Others tickling your significant other?

[birdburdy]

I have it on good authority that you shouldn't ever let Kujman do it.

Why?

 

[FLBowler]

I agree, that if a guy was doing that to my Gf i would not like it, because it could be flirting, but it is a more general question, then just as tickling. So in general i don't let guys touch my girl unless it is a harmless hug between good friends, or they are gay, since i don't feel a threat around them. (not trying to piss anyone off with that statement)

 

[Fink]

It's always been a fantasy of mine to watch another like-minded tickle person tickle my wife's feet as long as I'm watching (and eventually joining in).

Can't see it being everyone's cup of tea though, I'd imagine I'm in the minority!

 

[Krissy124]

other women can tickle my husband as long as I am there. He lets other men tickle me so its only fair that I let him get tickled by other women 🙂

 

[vryticklishfeet]

This never works

I see this topic come up every once in awhile and its fun to watch some people go on about how liberated and secure they are in the relationship and about how they never get upset.

The plain and simple truth here is that it depends on multiple factors. If you aren't all that in love with your girl then it is not that big a deal to share her with others, or maybe you are in love but have a strong kinky factor where watching your lady being given the once over by someone else is your thing.

I have seen these scenarios happen in REAL life and its never as simple as anyone says. Anytime you invite a third party into the relationship dynamic, unknown variables exist. How would you feel, honestly feel if you were very much in love with your partner, arrange for someone to tickle them while you watch and then discover right of the bat that the other person is a much better tickler than you? Or that this other person seems to know how to better tickle your significant other? This wouldn't bum you out just a tad? Then later on your partner goes on and on about what a awesome tickler that person was and no matter how much you try you just cant tickle her the way he did ( and no this did not happen to me )

I guess what I am trying to say is that the fantasy is always better than the reality. I have seen extremely secure people completely broken down over the exploration of this kind of fantasy, with extremely bad outcomes.

I am sure there does exist people that may be able to pull it off but I also bet they are not being honest about how they really feel about their partner.

Just my crazy observation

 

[Krissy124]

I agree, that if a guy was doing that to my Gf i would not like it, because it could be flirting, but it is a more general question, then just as tickling. So in general i don't let guys touch my girl unless it is a harmless hug between good friends, or they are gay, since i don't feel a threat around them. (not trying to piss anyone off with that statement)

I agree, I don't know if I am totally comfortable with other women tickling my husband, but when he said he wanted to get tickled at NEST by other women I was wary. I have been hurt a lot in pretty much all my relationships. I just don't trust other women

 

[vryticklishfeet]

Instincts

It is sad that in these times most people are so jaded that they feel it hard to trust anyone. I have always found that if you trust your gut feelings or instinct on any given situation you can not go wrong. If you ask yourself why most relationships turned out bad, I will bet that was because you ignored your instincts and did what the other person tricked you into doing.

 

[Mash]

It is sad that in these times most people are so jaded that they feel it hard to trust anyone. I have always found that if you trust your gut feelings or instinct on any given situation you can not go wrong. If you ask yourself why most relationships turned out bad, I will bet that was because you ignored your instincts and did what the other person tricked you into doing.

Instincts don't take moral and ethic codes into consideration. I can think of a menagerie of situations where that could go terribly, terribly wrong. Not all of them related to tickling or a fetish in any way, shape or form, so this post is going off topic... just wanted to point that out.

 

[FLBowler]

I agree, I don't know if I am totally comfortable with other women tickling my husband, but when he said he wanted to get tickled at NEST by other women I was wary. I have been hurt a lot in pretty much all my relationships. I just don't trust other women

I understand where you are coming from, I have learned that people don't really respect relationships as much anymore, there aren't boundaries to them. Luckily i have not been hurt by this, but i have been confronted by it several times.

 

[Ishaanshah]

i don't think this is a good idea that ones wife/girlfriend is tickled by others is good.
personally i am not interested to sea that my girlfriend is being got tickled by others. i don't want any one to touch my beloveds body part by a stranger.

 

[teaparty]

I'm always incredibly turned on at the thought of my guyfriend inflicting tickle torture on another female, while I watch !