realize is that the contracts are pretty specific. Down to agreeing to have limits tested/broken, having safewords ignored, etc. The producers have to do this to stay in business.

2. Would a jury (vanilla or otherwise) even be allowed to hear the case considering that:

...A. Prostitution itself is illegal and her services were obtained through a call-girl agency that would most likely tell her to keep quiet, not to mention that reporting it to the police would put her, herself, in immediate legal trouble (drug dealers don't call the cops when their drugs are stolen) and...

Making a video is not prostitution. Working for an escort agency is not prostitution, unless you are also accepting money in exchange for sex.

Even if the model WAS a prostitute, she still has a legally enforceable contract in her hands for the video. Being a prostitute does not suspend your rights as a citizen. Whether or not the prostitute understands that is another story.

...B. There was no assault charge pressed or reported by the call-girl after being tickled. Therefor a police report (criminal or otherwise) had never been generated to base a civil lawsuit on.

You can file a civil lawsuit without a criminal one. Happens all the time. In fact, if it happened to me...I would not bother with assault charges. They are difficult to make stick even under the best of circumstances, and the punishment tends to be a slap on the wrist. I'd go for their wallets. Much more crippling.

3. Let's say for argument sake that this WAS real and the call-girl that was tickled actually DID take it to court. We've been given so many great arguments on how, despite its tremendously authentic appearance, it was a fake, that in combination with the hurdles I've already mentioned, would make it an extreamly difficult, if not impossible case to persue.

Not difficult at all. Produce the contract. Read it. Look at the video. Compare what was agreed to what actually happened. Viola!

If she consented to a non-consensual scene, or consented to having her limits pushed, or if she agreed to have her safeword ignored...then there are no grounds for a breech of contract or assault charge.
 
"First and formost, non-con tickling is known and familiar with our particular group, just the same as tickling as a fetish is known and familiar in our group. Take one step outside of our group into the mainstream, and we're nervous and sometimes even paranoid to "come out" to vanilla friends and family members about our little corner of the sexual universe."

Take one step outside our community and you look to the contract that the model signs before the camera is turned on. The law is the law.

She did, however, sign a release form that could have included non-con tickling.

1. Would a vanilla jury of her peers actualy view this as an assault? She was paid to do a bondage scene and even signed a release form afterward and was paid for the services she gave. As we've seen ourselves thanks to the Tyra Banks show alone, tickling is not widely known outside our circle and a vanilla jury could have an impression of it being a harmless, if not playful, act.

It wouldn't necessarily be a jury trial though. Not every legal tussle is resolved by a jury. In the case of a contract, I don't imagine a jury would even come into play. Jury trials are very rare.

Agreed. Good point.

Vanilla or not...depends on the wording of the contract. The contract I signed required me to check off the box that said I agree to a non-con scene that included A, B and C.

If it is shown that the contract was violated, then yes, the way would be open for an assault charge to be filed and acted on. If the contract was proven in a civil court to have been violated, you bet your sweet ass a jury would convict assault. They would almost have to.

However, what most people don't realize is that the contracts are pretty specific. Down to agreeing to have limits tested/broken, having safewords ignored, etc. The producers have to do this to stay in business.

The release form she signed could have the non-con scene in it, and, therefor, not be in violation.

2. Would a jury (vanilla or otherwise) even be allowed to hear the case considering that:

...A. Prostitution itself is illegal and her services were obtained through a call-girl agency that would most likely tell her to keep quiet, not to mention that reporting it to the police would put her, herself, in immediate legal trouble (drug dealers don't call the cops when their drugs are stolen) and...

Making a video is not prostitution. Working for an escort agency is not prostitution, unless you are also accepting money in exchange for sex.

Even if the model WAS a prostitute, she still has a legally enforceable contract in her hands for the video. Being a prostitute does not suspend your rights as a citizen. Whether or not the prostitute understands that is another story.

Whether or not the prostitute understands that is but one variable, the other that I offered is if she was working for an escort agency, they could very well have instructed her to keep quiet.

...B. There was no assault charge pressed or reported by the call-girl after being tickled. Therefor a police report (criminal or otherwise) had never been generated to base a civil lawsuit on.

You can file a civil lawsuit without a criminal one. Happens all the time. In fact, if it happened to me...I would not bother with assault charges. They are difficult to make stick even under the best of circumstances, and the punishment tends to be a slap on the wrist. I'd go for their wallets. Much more crippling.

I didn't mention "criminal only"...I said "police report criminal or otherwise" you are correct that you can file a civil lawsuit without a criminal one but you still need an "incident report" 100% of the time, period.

3. Let's say for argument sake that this WAS real and the call-girl that was tickled actually DID take it to court. We've been given so many great arguments on how, despite its tremendously authentic appearance, it was a fake, that in combination with the hurdles I've already mentioned, would make it an extreamly difficult, if not impossible case to persue.

Not difficult at all. Produce the contract. Read it. Look at the video. Compare what was agreed to what actually happened. Viola!

If she consented to a non-consensual scene, or consented to having her limits pushed, or if she agreed to have her safeword ignored...then there are no grounds for a breech of contract or assault charge.

Again, not to beat a dead horse, but she signed the release form AFTER the shoot, making all actions WITHIN the shoot part of the contract.


All in all Samantha, your counter arguments are very good, and I'm not trying to poke holes in your theory. I'm just giving possibilities, that's all.
 
Very good but did you look at the dates those were posted. One was from 2001 and the other was 2002. Long before you were a member. I more than welcome your input as your new here. And if your tired of this well your welcome not to say anything I really dont care its a good subject.


That is because the recent ones were deleted because of the flame wars that erupted....There have been many...:cat:
 
i can see this never getting resolved just like many times before, perhaps it's best to just let one group of people belive one thing and the other to belive the other...? Or else we'l probably yet again fail to hold a conversation about non con without it being a big argument...
 
All in all Samantha, your counter arguments are very good, and I'm not trying to poke holes in your theory. I'm just giving possibilities, that's all.


Consider that Paradise is a reputable company and would not risk their profitablity by producing illegal materials....

Also consider that they are good at advertising and "selling the fantasy"....

Now show me proof that she was indeed a call girl (we dont really know that for sure) and that she did not sign a release and agree to the session....


It is a good way to market to those whose thoughts go that way.....but it is in no way is a true non-con video.....

And I shall end here as it has been beaten to death before....:woot:
 
i can see this never getting resolved just like many times before, perhaps it's best to just let one group of people belive one thing and the other to belive the other...? Or else we'l probably yet again fail to hold a conversation about non con without it being a big argument...

Although I do agree with you, the topic of this matter is one that almost always one that turns sour or into flame wars as Ven mentioned.

I myself have been very guilty of doing that. The topic IS important, and one that could make for good discussion and debate. It simply just tend's to blow out of control too quickly.

It is rather frustrating that it does seem to get brought up a lot, but other topics of EXTREME importance are shoved to the back, once finally brought forward many people realize they have never heard of the topic, or have and never had a chance to really talk about it.
 
"they could very well have instructed her to keep quiet."

That doesn't mean she has to comply though. If the escort agency threatens her, then that is a whole nother lawsuit, lol.

"I didn't mention "criminal only"...I said "police report criminal or otherwise" you are correct that you can file a civil lawsuit without a criminal one but you still need an "incident report" 100% of the time, period."

You would not file a police report for a contract violation. You would call a lawyer to review the contract and see if there was a violation. Then the lawyer would file a lawsuit based on his findings. Example: If my landlord violates the terms of my lease, I dont call the cops. I call a lawyer, or if I know how, I draw up the paperwork myself and file it at the courthouse. They are not going to throw the case out because I didn't call the police. (or maybe I am not understanding you).

If the civil suit concluded that the contract was violated, then that + the video then becomes evidence to file an assault charge (and the statute of limititations is long for violent crimes). And in fact, the DA could file the assault charge whether or not the model wanted to press charges. (They typically don't as they need the cooperation of the victim, but it is possible as seen in domestic violence cases where the victim rarely wants to prosecute.)

"Again, not to beat a dead horse, but she signed the release form AFTER the shoot, making all actions WITHIN the shoot part of the contract."

How do you know this?

But...if retroactive contracts are legal in her state, then it's consensual (unless she can prove she was coerced into signing the contract). It would all rest on the legality of the contract. If it's legal, she consented. If it isn't legal then the producers could be prosecuted under several statutes.

No problem...just giving a model's perspective on the whole situation. The thing with non-con is that as a producer and a model, you *want* it to seem as real as possible. It makes people buy your stuff and talk about your stuff so that more people will buy it. It is marketing. And apparently they did a really good job of it, lol.

Real non-con is a crime and everyone knows it. Idiots who film themselves committing a crime are just providing the evidence the court needs to nail their stupid asses. Just ask R. Kelly =)
 
That is because the recent ones were deleted because of the flame wars that erupted....There have been many...:cat:

I in no way wish to get into a flame war with xSamanthax. She's an intelligent debator who has some very good points and I'm just going over posibilities with her.
 
Although I do agree with you, the topic of this matter is one that almost always one that turns sour or into flame wars as Ven mentioned.

I myself have been very guilty of doing that. The topic IS important, and one that could make for good discussion and debate. It simply just tend's to blow out of control too quickly.

It is rather frustrating that it does seem to get brought up a lot, but other topics of EXTREME importance are shoved to the back, once finally brought forward many people realize they have never heard of the topic, or have and never had a chance to really talk about it.

Yeah thats what i mean babes, i'm saying it's looking like it's gonna blow and perhaps it might just be an idea to drop the disagreement about that video that it always ends up on and focus on the actual subject and what we feel about it rather than weather a video is real or not.? Don't really matter anyway, nothing i say will change anything😀
 
Yeah thats what i mean babes, i'm saying it's looking like it's gonna blow and perhaps it might just be an idea to drop the disagreement about that video that it always ends up on and focus on the actual subject and what we feel about it rather than weather a video is real or not.? Don't really matter anyway, nothing i say will change anything😀

I know. :justlips: You've been here mucho longer so you know the outcome of a lot of these topics..

Again, this could be such a good debate if we ALL could keep a lid on emotion..

Perhaps this one will work. :triangle:
 
I in no way wish to get into a flame war with xSamanthax. She's an intelligent debator who has some very good points and I'm just going over posibilities with her.

Flame wars are overrated. =P We are having a nice discussion about it, hopefully others will follow suit.
 
I know. :justlips: You've been here mucho longer so you know the outcome of a lot of these topics..

Again, this could be such a good debate if we ALL could keep a lid on emotion..

Perhaps this one will work. :triangle:

I certainly hope so, it's going ok so far but then again it always does. It would be nice if this time the subject doesnt get lost in flames... I've put my thoughts in anyway, gonna sit back and see what other people think now, and i'l try and ignore the debate about that bloody video 😛
 
i think there should be a rule stating "if you open a thread discussing peoples views on non con then you must also open a seperate thread for people to debate that paradise video that always come up" that would be cool! :woot:
 
the simple answer is yes.

everyone on this forum is on a spectrum. on the extremem left is complete utter sociopathic play. on the right is what i call pleasure giver, doms only interested in providing a safe play enviornment for the mutual fulfillment of fantasies for both them and primarily the SUB.

where you fall on that spectrum in this simplified model would indicate the type of noncon fantasies that you like.

the interesting thing is lees. the ones who sign contracts to be kidnapped and read about the scenarios and become sexually excited.

now for me the difference in moral connotation comes from whether or not you choose one of these wonderful lees who enjoy stringent non-con roleplay or you actually want to nab a vanilla and force tickle them against their will and in no way for their gratification. that level of sociopathic behavior is wrong and in my oppinion constitutes sexual assault-(even though there are very popular stories about it on this forum).

the scary thing that i am finding is that among lees the actual manifestations of sociopathic behavior is far far more intense than that of lers.
 
anyway, i guess i better include my thoughts for good measure.

personally the idea of non con really interests me regardless to how twisted its reality is. ive often fantasized about it and deep down would absalutely love to carry it out but morals, laws and basic common sense steer me in the opposite direction... lucky for me im quite sane.

same with produced clips of non con, we all know that none of them.. regardless to how real some of them look are genuine, and that ruins it for me to be honest, i know itl probably never happen but if a REAL non con video WAS ever produced somehow and got thru all the legal stuff which i would imagine is near impossible i would have no respect for the monster that did something like that to a human being, and would be very angry and would be all for getting the evil fu%7"er locked away!! BUT, i would LOVE to see the video as well 😉 maybe im a sinner, but curiosity would take its toll there i think,

BINGO!!! now your getting what Im saying man. See the point is you would LOVE to see the video. Its not a matter of right or wrong its a question of plain human morbid curiousity. Its about covering our eyes with our fingers spread open enough to peep out, yet we say how utterly discusting this is. thanks for your honesty. As for pointing out the history of this subject Im all to aware this was talked about before, but look at the response so far.
 
BINGO!!! now your getting what Im saying man. See the point is you would LOVE to see the video. Its not a matter of right or wrong its a question of plain human morbid curiousity. Its about covering our eyes with our fingers spread open enough to peep out, yet we say how utterly discusting this is. thanks for your honesty. As for pointing out the history of this subject Im all to aware this was talked about before, but look at the response so far.

Hehe, i got it to start with, just originaly wasn't gonna write the same thing i wrote last time yet again, however during my search for the link to the last thread i discoved something,this detailed view i've put here that i posted in the last one got deleted along with the whole thread due to a flame war so i figured i could repost it.. Just this once more 😀 anyway back to the topic, yeah i totally agree, its wrong but alot of things we want and do are wrong, like watching people braking limbs in skating accident on youtube, they're in the worst pain they may ever feel and we(well alot of us) find entertainment in it. Not exactly the same but you catch my drift..
 
Exactly, Doll. The point was to re-inform the new group of the topic of conversation. I have been here enough for three different non-con threads.

Two of which I have expressed an opinion on.

I appreciate your concern as to my ability to respond and discuss a post..I am fully capable of making that descion on my own. Thank you. 🙂

Non-con is a personal preference. One built up mentally, physically and psychologically.

Many legitimitley can NOT handle any term, reference or situation that is based on non-con.

Then there are the ones as mentioned that are curious and almost unsure of if they would/do really enjoy it whether it be by reading a story, watching a video or experiencing it in a play scenario.

Natural instinct is to automatically say/think "Non-con is bad." In many aspects of life this is 100% true.

In aspects of play? Well, to me. If it IS play.. I don't see anything wrong with it. With the right person/personality it can make for a pretty intense 'session' (I hate that word, but it's all I can think of.)

Naturally, I am not going to enjoy hearing or witnessing a girl/guy getting raped legitimitley against their will.

And many people have a hard time seperating fact from fiction, this making it difficult for them to decide/realize that they may actually enjoy a situation involving non-con as long as it is used strictly in the context of play, and is done with someone you trust.

The thread's we're posted to give other's a chance to gather other inputs from previous poster's whether they want to post on them is their descion.

If you notice the after-care thread was a damn near 5 year old thread, and was brought back to life, and by positive reinforcement. So although, I get wanting to have a individual thread there are still others out there. :triangle:

Thanks so much for your well thought out and most carefully crafted response. That is what I was seeking in the first place. Your initial response of simply putting in 2 highlights from previous post and simply no response of your own just sends me the wrong message. It tells me I was wasting my time and your post came clearly after two others said this was an old subject. My initial impression is that you were in general agreement with the prior two posters. But to me this is clearly a hot button topic and bears bringing up again and again as there are always new people here. If your intension was to simply point people in the right direction without malice or disrepect to me, I have no problem with that and thank you for it. Peace out.
 
That is because the recent ones were deleted because of the flame wars that erupted....There have been many...:cat:

Yeah but people clearly want to talk of this Venray. Or should we go back to the lame "How ticklish is your girlfriend" or "Are you Barefoot or not" threads. I see so much lame childish dreck here somtimes I want to puke. Lets just hope people can comport themselves this time around. 😛
 
YOU'RE NOT?????

Aw, damn!!!! I was so looking forward.

and you can get VD from the toilet seat, but it's more comfortable in a bed.

I think ive just made the exception...im coming for you Jean...you will be kidnapped, held at ransom and tickled with a feather between your toes to insanity until I get my 2 grand that im holding you for.

Then inbetween while giving you a break...I shall run to the bathroom in the log cabin im holding you in and disinfect the toilet seat and make it nice and shiney...just to insure I wont ever get VD from it.
 
I know. :justlips: You've been here mucho longer so you know the outcome of a lot of these topics..

Again, this could be such a good debate if we ALL could keep a lid on emotion..

Perhaps this one will work. :triangle:

Flames are not new here read the politics and religion section. I too would like to see this work. My intention was not to start a flame war but for intelligent discourse amoung adults. But we need to push the envelope a little somtimes.
 
i think there should be a rule stating "if you open a thread discussing peoples views on non con then you must also open a seperate thread for people to debate that paradise video that always come up" that would be cool! :woot:

There are only so many hours in the day!!😱
 
Hehe, i got it to start with, just originaly wasn't gonna write the same thing i wrote last time yet again, however during my search for the link to the last thread i discoved something,this detailed view i've put here that i posted in the last one got deleted along with the whole thread due to a flame war so i figured i could repost it.. Just this once more 😀 anyway back to the topic, yeah i totally agree, its wrong but alot of things we want and do are wrong, like watching people braking limbs in skating accident on youtube, they're in the worst pain they may ever feel and we(well alot of us) find entertainment in it. Not exactly the same but you catch my drift..

Man who remembers what you said 6 months or a year ago? This is now, I dont remember what I said an hour ago somtimes.
 
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