Not enough female lers.

[TKLVR181]

Another thing is that these are more than just tickle one-nighters to me. Most of the people I rp with I know on a first-name basis and talk to at other times than when I'm just rping.

 

[CuddlyCanadian]

Like meeee! 😀

 

[Deadly Ticklish1]

Well I've rp'd with other people and it's worked out usually, but it just seems to be an issue on this site. RP's with people I talk to more often are much better.

 

[StarkMaximum]

I have made an effort to take my own advice here and sort of give and take. Some guy, or girl, acting stupidly leeish, playfully insulting me and sticking their tongue out? I chase 'em down and tickle 'em til they uncle out.

Interesting to keep in mind...

 

[Rox_My_Sox1]

You have to remember bondage and even tickle torture are games that more often than not rely on "TRUST". It's hard enough for a person (and especially hard for a woman) to enter into a COMPLETELY submissive and helpless position (especially when the person in control is a man that you may have only been on a few dates with).

As for online roleplaying, remember that when your online you almost ALWAYS don't know who is ON THE OTHER END of the monitor. You could end up doing a online bondage/tickle torture roleplay with a MINOR and not even KNOW IT. I'm not saying this stuff isn't fun to do, but there are RISKS INVOLVED with BDSM and there have been people who have undergone this risk and ended up VIOLATED.

That said, I recommend you find someone whom your attracted to (in real life) and begin working on a relationship involving TRUST. The results might surprise you.

 

[Deadly Ticklish1]

^as correct as you are that wasn't really the point I was getting at. In fact I'm kinda stating the opposite of what you were saying. From what I've seen the majority of females are trying to get themselves in those situations as far as RPing goes. I'm saying there's been a lack of female lers or switches. Trust isn't as big of a factor when your the one in control of the situation, and the majority of males, on a site like this at least, are open to being on the receiving end.

 

[jtikly28]

I'm a tickler, but have only actually tied up and tickled someone once. As far as roleplaying goes, not sure if I'd be into that or not.

 

[LightFooted]

So far i have only roleplayed once as a lee, Not that i dont like it, But everyone one i chat to is a lee as well so im always the Ler. I dont really mind it i would like to be tickled every now and again

 

[Feline1]

Well grngrl1 the only reasonable way to know if you would is to try that. 🙂

 

[BlackDragonScar]

I agree with feline, just try it out for a bit. like have someone tie u up and tickle u for a little bit, if you don't like it, they won't do it again.

 

[RangerLoki]

I'd like to echo the getting to know somebody mentality.
I'm a tickler, but when somebody pops on my radar and starts with the a/s/l, followed directly by "okay tickle me (paraphrasing)," I get put off.
I don't always role-play. But when I do, it's with someone I'm a regular with. (Man or woman, doesn't matter.)
http://tiny.cc/3570nw

On the other hand, you'll get a lot of that women going after women business, it's true. But more often than not, they aren't who they say they are anyway... if you know what I mean.
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[Smoten]

I don't always role-play. But when I do, it's with someone I'm a regular with.

Stay thirsty, my friends.

Jokes aside, I like to role play. My personal experience is with pen and paper RPGs, my favorites being Dungeon & Dragons, Pathfinder, Exalted, Shadowrun, Heroes System, Rifts and BESM. I've never done RP involving tickling, but it's something I'm willing to try. To me, the solution to the problem of not enough female lers is for more lees to learn to take turns. You can't always just be the lee; I think that's kind of selfish. For any forward progress to be made, we must relearn what we learned in kindergarten; to share and be considerate to others.

 

[Deadly Ticklish1]

well I think switching keeps things interesting. You get to see how someone else tickles and react to it or vice versa tickle someone else and see their reaction. When one person's getting tickled and the other is tickling all the time it gets repetitive. Now you could say "well once you switch back it just gets repetitive," but I find that a little role switching between makes it refreshing and you're more likely to try new things after you've seen the other side.

 

[drew70]

I've been a male lee for a long time. With the exception of a few dry spells here and there, I've had little to no difficulty finding willing female lers. The key to success is not to play it up as a fetish, but more of a fun thing to do. If a woman likes you, and knows you like being tickled, it'll happen.

Unfortunately some guys are desperate for tickling, and women smell that desperation a mile away. To those guys, I would advise shelving your desire no matter how strong it is. Get to know a girl first. Find one that likes you, and then SLOWLY introduce the idea over time.

 

[Barefoot_Sis]

THIS:

Well that's just it. At least in my experience they really don't care that much. They just want to get tickled most of the time. Most will just ignore any signs of a ler wanting to get tickled.

It's not the desperation that people can smell a mile away, it's this. This sort of attitude. Some people could have just been tickled 6 out of the last 6 days, and still they are like "I'm just here to take care of me."