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outed myself!! wtf do I do??

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alixandrya

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So I was chatting with a member from the forum, and my... mom... simultaneously in iMessage.... I typed out my whole response to the friend and didn't notice that it was in my mom's chat window. And since you can't unsend a message, my mom was super confused. I tried to explain it away, saying I was talking to a work friend and wrote it in the wrong window. And all she said was, "We'll talk tomorrow" and signed off.

WTF?! What do I do? 😕 :angry:
 
I think the best thing to do is be honest and open about it with your mom, she's your mom no matter what your into I'm sure she will understand. It will be scary and even embarrassing to talk about but I think this could lead to a very positive and happy outcome. This wasn't the way you may have wanted it to come out(if you wanted it to come out at all) who knows maybe this will something you can laugh off and explain away but if she wants to know more and asks questions the best advice is just to open up about it, be honest and really talk it out. Best of Luck
 
I agree with Angel, she's your mom and it wont matter to her what your kinks are. She is probably just shocked to be fair 🙂 At the end of the day, as Kinks go, being tickled isnt really that bad is it
 
The advice given here is good, however without knowing the nature of your conversation, there could be more you might have to explain. Such as, if you were "role playing" or fantasizing, or describing a tickling/sex fantasy, your Mom might just be legitimately concerned and worried for you safety and well being. If the text of the message were more mundane than those scenarios, then if should be easier to calm her fears. After all, whether or not you want to think so, as far as she's concerned, you're still her baby! And she want's to make sure you are safe.
 
Be brief but honest. Tell her in general terms what it was about, and then draw the privacy line. She doesn't have any automatic right to know this level of detail about your personal life.

Believe me, she doesn't want to be any more involved in your sex life, than you want her there.
 
Before "panic" sets in so far nothings happened. So your mom said we'll talk tomorrow...that does mean that she will want to talk about what she "thinks" she saw....my advice is if you're really not wanting to divulge your fetish to her don't bring it up! If she brings it up , then divulge basic general statements to the level YOU are comfortable with....im sure mom isn't going to insist upon you giving up every detail about a personal issue!
 
Her response could be a supportive talk. It doesn't have to be a lecture. Even if it is, you can know you did nothing wrong. You have nothing to be ashamed of.
 
ya never know... Mom may fess up that she too has a fetish or two... then it gets .... awkward. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree sometimes.
 
trust me, she doesn't want to know any more than you want her to know. you'll get the talk about being safe, and protecting yourself, but that's ok too. as all the others have said, she's your mother and more than likely loves you! you'll still be expected at thanksgiving!

steve
 
If she gets really mean, or just goes nuts, just scream "YOU FUCKING MADE ME THIS WAY!!!!!! WHY??!!! WHY CAN'T I BE NORMAL?!!!!!!! WHY DID YOU DO THIS TO MEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

That'll calm her down....

(That's a joke, unless it IS a highly negative, condemning talk. Then by all means, pull that baby out and shout it.....)

Just let her know, if she's asking, "Yeah mom, I like tickling. Liked it my whole life. Will like it for the rest of my life." If she's expecting you to "change," or "quit," or
whatever.

That advice goes well for anyone in a relationship talk as well, since I'm sure many women (and uptight guys) wait for their guy or girl to "give it up," later on in the relationship.

"No, babe, this ain't 'going away.' I'll be tickling you when I'm 60 years old, so I hope you like laughing..."
 
Don't panic. I don't know your relationship with your mom is but, if your profile is to be believed, you're an adult and mom is probably aware of that. I live with my super conservative grandmother and a few weeks ago I kind of let drop "my friends online", thinking she was going to freak out that I have friends I've never met. She didn't and now asks about you guys sometimes xD

My point is, don't let panic be your default setting. Things hardly ever go as bad as fear tells you they will. Depending on your situation, as others above me have mentioned, you may want to decide to say something different depending on what it was you accidentally sent her. But don't freak, you're an adult. Just have an adult conversation and, if you don't want to be specific, don't.

~K
 
Agree with all the others....apparently, you are 28 (give or take a few), so an adult. You can do as you please. As a parent myself, guess I could ask my daughters all sorts of questions, but once they were 21, it's really none of my business (as long as it wasn't harming them). You could always counter with, "so what turns you on.." or something like that.
 
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