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Pitfalls to Move to Paid Sessions?

TickleYeti

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Hey all! So I had the chance to meet a lovely member of the forum the other night and we had a blast. She was highly complimentary on my technique and it got me thinking. It's something I love and I'm really good at it. What if I offered paid sessions?

I won't have loads of really good gear to start and the rate I'd charge would reflect that, but I could put profits back into my kit and upgrade.

Anyone who does paid sessions have any protips for a newbie coming into the scene? I'd be local to Jacksonville FL right now so hopefully won't be stepping on anyone's toes haha

Intend to start off fully non sexual as well. Would love any insight that anyone can offer! 🙂

Happy tickles!

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Okay I am going to tell it to you straight and not sugar coat plus this will be a good read for males who think they want to try out doing professional sessions for profit. If you'll only be open to doing sessions with women you might as well quit while you're still ahead. Most male professional players I know make most of their money doing sessions with guys and as a rule don't make as much as female identified professional players do. Women just don't really pay for play because it's not hard to find play for free.
 
Okay I am going to tell it to you straight and not sugar coat plus this will be a good read for males who think they want to try out doing professional sessions for profit. If you'll only be open to doing sessions with women you might as well quit while you're still ahead. Most male professional players I know make most of their money doing sessions with guys and as a rule don't make as much as female identified professional players do. Women just don't really pay for play because it's not hard to find play for free.
Exactly the sort of info I was looking for. I figured I'd have to be okay with m/m and I am, assuming it stays nonsexual. I have to be to reach my main demographic haha

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Exactly the sort of info I was looking for. I figured I'd have to be okay with m/m and I am, assuming it stays nonsexual. I have to be to reach my main demographic haha

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Yep
M/m will be it
Few very few females pay for it
When they do they usually approach females not males
Also did you have just one experience and assume all ticklees are the same? Curious also how is your physical appearance?


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Yep
M/m will be it
Few very few females pay for it
When they do they usually approach females not males
Also did you have just one experience and assume all ticklees are the same? Curious also how is your physical appearance?


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Just the one experience so far but I've been steeped in the fetish with the accompanying intense research for over a decade now haha and definitely not assuming all are the same, better to say that this session made me start thinking along the lines of "why couldn't I?" Haha

Physical appearance is pretty good, needs some work like we all do haha to borrow from a popular fitness system, my body type is mesomorph, but with a bit of extra padding, moved down here from Minnesota after all, but I'm over 6ft, size 13 feet, solid muscle underneath the padding, my nickname is Yeti for a reason haha

Anyway, attaining an advanced level of definition won't be a problem. My body responds very quickly to weight lifting 🙂

Definitely appreciate your response here, thank you 🙂

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Yeah, as a female lee, I’ll keep it honest as well.

So glad you had an awesome session and the lee enjoyed herself as much as you did tickling her! You sound like an awesome ler. I agree that you could do paid sessions for lees if you are willing to tickle males, but as a female, you can get tickled pretty much anytime you want and/or have skilled lers pay YOU. Unfortunately, there is quite a gender difference in terms of session availability and willingness. I HOPE you prove me wrong though! Get your Ler on, and maybe make a few bucks 😉
 
Yeah, as a female lee, I’ll keep it honest as well.

So glad you had an awesome session and the lee enjoyed herself as much as you did tickling her! You sound like an awesome ler. I agree that you could do paid sessions for lees if you are willing to tickle males, but as a female, you can get tickled pretty much anytime you want and/or have skilled lers pay YOU. Unfortunately, there is quite a gender difference in terms of session availability and willingness. I HOPE you prove me wrong though! Get your Ler on, and maybe make a few bucks 😉

I agree however there’s a lot more to being a professional session provider and sex worker to think about then just being able to make a few bucks tickling somebody. You are providing a sexual service even though we do not consider it sexual for not providing anything sexual it’s still considered companion work and sex work so please be aware of this! On top of that there’s a lot of safety issues to consider have you gone through a bondage course? Do you know to have bandage scissors available when tying up a female Lee?

I personally advise you to stay away from personal sessions until you get a lot more experience under your belt! It can be dangerous for all parties involved not to mention if somebody has a bad experience you might taint that person‘s view of purchasing a session in the future

There’s a whole business side to consider there’s money being exchanged so therefore are you gonna keep it under the table? Are you going to try to claim some of it? There’s a lot to consider on the business side of it how are you going to advertise? Do you realize that you have to put your name down on forms with your ID in order to list yourself as a professional on booking sites?
As a professional for the last 15 years Industry has changed it’s not the same our industry is definitely under attack and to start coming into the industry as a new person with little to no experience is not advisable

It’s like somebody that put together a clip on adobe premiere and then thinks they can be hired out for video production and enter Film Festival‘s… It does seem a little pretentious doesn’t it? [emoji2368]

Not to mention you have to have incredibly thick skin if you are sensitive in any type away to what people say or criticize about it will be very difficult to get constant constructive criticism it’s also a part that people don’t consider is the mental aspect that it takes on you

Like if you work at Subway every day and you love sandwiches after a while you’re not going to not want to see a sandwich whatever you love and you end up doing for work sometimes doesn’t have the same passion crossover. Or a better example if you like sports and you play basketball and you’re a goat on the court but all of a sudden doing it professionally loses its mystique for some people if that makes sense...

I started a monthly tickle party and I will have male tickler’s and it’s a good way to start out to see if it’s something that you can do before you inadvertently either waste someone’s time or ccause a negative situation unknowingly so if you can find ways to be able to get more experience through parties and gatherings that would be much more advisable than starting on a professional level

Just my 2 cents 🙂


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I agree however there’s a lot more to being a professional session provider and sex worker to think about then just being able to make a few bucks tickling somebody. You are providing a sexual service even though we do not consider it sexual for not providing anything sexual it’s still considered companion work and sex work so please be aware of this! On top of that there’s a lot of safety issues to consider have you gone through a bondage course? Do you know to have bandage scissors available when tying up a female Lee?

I personally advise you to stay away from personal sessions until you get a lot more experience under your belt! It can be dangerous for all parties involved not to mention if somebody has a bad experience you might taint that person‘s view of purchasing a session in the future

There’s a whole business side to consider there’s money being exchanged so therefore are you gonna keep it under the table? Are you going to try to claim some of it? There’s a lot to consider on the business side of it how are you going to advertise? Do you realize that you have to put your name down on forms with your ID in order to list yourself as a professional on booking sites?
As a professional for the last 15 years Industry has changed it’s not the same our industry is definitely under attack and to start coming into the industry as a new person with little to no experience is not advisable

It’s like somebody that put together a clip on adobe premiere and then thinks they can be hired out for video production and enter Film Festival‘s… It does seem a little pretentious doesn’t it? [emoji2368]

Not to mention you have to have incredibly thick skin if you are sensitive in any type away to what people say or criticize about it will be very difficult to get constant constructive criticism it’s also a part that people don’t consider is the mental aspect that it takes on you

Like if you work at Subway every day and you love sandwiches after a while you’re not going to not want to see a sandwich whatever you love and you end up doing for work sometimes doesn’t have the same passion crossover. Or a better example if you like sports and you play basketball and you’re a goat on the court but all of a sudden doing it professionally loses its mystique for some people if that makes sense...

I started a monthly tickle party and I will have male tickler’s and it’s a good way to start out to see if it’s something that you can do before you inadvertently either waste someone’s time or ccause a negative situation unknowingly so if you can find ways to be able to get more experience through parties and gatherings that would be much more advisable than starting on a professional level

Just my 2 cents 🙂


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Fair assessment from someone who is clearly more professional than I!

I did paid sessions for a while (receiving tickling, not giving) because my dumb dumb ex lied about having a job and we needed more cash flow. Regardless, I kept it pretty straightforward, casual, and non-sexual and it worked fine. I just didn’t like what it did to my feelings about tickling so I stopped. Had nothing but good, safe, respectful experiences but I had been sessioning for a LONG time for pleasure before trying paid sessions.

Either way, Bella brings up VERY good info from experience if you are trying to start something professional.

Sincerely, the girl who did this under the table and got lucky....LOL
 
I agree however there’s a lot more to being a professional session provider and sex worker to think about then just being able to make a few bucks tickling somebody. You are providing a sexual service even though we do not consider it sexual for not providing anything sexual it’s still considered companion work and sex work so please be aware of this! On top of that there’s a lot of safety issues to consider have you gone through a bondage course? Do you know to have bandage scissors available when tying up a female Lee?

I personally advise you to stay away from personal sessions until you get a lot more experience under your belt! It can be dangerous for all parties involved not to mention if somebody has a bad experience you might taint that person‘s view of purchasing a session in the future

There’s a whole business side to consider there’s money being exchanged so therefore are you gonna keep it under the table? Are you going to try to claim some of it? There’s a lot to consider on the business side of it how are you going to advertise? Do you realize that you have to put your name down on forms with your ID in order to list yourself as a professional on booking sites?
As a professional for the last 15 years Industry has changed it’s not the same our industry is definitely under attack and to start coming into the industry as a new person with little to no experience is not advisable

It’s like somebody that put together a clip on adobe premiere and then thinks they can be hired out for video production and enter Film Festival‘s… It does seem a little pretentious doesn’t it? [emoji2368]

Not to mention you have to have incredibly thick skin if you are sensitive in any type away to what people say or criticize about it will be very difficult to get constant constructive criticism it’s also a part that people don’t consider is the mental aspect that it takes on you

Like if you work at Subway every day and you love sandwiches after a while you’re not going to not want to see a sandwich whatever you love and you end up doing for work sometimes doesn’t have the same passion crossover. Or a better example if you like sports and you play basketball and you’re a goat on the court but all of a sudden doing it professionally loses its mystique for some people if that makes sense...

I started a monthly tickle party and I will have male tickler’s and it’s a good way to start out to see if it’s something that you can do before you inadvertently either waste someone’s time or ccause a negative situation unknowingly so if you can find ways to be able to get more experience through parties and gatherings that would be much more advisable than starting on a professional level

Just my 2 cents 🙂


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You had me at, "I started a monthly tickle party." DETAILS?! And you typed that whole long comment on an iPhone? What skilled fingers you must have. Oh, wait, you're ....
 
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