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[tommytikl]

You should absolutely feel at home at TMF and it makes perfect sense to me that there would be 100 % lady lers just as there are 100 % guy lers. and everything in between.

The ppl who attack you are probably insecure and can't quite accept that there could be a female version of themselves.

Keep on posting and chatting from your perspective.
When I first started in tickling too many years ago I thought it was crazy that a lady would be only a ler but today it seems perfectly natural to me.

And I love a lady ler 🙂

 

[c7_assassin]

I agree with all the above. Don't let anyone give you shit for what you like.

 

[NonConRon]

I'm sick of being made to feel odd and out of place here.
It's not a very nice place to be. That's thanks to some of the 'people' on TMF.

Sounds like someone needs to be taken hostage and be tickled into submission!
Gootchy gootchy gooooo....

 

[kered]

Aun, I like you just the same before and after your return to the TMF, which is a whole big bunch. I couldn't care less whether you are 100% ler or lee because I like the person Aun is and has been to me.

So There.

 

[deadlywiffeathr]

I can really empathise with you here Aun. I've had my fair share of troubles with idiots in the past also. All you can do is ignore it and try to move on, its the people who you can call true friends that make this place worth coming back to, and I am so proud to say that I have met some exquisite people here...they really are out there 🙂

One suggestion though, I would recommend avoiding the chat room from now on. Thats where the creepers are and I'm actually not at all surprised that the behaviour you're describing is coming from people in there.

Don't let a bunch of dumbasses ruin something you love so much, if you let it get you down too much its letting them win. I truly do empathise though Good luck to you, come hang out in the SSF sometime. You won't get any of the dick faces in there

 

[texastickler]

Good luck to you, come hang out in the SSF sometime. You won't get any of the dick faces in there

This is true! We have fun over at the SSF and you would be welcome. I have never heard a bad word over there. We just have fun.

 

[Doubledutch]

The ppl who attack you are probably insecure and can't quite accept that there could be a female version of themselves.

Great insight.

My tastes are the same as the OP. And, in the past I've gotten the same treatment. Once people in the chat (refuse to go there anymore) saw I wasn't interested in putting on their metaphorical restraints, it was like goodbye. I felt like a third class citizen.

Be true to yourself. Be proud. Joke 'em if they can't take a fuck.

 

[PQfingers]

Do Your Thing!

Aun, do your thing and don't worry about what some jerks say. From this thread, your fellow TMF members support you! Be yourself. Tickle away!

 

[Driver Ed]

100% Ler AND a genuine female. Geez, who'd want to change that?! I'm glad you refuse to bend to those who would have you be somebody you're not.

 

[Bugman]

Aun, I like you just the same before and after your return to the TMF, which is a whole big bunch. I couldn't care less whether you are 100% ler or lee because I like the person Aun is and has been to me.

So There.

This. Don't let the jerks get you down. You have many friends here who love you just the way you are.

 

[TicklesFemales]

Aun my apology to you sweetie. But I do feel your pain some. Sorry for a short while I took the spotlight off of you. Your a sweet person I can tell please don't change yourself. Babbles thanks for your kind words also.

 

[mainlord]

I'm totally with you, Aun existe amor. (Estoy totalmente contigo, Still there's love).
In fact, I love your peculiarity. (De hecho, me encanta tu peculiaridad).
I would love to meet someday a woman 100% 'ler. (Me encantaría encontrar algún día una mujer 100% 'ler).
Keep on smiling at life and tickling lucky guys. (Sigue sonriéndole a la vida y haciéndoles cosquillas a hombres suertudos).

 

[kwildoctr]

I think there are just some people who like to judge others if you do not "fit in" to what they like. People feel to realize that all of us have our likes and dislikes. Not everyone will like the same exact thing about tickling. I see the same kind of stuff in M/M threads. For some reason, people who are against it, love to post in it to criticize. If you don't like it, move on. Same with women who only like to tickle and not be tickled. I guess some people (mostly men...) would love to convert a woman such as yourself to a lee. When you reject, they get mad..

Don't worry about the crazy people who want you to conform to whatever they want you to be. Be YOU. There are people here you will like you for you. Don't change.

Here, Here...!!

R

 

[sirlink]

I hardly ever post but I do read a lot on the forums here. I must say that just by reading certain comments things seem to get offensive at times and it hurts me too. As a guy who understands right and wrong, this place is an area I can feel connected and at home with who I am. Sometimes its a struggle but I just always remind myself that sometimes, people are just idiots who just shouldn't talk.

 

[Speedbump]

I don't know what prompted this thread, but I guess Aun is 100% 'ler, and not a lot of guys like that?

I don't see anything wrong with it. I, personally, would hate to not be able to tickle as well, but I don't know why people were judging you because it's what you prefer..

I mean, like in my case, it would be a slight disappointment, but I wouldn't want to try and make you feel bad about it for any reason. We all like what we like, and can't expect everyone to match up and just 'click' with everyone else.

I'd like to be tickled anyway. 😉

 

[Coda]

aun_existe_amor,

I certainly empathize. Clarity is especially useful and underrated; as soon as you encounter any situation that bugs you in any of the ways you mentioned, you should link the person in question to your first two paragraphs.

This is a fetish forum; it should be a place where we can explore and share in a positive and encouraging way, and ignore negative or monotonous or useless interaction. You can do both of those on the TMF, so feel free to.

 

[NonConRon]

Seriously, what's the point of this thread?
Bitching? Pissing Moaning?
What good can come of it?

 

[ChicagoDavid]

It’s “simply” part of a broader problem. People on TMF probably are, on average, no nicer or meaner than everyone else. So, they speak anonymously on the internet in ways they would not speak if they were in a room with you, and knew that they would see you again.

Aun, it’s got nothing to do with your particular preferences. People on TMF get inappropriately blasted for sharing, etc., as occurs in other internet forums. Wish I could fix it! By the way, in my recent, extremely unscientific posting, I posited that largest number of TMF members were lers, lees were #2, and switches were last. So, if that’s right, you’re in the majority (or at least the plurality). Not that there’s anything wrong with being in the minority 🙂