Not ticklish partner

[Lilmysterious818]

Long time lurker, first time poster.

I've always been turned on by tickling. Past partners I've had I'd incorporate tickling and I could finish no problem.

Now, current partner is not ticklish and I have a hard time "finishing" during sex.

Has anyone else had similar issues?

 

[maniactickler]

This is why i do recon. find out if your partner is ticklish before committing.

 

[Ghostwriter727]

Long time lurker, first time poster.

I've always been turned on by tickling. Past partners I've had I'd incorporate tickling and I could finish no problem.

Now, current partner is not ticklish and I have a hard time "finishing" during sex.

Has anyone else had similar issues?

Are there any other traits about her that you could focus on that stimulate your libido? Boobs, feet, feeling her ass?

Having more than just one or two turn ons helps you become a bit more versatile sexually speaking.
Her not being ticklish is a bummer, but maybe it could help you focus on other attributes.

Just a thought.🤙

 

[Black Lotus Documents]

Yeah, it is my current situation. I like feet so I can focus on those as well, but I am not into those as much as tickling, so it is quite a bummer 🙁...

As others suggested in this post and in related ones, make sure to pick a ticklish partner since the beginning

 

[U.N.Owen]

I can't say if it would work for you, but I would suggest trying light, sensuous stroking of the areas where you wish you could tickle her - using fingers, soft brushes, etc. - hopefully causing her to have squirming erotic excitement. It's not actual tickling, but it's the next best thing. Combining that with light restraint might make it feel more satisfying as well.

 

[Cave In]

I've been in that situation. I found thinking about past tickling experiences helps me.

 

[ihatethisyo]

Now, current partner is not ticklish

If you don’t mind me asking, how long have you two been together? I know this might sound delusional, but don’t give up just yet.

Ticklishness is complicated and isn’t a simple binary physical trait. There are many mental and emotional factors involved, and I’ve found that as couples grow closer in intimacy and trust, ticklish vulnerability often increases. That’s why tickling strangers is usually less effective than tickling someone close, like a spouse or family member.

 

[Esm00ve]

Is she someone you enjoy being with outside of tickling? I totally understand how hard it is to not be able to indulge with your SO, but maybe there are other traits that you can compromise with like others have suggested. I obviously don't know your situation, but maybe she will let you get your tickle fix with a trusted person?
Good relationships are hard to come by. Maybe yall can tickle someone together?