People who make you ticklish

[toyou444]

Odd title...bear with me please.

I have always said that I need an emotional tie to someone to be truly ticklish. A stranger could probably not tickle me and get a great reaction like my wife can for example.

Yet as I get older and more ticklish (lucky me) I have found out a very interesting thing:

Once someone tickles me, and I react, I can no longer block the tickling.

In other words my neighbor could poke and prod and tickle and as long as I never give in to the reactions it will only slightly tickle. But once they catch me just right and get a big reaction from me then I am doomed!

One such person has tried to tickle me on numerous occasionsa and I just flit awy without much reaction. However just recently she got me good...and now she just has to poke me and I am squirming and laughing.

That's when I realized that other people who could never tickle me quite right beofre suddenly have an amazing power over me...and each of them got that ability after they had caught me good one time.

Now I am no more closer to any of these people than I was before, but suddenly I can't resist the tickling.

And no one can tickle me like my wife...whom I have turned into a horrible tickle monster! All she has to do is approach me with wiggling fingers and I am curled up in to a giggling ball!

I know part of it is my simply getting more ticklish, but I think there is something psycological too that my brain is telling me that there's no sense pretending to not be ticklish when they already know what a well placed finger can do to me.

So do you have people you are more ticklish for than others?

~ toyou

 

[Aimee]

Are you happy that you are getting more ticklish?
Because I'm a lee and if I was getting more ticklish I would totally be so happy right now!

But I guess for me it doesn't matter who tickles me ... they are gonna get a reaction. Sometimes I wish I could hold it in though!

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Since tickling is primarily a way to express friendship, I tend to be more responsive to/open with those with whom I'm friends. The closer we are, the more likely I am to let go and give in to them. It's much more enjoyable then too!

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

For me it depends more on my mood. Certain moods will contribute to making me more or less ticklish, so if a person consistantly puts me in a mood that makes me more ticklish, i.e. silly and giggly, then yeah I guess it could be said that that person makes me more ticklish, and vice versa. If a person frequently pisses me off, well, if they piss me off I'm not likely to hang around them...okay..how bout if a person frequently makes me nervous, they're timid and they make me feel like I have an upper hand on them, I'll be generally less ticklish. Does that make sense? 😛 😕 😛

 

[tickleboynyc]

i think it depends on the ler's skills, frankly. occasionaly i can block the tickling but if a ler knows what she is doing, i don't have too much defense against that. i think even a woman whom i found to be an intolerable bitch could probably break me as long as she was a good ler. in fact that's kind of a fantasy of mine...

 

[Gothika]

saeria makes me ticklish i have never been ticklish with anyone befoer so i did not think i was ticklish but she brings it out in me and i love it

 

[AngelOfDarkness]

Yeah, I am always ticklish around some friends and all family. Unsure of strangers but I'll find out eventually.

 

[tklee88]

I find I'm much more responsive to people I am friends with, and even more so with people I'm attracted to. If a guy tickles me and he repulses me I will do everything in my power to hold the reaction in. If it's one of my guy friends who I find cute I will be a mess haha.

 

[CuteJill143]

I think that you need "tickle chemistry" with somebody to have a desired reaction. If I don't like the person much, to me its not as enjoyable and almost even painful or it doesn't tickle the way it does when I like somebody. I've been tickled by someone I wasn't attracted to and it just annoyed the hell out of me. It just wasn't the same sensation where I've had attraction to the person. It was kind of a more blunt, numb feeling. But I've also had situations where I didn't have much interest in a guy until they actually started tickled me.

 

[CodeNameT]

I find I'm much more responsive to people I am friends with, and even more so with people I'm attracted to. If a guy tickles me and he repulses me I will do everything in my power to hold the reaction in. If it's one of my guy friends who I find cute I will be a mess haha.

But if the guy repulses you it will still tickle, if not as much, and there will still be a temptation to laugh? Has this happened to you? Please excuse all the male hormones all over this post as I make a complete pig of myself.

 

[Spacey_Stacey]

I am definitely a lot more ticklish with people I have an emotional bond with. If a stanger or someone I don't like were to tickle me I might squirm and try to get away and wouldn't really like it. I might even get pissed off at them. But when it's my boyfriend or one of my good friends whom I am really comfortable I really let loose and laugh my fool head off and thoroughly enjoy getting tickled out of my mind!

 

[Iris]

I have probably 3 people in my life who can just say the word tickle and I am totally powerless...... They are the 3 closest in my life... and especially my love tickleuniverse... he can tickle me and I am toast for sure....... makes me say and do things that I normally wouldn't do!!!!😀

 

[drummerboy]

I'd certainly agree. When I'm with, say, a girlfriend who is tactile and playful... it does seem to make more nerve ending come alive they normal.

 

[xXxblondiexXx]

i can also block tickling, especially if it was by a stranger in an appriopriate situation, the more relaxed atmosphere the more ticklish i am. same with the person if i feel more comfortable with them the more ticklish i am. If i also fancy them it does always make me 10x more ticklish and bashful. lol

 

[toyou444]

Are you happy that you are getting more ticklish?
Because I'm a lee and if I was getting more ticklish I would totally be so happy right now!

But I guess for me it doesn't matter who tickles me ... they are gonna get a reaction. Sometimes I wish I could hold it in though!

Yes, I am happy to be more ticklish...but I am also a 'ler. In one way it makes tickle fights more fun since it is more even...but EVERYONE in our little group is now tickling me! LOL!

My sides actually hurt after a night together from all the poking! LOL!

~ toyou

 

[darkhand]

I think that you need "tickle chemistry" with somebody to have a desired reaction. If I don't like the person much, to me its not as enjoyable and almost even painful or it doesn't tickle the way it does when I like somebody. I've been tickled by someone I wasn't attracted to and it just annoyed the hell out of me. It just wasn't the same sensation where I've had attraction to the person. It was kind of a more blunt, numb feeling. But I've also had situations where I didn't have much interest in a guy until they actually started tickled me.

I guess this doesn't really have much to do with me because I'm not all that ticklish to begin with... But I dated a girl with a situation similar to yours, Jill.

Actually, that is what started us dating. We were friends but I never thought she'd be interested in me in "that way" but I was picking on her one evening and started tickling her and she burst into laughter and subsequently told me she was only ticklish for people she was attracted to... Cute right? Here's the not cute part . . . I was on my way out the door an hour later before I realized what she was getting at.

Not one of my brighter moments.

 

[ticklebunny 2]

I know what you are saying. Yes tickling for me can be friendly and casual and it can be lighthearted and lots of fun with friends. However also I must agree you do got to have some kind of friendship or some kind of emotional bond or something in common with a lee before you tickle him or her I think. I do really believe that a ler and lee do got to have "tickle chemistry" most definitely. "Tickle chemistry" and a emotional bond that is strong, strong sense of friendship-what makes a tickle session great!!

Some people have great "tickle chemistry" right away and some don't have it right away and for a while have to work on achieving great "tickle chemistry" before they have "tickle chemistry" Just like anything else- for an example: some people share a "first kiss" and it is magical and for those that happen to that is great. However probably more common for many and most -it can be a mixture of nerves, awkward a bit and not magical first time-however with time, good communication and sensitivity to one's partner, and patience-practice-next kiss or kisses could be great-be great sparks. Same goes with tickling, or first kisses, having sex first time and so on... not trying to go on tangent sorry. Anyways what I am saying is for those that make you extra ticklish-there is that spark, that tickle chemistry-special bond emotionally that makes a tickle session wonderful and a great one. Does that make sense?

For me I have quite a few that make me extra ticklish-that is because I feel close to them-a great friendship with them-special bond with them.
When these certain special ones tickle me-it really drive me tickle bonkers and makes me SQUIRM intensely and I can't stay still, LOVE it!!!!

 

[toyou444]

I know what you are saying. Yes tickling for me can be friendly and casual and it can be lighthearted and lots of fun with friends. However also I must agree you do got to have some kind of friendship or some kind of emotional bond or something in common with a lee before you tickle him or her I think. I do really believe that a ler and lee do got to have "tickle chemistry" most definitely. "Tickle chemistry" and a emotional bond that is strong, strong sense of friendship-what makes a tickle session great!!

Some people have great "tickle chemistry" right away and some don't have it right away and for a while have to work on achieving great "tickle chemistry" before they have "tickle chemistry" Just like anything else- for an example: some people share a "first kiss" and it is magical and for those that happen to that is great. However probably more common for many and most -it can be a mixture of nerves, awkward a bit and not magical first time-however with time, good communication and sensitivity to one's partner, and patience-practice-next kiss or kisses could be great-be great sparks. Same goes with tickling, or first kisses, having sex first time and so on... not trying to go on tangent sorry. Anyways what I am saying is for those that make you extra ticklish-there is that spark, that tickle chemistry-special bond emotionally that makes a tickle session wonderful and a great one. Does that make sense?

For me I have quite a few that make me extra ticklish-that is because I feel close to them-a great friendship with them-special bond with them.
When these certain special ones tickle me-it really drive me tickle bonkers and makes me SQUIRM intensely and I can't stay still, LOVE it!!!!

Excellent!

"tickle-chemistry" ...perfect wording.

And with me...once that person has perfected the cehmistry I am toast. From that point forward I am as ticklish as ever and easily reduced to a giggling mass.

Frustrating when you are used to being the main 'ler...but fun as hell sometimes!

 

[ticklebunny 2]

Excellent!

"tickle-chemistry" ...perfect wording.

And with me...once that person has perfected the cehmistry I am toast. From that point forward I am as ticklish as ever and easily reduced to a giggling mass.

Frustrating when you are used to being the main 'ler...but fun as hell sometimes!

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Awww thanks toyou444. I appreciate that. Yeah that is basically what it boils down to you-just thought it would be the right term to call it. That is nice to know that once you have tickle-chemistry with a ler that you become ticklish as ever and easily reduced to a giggling mass. Ticklebunny will have to keep that in mind. Yeah it is just as much fun and a blast to receive the tickles sometimes along with being the one dishing out the tickles.