Question for lees

[MindOverWhatMatters]

I often wonder how other lees get their tickling fix. I session with my wife, but it’s not very often as she doesn’t share the fetish.

For those that like being tickled, there is not a whole lot that equates to the feeling of actually being tickled.

For me personally, I’ve never shared my fetish with anyone openly, never been to a tickling event or convention, and haven’t been tickled by anybody outside of my relationship.

I feel like I have my own reasons for not stepping further into my fetish, but I’m curious to hear what other lees go through.

For people that love being tickled, or love the idea of being tickled, what has stopped you from delving further into your fetish?

 

[Triple_M]

I'm a lee who has known about my tickle fetish for many, many years yet I have never done a tickle session. No reason other than things happen when I try setting up sessions with people I meet online that prevent the sessions from happen, no matter how much I want to experience one.

I get strong lee moods and since I can't physically do anything about it, my go to is speaking to others online, maybe do some rp to get the feelings out.

I also never share with anyone I know about my fetish. I only ever told my best friend and considering I get so awkward when ever something that involves tickling happens in front of us, (even if she's never once been weird about it) I don't know if I'll ever share it with anyone else that's not into it.

 

[aberdeen]

Welcome to the TMF...!
I understand your hesitation about sharing the tickle fixation with others...Its not a mainstream concept that most understand..!
I am wondering what has happened when you have tried to set up sessions...IE the "things that happened" to prevent sessions that you wanted.
It can be difficult to fulfill desires as a lee or ler...
Always willing to chat about your situation or tickling in general ...feel free to message me here (and I have a discord acct as well--not the same exact tagline however)!

 

[Triple_M]

Welcome to the TMF...!
I understand your hesitation about sharing the tickle fixation with others...Its not a mainstream concept that most understand..!
I am wondering what has happened when you have tried to set up sessions...IE the "things that happened" to prevent sessions that you wanted.
It can be difficult to fulfill desires as a lee or ler...
Always willing to chat about your situation or tickling in general ...feel free to message me here (and I have a discord acct as well--not the same exact tagline however)!

A lot of times was travel. Even in the same state, traveling more than an hour is dificult for cause I share the car with my friend/roomate so I've had to cancel. Then there was the people that were cool at first, but then started to give me vibes that my boundaries won't be respected so I didn't let it go any further. Then there was two times where a session was set up, but the other person wasn't a ler, just someone trying to get something from my fetish and then not even giving me what I want so I decided from then on to always make sure the person I'm talking to does enjoy tickling like I do, not just saying that they will do it to get something in return and then not doing their part.

 

[aberdeen]

A lot of times was travel. Even in the same state, traveling more than an hour is dificult for cause I share the car with my friend/roomate so I've had to cancel. Then there was the people that were cool at first, but then started to give me vibes that my boundaries won't be respected so I didn't let it go any further. Then there was two times where a session was set up, but the other person wasn't a ler, just someone trying to get something from my fetish and then not even giving me what I want so I decided from then on to always make sure the person I'm talking to does enjoy tickling like I do, not just saying that they will do it to get something in return and then not doing their part.

those are some unfortunate experiences...especially when you find someone who is not trustworthy and not fulfilling your needs / desires....
you can message me as I said if you want to talk more in detail about tickling etc.

 

[MindOverWhatMatters]

A lot of times was travel. Even in the same state, traveling more than an hour is dificult for cause I share the car with my friend/roomate so I've had to cancel. Then there was the people that were cool at first, but then started to give me vibes that my boundaries won't be respected so I didn't let it go any further. Then there was two times where a session was set up, but the other person wasn't a ler, just someone trying to get something from my fetish and then not even giving me what I want so I decided from then on to always make sure the person I'm talking to does enjoy tickling like I do, not just saying that they will do it to get something in return and then not doing their part.

Sorry to hear that this was your experience. I know it’s very difficult to put yourself out there and feel either uncomfortable or taken advantage of. I do hope that you continue your journey towards the exploration of your fetish and your interests. There are some great people on this forum, and I’m sure you will come across people with a like mind. Feel free to DM if you ever feel like chatting about tickling or otherwise.

 

[A/S/H]

Mainly lack of opportunities right now. Not much going on in Montana as far as I've seen, just traditional BDSM mainly. Also still kinda shy with talking about it out loud, it's even difficult for me to talk about it with my girlfriend. No real reason, I'm just that kind of lee I guess, ugh lol. The city I'm in is kinda small too and a lot of people know each other, I'd rather this info about me not get out.

 

[ManInDistress]

Opportunities are very difficult to come by. Living in a small city, being unable to host, and of course not being able to find a ler are all issues for me and I'm sure many others as well.