Opening up your tickling fetish

[waitin2btkled]

I use to be so shy about having this fetish. What would people think of me, what if someone found out ect....

Few things I learned as I grew comfortable -

* By having a friend(s) to talk to about it opened me up.

* Meeting someone who ended up having a foot fetish (nothing but luck)

* Telling a girl who knows most about me and i'm most comfortable with. (Who is really ticklish 😉

My friend immediately responded how often in relationships, it gets boring in the bedroom with their spouse. Girls often start "fake" having orgasms & many other things guys don't realize they do. Especially at that point, your spouse is looking to liven things up in the bedroom. She told me that the tickling, bondage, blindfolds ect... gives me such an advantage than most other guys that don't know anything about that world.

Right after she said that, I felt really lifted up and thought about that for days. She is so right. Plus, so many more people out there who have secret fetishes or interests you wouldn't believe without having an open mind. I would say 1 out of every 5 in their 20s & 30s either have or is intrigued by having a fetish or playing with some kind of bdsm.


Just wanted to share that with everyone.

All those going to NEST - See you soon

 

[Onlyfornow]

I, sadly, have still not opened up about it to many...only girlfriends and a few select friends have been told, and it's the ones that I know are open to it in the first place. I'm hoping to change that as I earn more years under my belt.

 

[Oekaki-Tickles]

Hello all!

Presently I'm 22... and I draw tickling fetish art! The funny thing is... my family, friends, girlfriend and my art teacher all know what I do.

They all think it's rather funny. So, I've been rather blessed so far. :3

 

[fordtech30]

I've never had a problem getting women to let me tie them up and tickle them. Most that have never heard of a tickle fetish actually discover that they like it.

 

[rhiannon]

Seriously?? A lot of women you meet let you tie them and tickle them?? I would say that is really unusual, you seem to be a truly lucky person! 🙂

 

[Oekaki-Tickles]

Seriously?? A lot of women you meet let you tie them and tickle them?? I would say that is really unusual, you seem to be a truly lucky person! 🙂

There are a LOT of women open to new things... especially if you know what kinds of personalities to look out for. :3

 

[rhiannon]

I am open for new stuff too, but there are things that I just don't like! 🙂 And for a lot of people I know, tickling would be one of them! 🙂

 

[Oekaki-Tickles]

I am open for new stuff too, but there are things that I just don't like! 🙂 And for a lot of people I know, tickling would be one of them! 🙂

Ah. This can be true... but we find that you girls tend to have a little give if we give up some way in return. :3

 

[rhiannon]

I am not sure I understand what you mean here. 🙂

 

[Oekaki-Tickles]

Well... what I mean to say is, if a guy is willing to do something he wouldn't normally do for you, then you might be more willing to do something for him that you wouldn't normally do.

I forget the saying that goes with this... something similar to an "Eye for an Eye"... except not as crude or devious. xD;

 

[rhiannon]

You know...I've always hated it when I got the feeling my partner is doing something sexual just to do me a favor. It kills a lot, maybe even all of the fun! I would rather not do something at all than as a favor.

Plus, the experience is just so much more intense when both partners are into it.

 

[JS805]

Well... what I mean to say is, if a guy is willing to do something he wouldn't normally do for you, then you might be more willing to do something for him that you wouldn't normally do.

I forget the saying that goes with this... something similar to an "Eye for an Eye"... except not as crude or devious. xD;

Well when I first read your previous post and Rhiannon said she wasn't sure what you meant...the first thing that popped into my head as an explanation was "you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours." Is that the phrase you were looking for?

 

[rhiannon]

Doesn't always work, either. I know two people who were a couple for a while. She was into peeing, he was into tickling. Uhm....it didn't work! 🙂

 

[JS805]

Well did she want to be peed on or did she want to do the peeing?

 

[rhiannon]

I have no idea, but I guess he found it disgusting either way. 🙂