Non-ticklish - like or dislike?

[SlaverTickler]

I would prefer a ticklish woman, but if she isn't ticklish thats not the biggest of issues. As long as she understands my needs in other ways I can get around it, it won't be easy but I would do it.

 

[ovation]

OK I am completely new to this forum and stumbled across it googling as I am educating myself on tickling. I thought perhaps I could offer an interesting perspective as a woman who is not ticklish 🙂

I had never thought of it and even disliked the idea and then met a friend who was into tickling....receiving...being the 'ticklee'...and I was turned off for a long time to getting to know them even. I had experimented a handful of times knowing they enjoyed this alot. I just didn't 'get it' back then. THEN one day a few months ago...a year maybe...I decided to look googling stories, videos, LEARNING WHY this was so important for him. I was turned on by his desire within it. The energy that was given from being tickled and I also enjoy watching the happiness that occurrs no matter how 'aweful' the tickling may seem.

AGAIN...I do not enjoy being tickled. HOWEVER the same hand contact to myself from him turns me on extremely much though not tickle feeling. One afternoon he mingled it and started to tickle me. While nothing happened drectly I decided to relax into the contact...all of a sudden I started laughing. I had an actual ticklish moment or two and it is my firm belief that if he had continued I might have learned what that was after a while.

Sometimes the most fun is learning each others tastes for things. He has learned I like things that he himself does not. Sharing means you learn and expand inside yourself. I now enjoy tickling him IMMENSELY even if I myself am not anywhere near that desire for myself. And unless I am mistaken he says I am very good at it naturally.

Ya never will know what is inside a non-ticklish person until you 'gently' prod them to do to you what you love to have done.

I hope that offers some positive insite from a non-ticklish woman. 🙂

Thanks for the post tickle me pink, it was an interesting, intelligent and insightful response and great to know there is at least one non-ticklish female here on this forum. I'm interested in both sides of the tickling equation, so appreciate your input. 🙂

 

[huskys]

Sure. However you want to put it. 🙂

It's interesting. Some people seem to define tickling as a specific action, like stroking fingers over someone else's skin, performed by a 'ler. Others seem to define it by the reaction of the 'lee: it's only "tickling" if the 'lee reacts to it that way. And yeah, I personally tend towards the logic of that second camp.

Well said!!! 😀
Tickling 'lers' tend to get the most satisfaction from watching their lee squirm and laugh. (As has been indicated in many previous posts on this forum)
Therefore the answer to the original question of like or dislike non-ticklish lees, would be obvious to most lers. They would obviously prefer the lee to be ticklish.
The question of light and erotic touch and massage is a completely different thing altogether. I personally enjoy both. Simply because sometimes you can be in the mood for tickling, and other times not. Either way, as long as everyone is happy, what does it matter!!!

 

[isabeau]

A woman who isn't ticklish to me is like a woman who can't have sex.

wow that sounds a bit callous to me.....for real???? wow....

 

[huskys]

wow that sounds a bit callous to me.....for real???? wow....

Yeah, does sound a bit harsh!!!

 

[Morpheus72]

Personally, as long as she's enjoying it then it doesn't matter whether she's giggling hysterically, or zoning out with a dreamy smile.

Her satisfaction is my own, and I wouldn't enjoy it if it hurt her; even if she was laughing her head off. I've been down that road where I know that laughter doesn't mean she's having fun; that illusion ends the minute the laughter stops. So, in that vein; lack of laughter doesn't mean she's not enjoying it...

I agree with this, as well. As a 'lee, I'm only traditionally "ticklish" in a couple spots, but I enjoy the sensuality of tickling immensely! With respect to my partner, I focus on her enjoyment as well as my own. That means, even though I like tickling and playing with feet, she doesn't enjoy it, so I refrain from doing it. It's all about mutual enjoyment.

In response to the OP, whether I like or dislike non-ticklish women depends on how I feel about her as a whole. Before this turns into an "I'm not like that" post, I will say that if a woman doesn't find sensual tickling erotic, then that does work against her. We all have the things we like 🙂

Morph

 

[paracarl44]

Non Ticklish Women.

I have had women say that they Wished They Were Ticklish.

 

[ovation]

I have had women say that they Wished They Were Ticklish.

That's interesting. I wonder what their motives were, apart from wanting people to tickle them and experience that sensation? I have heard girls saying they wish they weren't ticklish because people were always tickling them and they did't like it.

Maybe it's a case of our always wanting what we can't have or can't do? But it's interesting that some wish they were ticklish and some wish they weren't, both sides wishes are understandable in their own right, me thinks! 🙂

 

[LoveSoles81]

I like a challenge!

 

[911]

That IMO is too bad, so sad for you!

If your tickling fetish is that strong, there may be a problem down the road for you. You have to intelligently know that there are plently of non-ticklish women who are very sexual. Unfortunately they're not sexual enough for you. I'm really glad that this tickling passion doesn't control me to this level; there would be so many men I'd never know otherwise.

In all fairness I've never had sex with anyone but myself, but yea I do think it's that bad. Thanks for reminding me, now I'm going to go cry for along time asking God why I'm so messed up. I could have sex with a non ticklish woman but I believe sex is for marriage and I wouldn't marry a non ticklish woman. P.S if the chance for premarrital sex came up I may or may not say no.

 

[Robbie36]

non-ticklish

I have to say that I have been shocked by some of the posts people have made. I myself do not know whether I'm ticklish or not which is strange I know. Most of my friends are ticklish not really jealous of them. I wouldn't be upset if my friend of mine wasn't ticklish although many are already I accept the fact.

 

[ovation]

I have to say that I have been shocked by some of the posts people have made. I myself do not know whether I'm ticklish or not which is strange I know. Most of my friends are ticklish not really jealous of them. I wouldn't be upset if my friend of mine wasn't ticklish although many are already I accept the fact.

I agree with you, although I wasn't shocked by some of the responses. It does appear that many do need their partner or lee to be hysterically ticklish to enjoy their fetish which is absolutely fine and I think it's great too, but there are other sides to tickling that I personally feel are just as wonderful and rewarding in their own right. I personally have had some very pleasant experiences with non-ticklish girls and so I wouldn't be put off by that, others obviously are, but that's okay, we are all individual and all have our own needs and wants.

Ticklish girls are wonderful and so are non-ticklish girls, I love both, it's the enjoyment of tickling and the experiences it brings that truly count for me, but that's just my personal belief. As long as all concerned are enjoying the experience, that is all that matters, there is no right or wrong here, just preference!

Happy tickling everyone, enjoy your experiences . . . 🙂

 

[Atickler1]

I totally enjoy being tickled on my feet or underarms...anywhere actually! The use of fingers or feathers on my feet, pits, inner thighs, or anywhere I totally enjoy. The sensual feeling of a soft touch between my toes excites me big time! Now, before you think otherwise I am totally and completely not ticklish in the least. I love the feelings of being tickled and I think a woman who also is not the least bit ticklish might enjoy the sensations as much as I do!
I have had all but one girlfriend who was ticklish at least one or two spots, the one girlfriend was like me completely unticklish. Both of us craved the feeling of fingers, feathers or brushes on our underarms, feet, sides, ribs, etc. and enjoyed it to no end! Being a non-ticklish person doesn't make us bad in bed, on the contrary, we were more turned on for sex because we could enjoy the sensations without jerking away from them and these ticklish areas on most people are highly erotic turn-on areas for us non-ticklish. I don't jerk away and laugh, I take the sensation and totally enjoy it...I crave it!

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I prefer her to be ticklish but if she isnt atleast I gave it shot and beg her tickle the crap out if me