-> Jude38
I see your point, but mine is probably different. Maybe we don't share the same outlook.
So, let me say a feather is not blatant or plain. Not *that* much.
Just as tickling is sexual only for tickle-fetishists, a feather is just a feather for most people.
It can be seen as a quill, or part of a wing, and it could remind of art, of writing, of flight. Nothing inherently sexual or fetish-related.
I don't feel part of a secret society either. I don't think someone in europe is out to make fun of me. 🙂
While some people might be turned off by tickling, tickling-fetish is not something completely alien, or incompatible with "vanilla sex".
With all due respect, it is not "golden shower" or "scat": you can tickle your friends or mates without letting them understand how much it means to you.
Other fetishes are much more conspicuous or blatant. That's why I don't see the need for a cryptic symbol.
I feel something too complex might draw attention, and raise questions a plain feather would never raise.
If you have to follow a dress code, wearing a simple feather device [a pin for instance] could be a viable way to personalize your clothes.
A complex geometric symbol on the other hand might be more questionable and defeat your prime purpose: secrecy.
This said, hey, by all means, wear whatever you wish guys. 😀
Reg's.