Penis: How big is to big?

[chicago]

I'm curious how you determine if a penis is "average size" before you have sex with the guy. I personally have never measured before I went for it. 🙂 Seriously, I believe it's a mind thing.

Granted, it's better if the dick is thick, but it really doesn't have to be long. What is length supposed to do anyways? It can just make the strokes longer, but it doesn't do much inside the vagina.

Apart from that, I'm with Jamie. 🙂

You can feel when something is smaller than normal and you can eyeball what five inches is. I would think most people can do that without pulling out the tape measure.

 

[rhiannon]

Maybe I didn't have sex with enough guys to find out the average "normal". 🙂 I don't think I've had two guys with the same size, I couldn't talk about what is normal really!

And truthfully, I have NO CLUE how much 5 inches might be, I've always been terrible with distances and sizes (I also can't park!).

 

[naughtylucy]

Arguably, it depends where the cock in question is going. I hate having my cervix touched, and I find it difficult to accommodate a larger than average cock. But an awful lot of my girls disagree, and say they've never encountered a penis which is too large.

For anal, opinions amongst the ladies vary. I still prefer a medium-sized cock, while most of my girls prefer something a bit smaller. And then there are the boys; I just consulted the queen who is sitting across from me right now, and he prefers something on the large side (encased in leather, apparently, and decorated with diamante studs...he might be winding me up, come to think of it). The larger the better, he says.

 

[Mystery2009]

We're talking about penises here, not your impression of me, first of all. Secondly, I'm not judging anyone on penis size. I'm being honest on what size is ideal for the average woman. No one needs a 9 inch monster, as amazing as that would seem, but honestly, tongues and fingers seem like foreplay for many women and it would be disappointing to then have to deal with a tiny dick. Most guys are of average size which is completely fine. But again, we're talking strictly penis size, not judging a person based on that. Women are very forgiving about things, and penis size could well be one of them if the man is funny, caring, intelligent, and so on.

I think a lot of men who are insecure about that will read as much as they can and apply whatever makes them feel better to conversations such as this one. But they can never be completely sure of what they're saying as they don't have a vagina.

However, we were talking strictly sex and what is ideal or not. No one brought up anyone's character or personality into the equation that I've seen, but you (making some very personal comments bordering GR violations). And you're sounding much more angry than anyone else in this thread.

Communication, personality, and so on was not what I thought the topic was.

You being the expert on GR violations would know better then me about them. However you are right the question was "What is the ideal penis size?".

 

[kis123]

You being the expert on GR violations would know better then me about them. However you are right the question was "What is the ideal penis size?".

And she and several women have given you that answer.

Personally, I'm with Jamie Jugs on this one; crudly speaking--if it don't fit.....

I've never pulled out the measuring tape, but I've never seen a 4.5 or 5 inch penis ever and I've been with smaller men, but based on over 25 years of sewing, I can "size" them up pretty much by eyes. I don't think I've ever been with a man under seven, and have definitely been unfortunate enough to have been with an approximate 12-inch-er. Way too much for my liking....

I'm going to stretch out over the ledge and say that penis size isn't on my forefront because I'm more into the foreplay; I firmly believe in sportmanship during sex. Screwing is nice and all, but IMO, it's mostly for the man to me. It's just gravy on top of a really good meal to me. Give me the foreplay and I'll make sure you get yours to your satisfaction and we both can go to sleep happy.......

If you're going to write erotica that I'll keep coming back to read, penis size is really irrelevant. I'm more concerned of the motion of the ocean than the size of the beach. Skills baby........they matter!

 

[Korastus]

Are you telling me this isn't high-class erotica:

Upon entering the boudoir each of his senses was met with the suggestion of sweet seduction, one after another. The taste of her lips still fresh from the too-brief kiss they shared moments earlier, the gentle aroma of freshly lit candles, the rhythmic ocean waves crashing against the shore below, the soft and yielding rug beneath his bare feet and finally, the luxurious warm bed whose time he knew was finally at hand. Then he whipped out his 10 inch cock and jacked himself into another fucking dimension.

I entered this thread out of morbid curiosity.
This post alone made it ENTIRELY worth it. XD

Also.

You being the expert on GR violations would know better then me about them. However you are right the question was "What is the ideal penis size?".

You need to chill out. Theres really no reason for insults to have been slung in this thread in the first place, and Annie seriously didn't say anything offensive.
You asked a question and recieved answers, you don't really have a right to to get angry when someone's answer is something you don't necessarily like.

 

[chicago]

In regards to your story, if you want to sound like a novice, talk about the measurements. Otherwise, be descriptive to an extent, still allowing the reader to interpret what they want.

 

[..Glamorous..]

In regards to your story, if you want to sound like a novice, talk about the measurements. Otherwise, be descriptive to an extent, still allowing the reader to interpret what they want.

I agree, I think flat out saying the size loses imagination and is honestly a bit tacky. Be as descriptive as possible, without actually listing a size.

 

[meangry]

You being the expert on GR violations would know better then me about them. However you are right the question was "What is the ideal penis size?".

Ha ha ha wat.

 

[Armpit_licker]

I agree, I think flat out saying the size loses imagination and is honestly a bit tacky. Be as descriptive as possible, without actually listing a size.

lol.. how descriptive can you be with a penis? what are you gonna describe.... how many veins you have in them and if it's hairy or not? lol

girls give there cup size all the time... i see nothing wrong with a guy giving his dick size if asked.

 

[rhiannon]

Yeah, but in a story it sounds really really stupid if you describe a girl and mention her bra size! It's just bad style!

Well, I guess a guy would like to know, but this story is supposed to be written for us girls apparently, so....we do not want to see the exact size of the guys penis written down! It is not important for the story! NOT AT ALL! 🙂

 

[..Glamorous..]

lol.. how descriptive can you be with a penis? what are you gonna describe.... how many veins you have in them and if it's hairy or not? lol

girls give there cup size all the time... i see nothing wrong with a guy giving his dick size if asked.

There are plenty of ways to describe a penis, without mentioning size.


and as far as cup size, i certainly wouldn't be throwing that into a story, how lame. Asking is a totally different situation than what the OP was asking. He was wanting to put a specific size in his story, and I simply suggested he doesn't - IMO that kills his story's potential by making it tacky.

 

[rhiannon]

There are plenty of ways to describe a penis, without mentioning size.


and as far as cup size, i certainly wouldn't be throwing that into a story, how lame. Asking is a totally different situation than what the OP was asking. He was wanting to put a specific size in his story, and I simply suggested he doesn't - IMO that kills his story's potential by making it tacky.

Agreed!

 

[naughtylucy]

Yep, totally. All this cup size/cock size malarky ruins a story. Sounds like a frat boy inventing a sexual encounter to convince his friends that he's not a virgin. Without success.

 

[chicago]

Yep, totally. All this cup size/cock size malarky ruins a story. Sounds like a frat boy inventing a sexual encounter to convince his friends that he's not a virgin. Without success.

 

[lemoncake]

I hate numerical descriptions of certain things in stories. It would be like saying: Bob tickled Karen's left foot for 5 and a half minutes. Then he tickled her right for for 4 and a quarter minutes.

It makes my head hurt. There's a ton of ways to show things in erotica without telling them in numbers.

 

[Adam]

I find this post to be very interesting. As a straight male, I'm obviously not qualified to chime in on what size penis is ideal. But it is interesting to read the various opinions of our women. Having said that, seems to be all good down there as far as I'm concerned. So I have been told. 😉

 

[rhiannon]

I hate numerical descriptions of certain things in stories. It would be like saying: Bob tickled Karen's left foot for 5 and a half minutes. Then he tickled her right for for 4 and a quarter minutes.

It makes my head hurt. There's a ton of ways to show things in erotica without telling them in numbers.

Almost as bad as lines and lines of HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

 

[MrMacphisto]

Yep, totally. All this cup size/cock size malarky ruins a story. Sounds like a frat boy inventing a sexual encounter to convince his friends that he's not a virgin. Without success.

Sorry, I had to post this little gem...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fQVPjLAulaM

(embedding was unfortunately disabled, but it's so worth the click)

 

[Babbles]

I was going to post a silly joke about the expected length of this thread considering the topic heading,

but I realized that's not helpful 😛 -- Kudos to those who gave constructive responses
rather than indirect taunts & put-downs.

To try to fit among the former (and I'm *really NOT trying to pun here, but it's just too easy...) 🙄
--- I agree with those who said (politely) that you don't need numbers.

But write out a draft as it comes naturally, and look it over, see how it reads with and without [numerical specifications],
I'm guessing it'll probably seem much smoother without that raw data...

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[Mystery2009]

Kis123 your points ar well taken.

If I gave anybody the imppression that I was angry at any time regarding this thread I am sorry, I haven't been. I am enjoying reading the different comments on topic of size vs girth vs technique and so on. At the same time, I lurked here for a while before I joined up. I am aware that if a member does not handle themselves right they can find themselves being bullied pretty quickly. I am sorry if I came off to agressive or rude.

Armpit licker you can always use diffrent term to discribe a penis just like you could a woman's breasts. With breast you may describe them as soft, plump, round, milky (meaning complection) firm ect... while with a penis you could describe it a long, meaty, beeffy, thick... ect.

Have a good evening.
Mystery2009

 

[Babbles]

Actually you seem quite even-keeled and polite ---

And your advice is sensible... Love the screenname

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Besides which ---- Tell me SOMEONE must've used the Dancing Banana emoticon SOMEWHERE in this thread.....
I cannot possibly be the only one to reference this....

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as opposed to, smaller but more "enthused..." Really, it's the mindset I'm sure.....

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[Bohemianne]

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^ This is just too cute. Hyper enough to override the size issue (?) Oops.

 

[Babbles]

^ This is just too cute. Hyper enough to override the size issue (?) Oops.

I'm sure some Napoleonic Complexes serve their owners well 😛

 

[Bohemianne]

I'm sure some Napoleonic Complexes serve their owners well 😛

^ Haha. With the complexity of human nitpicking, you're right, a little bit of that goes a long way.

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^ PWNed! 😵

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Disclaimer: "penis-envy" aside...erm... I almost feel sorry for.....forget it. 😱