The back massage was the same for me when it came to one of my greatest tickling conquests, my college girlfriend!
Are you your man's dominant tickler, or does he tickle you, too, Elphaba?

He is my dominant tickler, he doesn't like to be tickled, he much prefers to do the tickling! 😀 which suits me juuuuust fine ! haha although he knows better than to tickle me during a massage as I get too relaxed and annoyed if he ruins my relaxation hahaha !