Over the (many) years
of my kife, there have been times when I had no girlfriend. One stretch was 15 years. During that time, I patronized brothels and outcall services in Brooklyn, Manhattan, Philadelphia, Washington D.C., Boston, Connecticut, and North Carolina.
Every single time, I asked the woman if she would allow me to tickle her.
The only three times out of about 80 that I was told no were by professional submissives in houses that specialized in BDSM. The women who worked for the houses and outcall services that did NOt state that they catered to BDSM people NEVER refused, even one time. Every one of them also turned out to be either genuinely ticklish or very, very good at faking it.
I only asked to use bondage on them in BDSM houses, and none of them ever refused.
On the three occassions when professional subs refused to do a tickling session, there were other ladies available right there who were very willing to take their place. On two of those occassions the women who willingly substituted were professional dommes who were willing to take the sub role ONLY because it was a tickling session.
There was one house where a Phillipina who agreed to do the tickling session had to beg off because she was so ticklish she couldn't take it. She sent in another lady who was happy to take her place.
Because I was up front about what I wanted to do, I did NOT have to give up having sex with them in order to get to tickle them. A lot of them said that they were very surprised that they climaxed during ticklesex with me, because customers seldom got them off, and they thought it had to be the tickling.
Believe me, it had to be the tickling. It sure wasn't me; the reason I had no GF for those 15 years was that I had blown up like a balloon, and my physical appearance was NOT something that turned women on.
How do I know they wren't just saying it/faking it to get repeat business? Well, with some I don't know that, and suspect very strongly that that was in fact what was going on. BUT, with 8 out of a total of over 20 who said that, I'm sure it was the truth because they slipped me their home phone numbers and had dates with me at no charge, as long as I promised that the date would end with ticklesex at my place. I things tha's a pretty good indication that they were telling the truth.
The fact that I was always polite and a gentleman and treated them all like real people and not some piece of furniture I had rented the use of may have helped them decide that they wanted to try going on a regular, not for pay date with me. It may seem strange to some, but most people do prefer to be treated like real people. Even if they are hookers. Go figure.
The fact that I used to work as a bouncer in brothels back in my bouncer/bodyguard days and consequently got to know a lot of hookers as fellow employees and friends may have something to do with my attitude towards them.
, That was good. Honestly I bet the girl would rather be tickled then have sex, unless she is attracted to you.
No exaggeration.
