I think for me that word would have to be gleeful . I want a 'ler who is enjoying driving me all kinds of crazy and wants me to know it. I can't enjoy myself if I think the 'ler is just 'phoning it in', just doing it for 'my sake'. The only time I can really let go and act like a flustered, desperate 'lee is when the ler is being taunting, grinning, and downright gleefully playful