TKLVR18 said:
Exactly. I think I said it like, "I don't know anybody here who'd do that" or something like that 😎
My saying it doesn't make it any truer unfortunately, unless people honestly believe that about themselves.
I am unaffect by this all, as I do not have the fetish, but still, I would wish that people are confident enough that they don't have to be slighted by people who are unlike them to begin with.
I'm tired of seeing this "he's giving us a bad rep" deal. Theres nothing you can do about that, so don't try or bother thinking about it. People are going to think whatever they want to think, whether they're fetishists or not. Many people have already pre-judged you, so theres nothing to defend.
Theres no honor involved either, nor any need for a pride you'll never show in public anyway. Your cries fall on deaf ears because you're speaking amongst yourselves as an afterthought, and in retrospect, but nothing is being done, nor can anything be done.
The only positive alternative is to let these rejects do what they feel they have to do, and let the law take care of the rest.
They are criminals, treat them like criminals. By showing any sympathy for their plight, you are allowing them and their fate to affect you. These types of riff raff only bring down your own self esteem and feelings for your fetish. Its people like this that make you doubt who and what you are.
If you want to avoid that, simply don't pay these rejects any mind. Let them screw up, let them get in trouble, and let them pay for it.
What they do has nothing to do with you, and the sooner you all realize that, the better off you will be. This can't be stressed enough or too many times.
They are on a different level to begin with. Let them stoop further. It doesn't affect you. Let them f*ck up, and rather than lament about it, laugh your ass off. Thats good medicine and advice.