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natscott6282

natscott6282

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whats the worst YOU ever got tickled that u can remember ? cause i have always been wayyy too ticklish to BE tickled , and when i did get tickled to absolute bits it was wayyy beyond unbearable and i was literally a sobbing mess from it

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Three times that I can think of…

1. Was having a sleep over with my girlfriend, her sister, and her best friend. Having a good time. Lights were out and we had spread out sleeping bags and blankets on the floor. Can’t remember how this all got started but I remember my girlfriend telling her best friend that I was really ticklish. Next thing I knew my girlfriend grabbed my hands, yanked them above my head, and yelled out, “I got his arms, he can’t move, tickle him!” Her best friend straddled me and tickled my underarms and ribs. I completely lost it and laughed and laughed and laughed. The three gals thought it was the funniest thing ever and kept tickling me for the next several minutes.

2. Was getting a massage. The masseuse knew me and knew how ticklish I was. I made a snappy comment and she used this as an excuse to straddle me and tickled me. I laughed hysterically. This probably only lasted for a minute maybe a minute and a half but I remember laughing so hard and was a bit concerned that she wasn’t going to stop. This was the one time I almost panicked while getting tickled as I didn’t know this person that well and didn’t know when she was going to stop.

3. One morning as I was waking up my wife tickled me, which she often does. This time she straddled me and went to town on my upper body. I laughed so hard for the next 4-5 minutes. I was half asleep when my wife got on top of me. For whatever reason, that was the best (worst?) that my wife has ever tickled me.
 
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I’m incredibly ticklish right after I orgasm, and my gf likes to take advantage of this by tickling my thighs really bad, especially after I’ve tickled her for a long time. She normally only goes a few seconds, but a while back we were playing with another woman who was really sadistic. The two of them got on top of me and really went at for what felt like ages, but realistically was probably just a few minutes 😅
 
natscott6282 said:
whats the worst YOU ever got tickled that u can remember ? cause i have always been wayyy too ticklish to BE tickled , and when i did get tickled to absolute bits it was wayyy beyond unbearable and i was literally a sobbing mess from it
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Oh, gosh, don't say it like that–Now my fingers are itching to tickle! I'm not exactly sure the worst one, but several have been pretty bad. I'll name the ones that come to mind, more in chronological order than in order of severity, since they kind of blend together in that regard. For a long time I intentionally avoided getting tickled in most situations, not out of fear of being too ticklish, but more out of embarrassment and such. For a long time, I thought that I wasn't that ticklish, really. That changed when I met my now wife. For as much as she is a lee, she can also be quite the little tickle monster!
  1. When my wife and I first met, I was mostly interested in being a ler and she was mostly interested in being a lee. That was how we started playing, but she wanted to try tickling me. I was hesitant because I didn't want to disappoint her with being not as ticklish. Turns out, I can be very ticklish (I now know it can be quite variable, depending upon several factors). I was especially not used to being bound while tickled, which made it so much worse. But she made it so fun and intense at the same time that I was hooked. But I realized that day just how brutal tickling can be. Watching someone else go through it just does not come close to capturing the full experience.
  2. The first meet up we had with other ticklephiles was with another couple. We were very nervous, but after getting to know them a bit in advance, that turned more into excitement. The woman loved being tickled and was really into the idea of gang tickling, which was new to us in terms of experience. We were happy to help her with her fantasy and because she was a switch, I was excited to have them help with my wife's first experience with gang tickling as well. Excitement turned back into nervousness, though, in the few weeks leading up to our meetup when, in one of our group chats, the woman asked if I was ticklish, too. I remember feeling like my heart sank. Before I regained focus enough to respond, my wife already gleefully said something like, "Oh, yes, very!" The woman immediately got excited and explained that her husband was actually not ticklish, so I'd be the first guy she got to tickle like this. I hadn't really considered that I'd be taking a turn as a lee until that point, and it terrified me how excited she was about it! 😂 And yet, for some reason my anxiety about maybe not being ticklish enough for her expectations crept back in...Lee performance anxiety is a thing! Anyway, we met, got along great, and the girls got tickled silly. When it was my turn, the two otherwise sweet women started circling my bound body like starved sharks with fresh blood in the water. I remember asking myself at that moment, "How did I get here, again?" I was tickled for about 1.5 hours, all the while, being covered in sweat, laughing, screaming, and begging for mercy. Yep, still ticklish...
  3. When we first met a tickle friend of ours, she mostly identified as a ler, so once again (I think I have a problem), I was nervous about her expectations, especially since she was more experienced in terms of number of play partners. However, just like the other times, I was very ticklish. I've learned that there's something special about that first session or two with a new person–especially the moments of first touch. You convince yourself you know what tickling is and what it's all about, but then someone new does it and your body doesn't recognize it. Their hands feel different, their rhythm is unfamiliar, and the whole energy they give off confuses you. You may have come to know them a little, but as far as your body is concerned, this is a stranger! This is how I felt in the first few sessions with her. She was very good at tickling and just had a different technique than I was used to, so I went crazy. On top of that, my wife joined in, and because the two had very different tickling styles, I was overloaded and destroyed. Not only were her expectations met, but she was elated and said that I might be the most ticklish person she's played with. That has given me cause to rethink how ticklish I perceive myself to be leading up to sessions. Perhaps that form of performance anxiety is just a round-about way for my mind to convince itself that it's totally going to be okay...I mean, I'm really not that ticklish, anyway, right?
LerLee said:
Three times that I can think of…
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These are really fun stories! 🙂
 
natscott6282 said:
whats the worst YOU ever got tickled that u can remember ? cause i have always been wayyy too ticklish to BE tickled , and when i did get tickled to absolute bits it was wayyy beyond unbearable and i was literally a sobbing mess from it

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So, when I was a kid, my older brother used to pin me and tickle the shit out of me. we had different dads, so it wasn't an all the time thing for him to visit, but he liked to be powerful. but yea. early memories.
 
I used to know this lovely lass from New Zealand. Tall, leggy, nerdy, had the accent, the whole nine. Every guy in our friend group was into her.

Anyway one day we're all at a local gathering, oddly enough and me, having established pretty long ago that I don't switch, was relaxing with her on the sofa while other people did their thing in the bedroom. Like I said, she was tall and leggy (as tall as me, and I'm over six foot), so I was basically lounging between her legs with my head resting on her stomach.

We were chatting about something, I forget what, and then she casually shifts a bit and clamps her thighs around my waist, pinning one of my arms. Sensing that she's up to no good, I reach up to tickle her ribs... but she grabs my arm (I have no leverage) and pulls it tight so that my entire side is stretched out with my arm over my head.

Then she reaches over and starts tickling me right at that spot where the ribs end. Deep, knuckle-kneading tickles that make you howl like a horse trapped in a swamp in a kid's movie from the '80s.

And me, being the kind of person who hates making loud noises, subconsciously decides that I can't let anyone else know what's going on so I clamp my mouth shut and start turning beet red as she shows me absolutely zero mercy.

I forget exactly how long I was stuck there - time tends to blur - but eventually she let me go. And in that fleeting instant, even though it's not really my thing... I understood why the guys who like getting dominated by lady wrestlers pay such a pretty penny for the opportunity.
 
prolly at the gathering I attended, got tickled for 45mins by a female acquittance I was tied, spread eagle, my hands in mittens so I couldn't tickle her back, and it was that night I found out I was much more ticklish than I thought lol great experience, and I did get revenge but I had to earn it XD
 
I'm a mix but predominantly a ler so I hope it's okay that I answer.

Bad enough and frequent enough as a little kid to cause a lifetime tickle fetish. So obviously it was very severe.
 
I have mentioned my start down the path of tickling fixation in another thread...That all my experience has been as. Ler....
But a couple salient times when I was tickled intensely.....

A girl in college (4 yrs older, who we were already friends from working / talking to each other in the same campus office...
She decided to increase the intimacy of our relationship with a sure fire signal to get my attention ...I was leaning over a large table sorting papers when she was sitting beside me...and she goosed the back of the top of my thigh and squeezed that crease under my butt cheek! I yelped and collapsed back into her lap and since the co workers in the room didnt see her action, I passed it off as a 'leg cramp'.....😊...welll it was soooo intense....I know it would have been intolerable ...and we did get together as boyfriend/ girlfriend for the next yr....but I was always her LER....maybe a story will come out some day..

Another event happened after being married for several yrs like maybe our 40th anniversary...my wife was never into vigorous tickling ... playful tickling was okay ..
but this evening she was straddling my hips and giving me a nice back massage...when she decided to latch on to my lowest 3-4 rungs of ribs..she would playfully tickle there but briefly...This time she stayed clamped on! I felt the electricity of whole body tickling searing through every bit of me! It immediately wiped out conscious thought and I was reduced to a flailing, howling mess! She had me pinned under her and wouldn't stop! I grabbed at the sheets of the bed and tried to crawl away!!!! I could only move a couple inches at a time, as she was blessedly in full LER mode...she just wouldn't let up! I did manage to get further to the head of the bed (it was at our time share resort so it was vacation and anniversary celebration)...I raised up on my arms and instead of relinquishing control, my sweet wife jsut reached under my arms to get my armpits and high ribs...I finally broke her hold by turning over....
And NO, I didn't tickle her back-- bec it was our anniversary night ...and she was supercharged for romance after her little foray!

Eventually, my wife discovered she enjoyed the lighter, sensual type of tickling....so we did incorporate the fixation into our lives.

Anyway, those are the two times I was in DEEP LEE mode....and I can tell you...It was mind altering intensity....You really cant think of anything but escape if you have any chance at getting away from the tickler's fingers...which is why full immobilization is so important for a thorough and profound tickling....

ofc I KNOW how I would respond if I was the LEE in a session....I would be driven insane just like any ticklish LEE !!!
But still, my inquisitive mind does contemplate the 'what if....? 😂❤️.....
 
natscott6282 said:
whats the worst YOU ever got tickled that u can remember ? cause i have always been wayyy too ticklish to BE tickled , and when i did get tickled to absolute bits it was wayyy beyond unbearable and i was literally a sobbing mess from it

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Just collecting data to use against other lers so you have the upper hand. Smart! 😂
 
piyr said:
I'm a mix but predominantly a ler so I hope it's okay that I answer.

Bad enough and frequent enough as a little kid to cause a lifetime tickle fetish. So obviously it was very severe.
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how did that cause it do u think? and how bad was it ?
 
natscott6282 said:
how did that cause it do u think? and how bad was it ?
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So the abbreviated version of why I think so: a sex therapist explained it to me this way - the physiological responses to tickling are very similar to those connected to sex. When the person is older and has sexual physiological responses that mirror the response from what happened from tickling, the mind conflates the two. The wires get crossed and a tickle fetishist is born. Not for everyone though. Guess I'm just lucky. 🙁

So, sharing my story is exactly how I sorted it all out! As much as I'd like to answer your question more directly, I don't know if I should since the forum is careful about not promoting stories about minors. I was pretty young at the time. 😬
 
piyr said:
So the abbreviated version of why I think so: a sex therapist explained it to me this way - the physiological responses to tickling are very similar to those connected to sex. When the person is older and has sexual physiological responses that mirror the response from what happened from tickling, the mind conflates the two. The wires get crossed and a tickle fetishist is born. Not for everyone though. Guess I'm just lucky. 🙁

So, sharing my story is exactly how I sorted it all out! As much as I'd like to answer your question more directly, I don't know if I should since the forum is careful about not promoting stories about minors. I was pretty young at the time. 😬
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psychology is so interesting
 
piyr said:
So the abbreviated version of why I think so: a sex therapist explained it to me this way - the physiological responses to tickling are very similar to those connected to sex. When the person is older and has sexual physiological responses that mirror the response from what happened from tickling, the mind conflates the two. The wires get crossed and a tickle fetishist is born. Not for everyone though. Guess I'm just lucky. 🙁

So, sharing my story is exactly how I sorted it all out! As much as I'd like to answer your question more directly, I don't know if I should since the forum is careful about not promoting stories about minors. I was pretty young at the time. 😬
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The psychology of tickling IS so interesting...as mentioned by Piyr.....there are so many crossed wires when it comes to tickling and sex .... the two activities are the most intimate that two ppl will encounter/enjoy .... whether tickling btw two ppl in an actual romantic relationship...or simply as LER to LEE....or even LERS to LEE...!

Tickling it is the 'closest' humans will get between each other aside from sex....The ticklish spots on a LEE all mimic or are the same as erogenous zones...its usually only a matter of degree and quality of touch...
the hormonal responses to tickling is the same as sexual relations....
the feeling of 'well being' after both are so very similar....

The Ler who tickles with an affectionate demeanor (not in a 'mean' way...but just to explore the Lee's limits) can still be extremely intense .... but the mindset is more of the wonder of exploring...to see what we can do with our talents as ticklers...and yes to overwhelm the Lee's senses and their whole mind...I LOVE that dynamic about tickling.....But in reality...No different than performing the other 'intimate' act!
That 'wiring' is why the emotions and responses to tickle and being tickled are so varied....and also it's not just your brain wiring but how you were exposed to tickling (whenever you were introduced to it)...how you responded and what behaviors you associated with it...

I have tickled as a 'purist' tickler in a platonic fashion to obtain the fun and sometimes every intense reactions...but also sensually ...with the intention of leading to the other 'most intimate' things.....I am wired to be able to separate those types of tickling based on the circumstances and the Lee's involved...but I understand also why some ticklers or ticlklees can't.....it's not that one is stronger mentally or better than the other...and certainly our own built in preferences play a large part...but that is why I like to personally define tickling as a fixation ...Bec its not an automatic sexual fetish or kink for me...and not for everyone...But its totally understandable that many feel that way...as you say...we are all wired differently and the wires cross all over the place to give us the psyche we were born with and that we have fostered during our own mental growth !
That intimacy factor is again, why I think our society suffers from lack of human touch/contact...And why many Lee's crave the ticklish sensations (and the hormone rushes) and go back time and time again..to repeat those type of sessions...not all are into torturous levels but 'need' tickling to balance themselves mentally and physcially....
Burt good points you brought up, Piyr !
 
natscott6282 said:
psychology is so interesting
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Indeed it is....My responses to Piyr are more detailed...but the psychology of tickling is one of the great draws for me personally...the pushing of someone to their mental and physical limits ...but also how ppl have become introduced to the tickling fixation ! The difference when someone is tickled as a youth and they sometimes never tickle anyone bec of their experience....but then those that are tickled intensely and it makes them into thorough and profound ticklers themselves...No one can predict but it's fun to contemplate our own beginnings and growth in the fixation for sure....then the psychology of the LEE to consider...how best to use their own ticklish bodies but also their minds to achieve a depth of ticklishness they might not know they even had.....😂😈❤️
 
aberdeen said:
Indeed it is....My responses to Piyr are more detailed...but the psychology of tickling is one of the great draws for me personally...the pushing of someone to their mental and physical limits ...but also how ppl have become introduced to the tickling fixation ! The difference when someone is tickled as a youth and they sometimes never tickle anyone bec of their experience....but then those that are tickled intensely and it makes them into thorough and profound ticklers themselves...No one can predict but it's fun to contemplate our own beginnings and growth in the fixation for sure....then the psychology of the LEE to consider...how best to use their own ticklish bodies but also their minds to achieve a depth of ticklishness they might not know they even had.....😂😈❤️
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I think I was born being into tickling but then the experience of BEING tickle tortured made me realize that my fav type of tickling ppl was tickle torturing them
 
natscott6282 said:
I think I was born being into tickling but then the experience of BEING tickle tortured made me realize that my fav type of tickling ppl was tickle torturing them
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Being born into it is probably how all true ticklers come to be.....or at least the majority...I believer you prob need a certain 'wiring' (predisposition) to makes you desire to cultivate the fixation as you grow ! I was enthused by the old Popeye cartoons where Olive Oyl was tickle tortured by the bully...
then (as you know..but for the info of others.). ...I was fortunate to read an adult novel that detailed a VERRY intense tickling scenario as part of a tickle interrogation for the "family secrets" type of thing! Reading that scene transfixed me and transformed me.....then when I found a way to convince female friends to let me tickle them.....well....it was a dream come true....😊😈
 
aberdeen said:
The psychology of tickling IS so interesting...as mentioned by Piyr.....there are so many crossed wires when it comes to tickling and sex .... the two activities are the most intimate that two ppl will encounter/enjoy .... whether tickling btw two ppl in an actual romantic relationship...or simply as LER to LEE....or even LERS to LEE...!

Tickling it is the 'closest' humans will get between each other aside from sex....The ticklish spots on a LEE all mimic or are the same as erogenous zones...its usually only a matter of degree and quality of touch...
the hormonal responses to tickling is the same as sexual relations....
the feeling of 'well being' after both are so very similar....

The Ler who tickles with an affectionate demeanor (not in a 'mean' way...but just to explore the Lee's limits) can still be extremely intense .... but the mindset is more of the wonder of exploring...to see what we can do with our talents as ticklers...and yes to overwhelm the Lee's senses and their whole mind...I LOVE that dynamic about tickling.....But in reality...No different than performing the other 'intimate' act!
That 'wiring' is why the emotions and responses to tickle and being tickled are so varied....and also it's not just your brain wiring but how you were exposed to tickling (whenever you were introduced to it)...how you responded and what behaviors you associated with it...

I have tickled as a 'purist' tickler in a platonic fashion to obtain the fun and sometimes every intense reactions...but also sensually ...with the intention of leading to the other 'most intimate' things.....I am wired to be able to separate those types of tickling based on the circumstances and the Lee's involved...but I understand also why some ticklers or ticlklees can't.....it's not that one is stronger mentally or better than the other...and certainly our own built in preferences play a large part...but that is why I like to personally define tickling as a fixation ...Bec its not an automatic sexual fetish or kink for me...and not for everyone...But its totally understandable that many feel that way...as you say...we are all wired differently and the wires cross all over the place to give us the psyche we were born with and that we have fostered during our own mental growth !
That intimacy factor is again, why I think our society suffers from lack of human touch/contact...And why many Lee's crave the ticklish sensations (and the hormone rushes) and go back time and time again..to repeat those type of sessions...not all are into torturous levels but 'need' tickling to balance themselves mentally and physcially....
Burt good points you brought up, Piyr !
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This was such a good read
 
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