Let's not get carried away here.
Hey Dodger! Thanks for bringing up some controversial points.
I'm no expert on this, but some gay/lesbian literature list their numbers closer to 10%.
I do agree that a man is more likely to tickle a woman better to our tastes, not so much for being forceful, but for preferring a more relentless, torturous kind of tickle. Priscilla aside, so many of the women doing the tickling in these videos use a very playful, teasing, intermittent touch. Long nails may have something to do with this, but so does psychology.
Keep in mind that men being “forceful” ticklers caused Tori Spears to comment in her interview that men sometimes hurt when they tickle. I don’t think she meant that some men tickle over-effectively. She meant that men sometimes cause painful sensations instead of ticklish ones. (Some of the girls in B & D clubs have sometimes hinted at this). If we are honestly adding up whether or not men are better ticklers, we have to take the heat for more often causing pain inappropriately, even as we criticize some of the light female tickling we see.
I think the main reason men prefer a female tickler in videos is not because they are jealous of the guy, but because they would prefer to see another beautiful women in the video, and not have guys clogging up their sexual fantasies.
Can’t say I entirely understand how some psycho-sexual factor would enhance tickling between the platonic actors in these videos (Priscilla has dominated women and men alike), but there may be something to that. I suppose these women know that TIB could physically man-handle them with or without bondage, and they couldn’t take revenge that way.
Tickler in Black is talented because of his unique sensitivity to what he touches, his tickle radar, and that’s not necessarily a male trait, though enjoying exploring women’s bodies might be. He delivers on the thoroughness of the domination and the tickling we crave, and he’s stronger than his victims, but that may be the only male traits that account for his success.
From what I’ve seen, TIB is one of the few that have tied up Priscilla properly, so yes, his desires are matching ours more closely there.
Again, thanks for raising some hot issues. 😱
MB