Question for the guys: preferences when tickling someone

[tklshmasochist]

Mainly I'm interested in hearing the men prospective (though ladies, you can chime in, too). When you are looking for someone as a long term play partner (not necessarily romantic partner), what do you look for? Are there certain body types (curvy/not curvy) you want? Do you not care as long as their ticklish? Do they need to be into any other kinks? And, do you have to be attracted to them? Just curious. Thanks in advance! 🙂

 

[kingofkaboom]

For me, it's simply all about ticklishness. Age (over 18 of course), race, body type, and physical features do not matter. Other kinks? They don't NEED to be into other kinks but it'd be a huge plus if my foot fetish is incorporated. And again, I don't necessarily NEED to be attracted to them but it'd be a bonus if I am. I'm weird though; being mentally attracted to somebody is much more important than being physically attracted to them. For instance, Kim Kardashian is gorgeous but I wouldn't fuck her with a plunger because she's such a shitty human being lol.

 

[Sensualswitch10]

I definitely need to be generally attracted to them. But I've never been lucky enough to have a play partner where it was just play. Always a sexual component, so naturally there would need to be physical attraction. And I wouldn't fuck Kim Kardashian with a plunger either lol, but I'm sure I could enjoy giving her a good tickling.

 

[OscarTheMonkey]

I've never tickled anyone I was not in a relationship with. Since I am lucky enough to be married to my dream girl..I'm in a different position than many. Everything about her is perfect...exept in all honesty, I'm wish she really enjoyed getting tickled, rather than did it just to please me. She also gets a little annoyed if I go to far with teasing and denial of her orgasms..although she loves to do it to me. She is also willing to have us play with others.

I guess a lot of times you settle for the best possible option at the time. I had a girlfriend who always wanted to be tied and tickled, but she really was not that ticklish.. So it was not that much fun. My ex wife was super hot and moderately ticklish...but not on her feet. I always hear stories about guys who can't find a woman who accepts their foot fetish...but I never had that problem.

I guess ultimately if my wife and I were to tickle another woman... I want want her to be very ticklish, somewhat sexy, good at communicating.. And liked to laugh. While I see girls in videos from time to time that I would like to tickle...its often their reactions that I find enticing. I've seen plenty of times a girl who I find to be smoking hot has a lackluster reaction, or really hates it (and morning a fun way) and it ruins it for me.

I guess now I'm spoiled by having my wife???????

 

[lovesribs]

very slender with bony ribs and flat stomachs.

 

[b0xr]

I would look for someone that was fun to be around. She would have to be at least moderately ticklish. I would prefer her to be nicely built and pretty but if she enjoys being tickled, she could look like Shrek for all I care. I'm lucky enough to have a wife that allows me to indulge in this wonderfully freaky fetish and she is just what I'd look for.

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

For me, its getting along with a person is important. How they look doesn't really matter when it comes to tickling. Same thing applies for any other kinks they may like because I would expect to be treated the same.

 

[T-Lord]

I for one happen to prefer cute & shy/submissive, or hot & sassy/playful. Favorite body type is thin and petite, with tiny feet. But specifics don't always matter. Like others have noted, some level of attraction is needed, but this can come from many different physical or personality aspects. Above all she must be ticklish and LOVE getting tickled!!

But personally I'm a total reaction junkie. Her cute giggles and sexy squirming are way more important than her appearance or early pre-tickling impressions.

 

[Darkknight]

If not romantic, a woman who's fun to be around, it's not just tickling for the sake of tickling. Who I'm tickling matters if it's long term, we have to like to be around each other, where we have similar interests.

Since you asked for physical preferences....I prefer taller women and larger feet but nothing wrong with petite and small feet. She can be curvy but I like thin too. Like everyone else, she has to be ticklish and love being tickled. She has to be cute to me, that's the fun part, seeing a cute smile and hearing her cute giggle. Other kinks? Bondage of course but that's it. Yeah I love ticklish feet so if she loves her feet lickled, we are golden. I've tickled women who didn't like feet and had fun with them too.

 

[porcelaindoll2]

I may sound like a terrible human being, but yes looks do matter to me(They matter to my husband as well.) I have already found the handsome devilish libertine of a man I met at a play party/FetLife that I want to spend the rest of days of my days with, so therefore I feel I have every right to be picky. I only play with males and females I find attractive and close to my age or younger. I also need to have some kind of attraction to them(It is normally lust.) and ideally I always want friends with kink benefits. Yes we are in a one hundred percent completely open marriage. We are both allowed to play/shag together and solo.

 

[maniactickler]

She has to be attractive and reasonably fit. no plumpers. must have nice looking feet and a great sense of humor. plus a non smoker.

 

[piyr]

It's too tied to my sexuality to seek out a non-romantic/sexual tickling relationship so her qualities would be one and the same.

 

[a7hgsir4h3jk]

I for one happen to prefer cute & shy/submissive, or hot & sassy/playful. Favorite body type is thin and petite, with tiny feet. But specifics don't always matter. Like others have noted, some level of attraction is needed, but this can come from many different physical or personality aspects. Above all she must be ticklish and LOVE getting tickled!!

You kind of just described me... not to brag or anything! 😛

 

[laughing]

Though I personally am attracted to men, there's something about watching a woman getting tickled that I thoroughly enjoy, so I thought I'd comment.
Usually when I search for videos I'm more inclined to watch videos with girls who look somewhat like me (I actually just made that realization...). I love seeing a girl who has a flat stomach and is about average height stretched tightly so that her stomach is readily available for merciless tickling. Also, another important aspect for me: her laughter must be authentic. I immediately stop watching if the girl has a fake laugh or a laugh that is too annoying. 😛

 

[Sandisk444]

I love seeing a girl who has a flat stomach and is about average height stretched tightly so that her stomach is readily available for merciless tickling. Also, another important aspect for me: her laughter must be authentic. I immediately stop watching if the girl has a fake laugh or a laugh that is too annoying. 😛

I was pretty much going to say exactly this except that I'm perfectly happy if the woman's stomach is flat/toned or a bit more curvy. Also ideally the belly button would have to be nice and ticklish, it wouldn't be a deal breaker but I can't say it wouldn't make it infinitely more enjoyable 😉.

 

[mxaxtxtx]

Personality is definitely the first thing I look for. I mean, for a long term partner, you have to at least get along right? After that, it's all about ticklishness for me. The formula is kind of like this: ticklish is + 5 points, not ticklish is -7 points. If you are a 2, but are genuinely ticklish, you're now a 7 for me. Consequently if you are a 10, but not ticklish, you're a 3 now. Being ticklish is ver important to me lol

 

[DontAskJusTckle]

I tend to choose my recipients based on a spur of the moment decision. I favor women who aren't expecting to be tickled and are not prepared for it. I'm not interested in consensual tickling "sessions," and even less interested in relationships based on tickling. For me it is all about the element of surprise, the spasmodic reactions, and the process of recovery. 😀

For example - this past weekend, I was doing a gig at one of the many venues here in Austin. There was a pretty, young bartender who was all of 22 years old. Though her attire and her demeanor both gave the impression of a rough and tumble redneck girl, her face was beautiful and almost angelic. She was sporting short shorts (what used to be commonly known as "daisy dukes") a thin flannel shirt that was open but still tucked into her shorts. Under her flannel she had on a sky blue wifebeater. And to top it all off, a baseball cap that said Texas Rangers.

Our singer Don has a peculiar style of hitting on a girl. He picks out something about her and feeds her constant shit about it. Not my style, but he does experience a degree of success that I wouldn't have expected from such a strategy. After our sets were done, the guitarist and bassist immediately bolted. Singer Don and drummer Ron and I were drinking beers and knocking back shots out on the porch with various people, including the now off-duty bartender. Don was of course teasing her relentlessly about the Coors Light she was drinking. I asked her if I could get her a shot and she smiled and said she could really use a "Royal Fuck." She watched for me for a reaction. I just gave her a half smile and said in my best James Bond, "One Royal Fuck coming up."

I had no idea what was in a Royal Fuck, but the on-duty bartender immediately knew what it was and who it was for. As I brought her drink back (plus one for me as I was curious) she was telling a story with great and avid detail, almost like a comedian on stage. Her back was to me as her whole body contributed to the story-telling, which culminated in her victory over the antagonist of her story. At this point she threw her hands straight up in the air, the way an umpire declares a touchdown. Having set the drinks down, I reached out and gave her ribs a good one-second, eight finger tickle. She let out a soft shriek and flinched so severely she nearly collapsed to the floor. She looked at me with eyes blazing.

"Hey, you asked for a Royal Fuck," I said. "That was the best I could manage in mixed company." I held out her drink. "Well, that and this drink."

As quickly as that, she was back to her grinning sassy self, called me an asshole and thanked me for the drink. About an hour later when I was leaving, she gave me a very sweet hug and told me, "I'm here tomorrow."

Maybe Don's method and my own aren't all that different after all.

 

[Sensualswitch10]

I tend to choose my recipients based on a spur of the moment decision. I favor women who aren't expecting to be tickled and are not prepared for it. I'm not interested in consensual tickling "sessions," and even less interested in relationships based on tickling. For me it is all about the element of surprise, the spasmodic reactions, and the process of recovery.

Great story DAJT. Your username makes a lot more sense now! It's nice to see that not everyone on this forum believes permission must be expressly given before any friendly little tickle.
I mean, that's a good policy for NEST, or any gathering really, but sometimes in normal human interaction, people make physical contact (with adults that they are familiar with) without first asking "pardon me sir or madame, but may I inquire as to whether you would be inclined to receive a little tickle?"

 

[Volsung]

I am generally easy to please, and would be thrilled if the woman was ticklish. Especially, on the soles of her feet. Can I give a little foot-worship out there?

 

[tickler29]

I like a belly that is flat/toned to slightly curvy. A fun, playful personality is also a plus. I also tend to lean towards younger 'lees. But basically if you're in decent shape, ticklish and willing to be tickled, it's a go.