Question for the TMF ladies.

[njjen3953]

I was reading daisycrazy's thread about tickling fantasies

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=27298&perpage=15&pagenumber=2

and saw that a few of the guys mentioned fantasizing about many of the TMF ladies.

How does it make you feel to know that you may be the object of these men's fantasies?

For me, it is flattering and I kind of like it, but I also know that it will remain a fantasy.

It is actually bittersweet because I would love to be in a relationship with someone that fantasizes about me. I am not sure if that is possible.

Jen

 

[JPie1]

I must be too quiet and tame in here, I didn't see my name mentioned in any of those fantasies...lol, oh well...I guess I am just an old suburban mama.


JPie

 

[Sunriseticklee]

Not that the particular thread mentioned me, but there have been threads in the past that have. I find it sweet and flattering in some cases.

Other cases I'm like... *GULP* I fantasize about YOU too!

LOL... and yes there are guys here who I would LOVE to get my hands on and that I wish right at this moment that they were getting me.

BUT I am soooo not telling ya'll who those guys are. *whew* That would be sooo embarrassing!

It's gettin hot in here!
Sunrise

 

[Mimi]

I consider that to be flattery in the highest form. Makes me feel all warm and tingly and special. A lovely warm glow 🙂

Thanks for pointing that other thread out Jen. I had missed that. And it came at a good time, after this past weekend left me feeling a little old and less desirable. Just can't compete with the young cuties anymore. *sigh*

Mimi

 

[Deleted member 2452]

may i say something?

jpie, do not worry, i have thought about you more than a few times, lol.
to all the tmf ladies that i have been bold enough to flirt with, and those of you i haven't, i respect you all. our little speck here in the cosmos is better for you all being who, and what you are!

it makes my heart soar to know there are women, live breathing women, who love and think about the same things that i do.
please believe me when i say i think about you all daily, and you are (for the most part) clothed!
thank you all.
steve
p.s. mimi there's nothing that can compare with a ticklish mature woman!

 

[qjakal]

Comparisons...

Except of course a well restrained mature ticklish female. Not that I ever think of anyone in that sense...oh never! Mostly I contemplate flowers and...damn, even I don't believe myself. Must try harder when BS'ing. Q

 

[njjen3953]

Thanks Steve. Especially about the "clothed" part. LOL

It is nice to see that I am not the only one flattered by this. Some women would be offended by it.

I also have my fantasies about certain members here. It is just that most of them are men that I wish would be more than just a fantasy. 😉

 

[njjen3953]

Re: Comparisons...

Except of course a well restrained mature ticklish female. Not that I ever think of anyone in that sense...oh never! Mostly I contemplate flowers and...damn, even I don't believe myself. Must try harder when BS'ing. Q

😛

 

[ticklish_songbird]

i guess i am in the same boat as jpie... i dont post alot, but in the chatroom quite freqently.. anyways, it definitely would be nice to be fantasized about... actually, i had a story posted about me in tmf. scribe, who wrote it was very sweet on me, and that made me feel good... 😀

 

[SimplyRio]

... It is actually bittersweet because I would love to be in a relationship with someone that fantasizes about me. I am not sure if that is possible.
Jen

Jen,
It is possible... believe it.

David & I are only one of many couples who met (I'm assuming) while exploring fantasies involving one of our favorite kinks -- TicklingDuo, MastrTklr&Giglnchik, Venraya&Venray, and Josie&Recycler come to mind just off the top of my head. While it may not have been in this particular forum, there are so many venues that people become involved in by virtue of just congregating with like minds... by the mere nature of group dynamics, eventually some people will make a stronger than casual connection - strong enough to take it to the next level and sometimes beyond.

Ticklers/lees, I think, are innately more imaginative than the average schmoe. I know I'm married to one of the most creative Fantasizers in the universe (as I'm sure many of you lovely ladies here on The TMF and elsewhere can attest to LOL) and, you're absolutely right, having that element of fantasy woven into a tangible relationship is not only exceptional, but worth waiting for.

I know it's hard to be patient, but I was in my mid-30s before I even acknowledged how much tickling was a part of my sensuality/sexuality - and I didn't have the advantage of so many resources (online and otherwise) at my fingertips that are available now. And at the time David and I met, I was about as averse to starting a new relationship as possible (poor guy... had him chasing after me for a couple of years! heh heh heh) I can only surmise that it was meant to be, when the time was right.

Anyway, my point is... in the meantime, just enjoy being one of the Ladies of the TMF who might be tickling the fabulously imaginative minds of our male counterparts. (Ladies of the TMF? do I see a calendar in our future?? LOL)

 

[njjen3953]

Rio,
I think you misunderstood what I meant. I am not boo hooing about not being in a relationship.

What I meant was that it would be nice to be with someone that I am the object of their fantasies and them mine. This way, we would no longer need to fanasize about someone else.

 

[crydun]

I must be too quiet and tame in here, I didn't see my name mentioned in any of those fantasies...lol, oh well...


JPie

I feel the same Jpie. but that's ok. somewhere out there, there's a male ticklephile just waiting for me to snatch him up. and I will!!😀

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

I would like to know exactly what these fellas are fantasizing about...I've never been to a gathering or posted my pic on the TMF. Are they tickling a faceless 'lee? Lol..

Maggie

 

[Limeoutsider]

I wasn't named in the thread, however I feel that it is harmless fun.

 

[cleopatra2003]

it is very flattering to a lady or at least it is with me🙂 And there are some male TMF members that I have fantasies about as well. But that is just it, it's fantasy not real. Kinda sad especially if the fantasy is so strong!
2cents🙁

 

[tickleshotel]

I think it is great

Hiya ladies and gents ,

My name wasn;t mentioned either in the posts but I think
it is great to know that once others know who someone is
that there can,are wonderful friendships,relationships
that have potential of starting,building here at the TMF.
I am beginning to post more in the forums so that others
male and female here will get a idea of who I am as a person,
as another that loves tickling,and being tickled but first
sincerely wants to make,nurture lasting friendships whether you
live locally or far away 😀 .
I have been to one tickle gathering a few years ago when I lived
down in the Sacramento area ,and I do intend to attend another
tickle gathering in the near future so that I am more visible
rather than a casual observer (or at least it seems I am a observer
at this point) since I haven;t met some of those that attend the
gatherings on a frequent basis..

 

[Dave2112]

Given the fact that my stories and artwork tend to be rather merciless and elaborate, I've pretty much given up any hope of becoming anyone's fantasy. Nightmare, I can see...Deep, dark thing that lurks in the back of the closet, waiting to ticklishly devour unwitting female victims in a whirlwind of bondage and restraint, I can see...Primary cause of years of intense therapy I can see.

And I used to wonder why I don't get many dates...

😀

 

[crydun]

awww Dave, I think you're cute!😀 😛

 

[njjen3953]

Given the fact that my stories and artwork tend to be rather merciless and elaborate, I've pretty much given up any hope of becoming anyone's fantasy. Nightmare, I can see...Deep, dark thing that lurks in the back of the closet, waiting to ticklishly devour unwitting female victims in a whirlwind of bondage and restraint, I can see...Primary cause of years of intense therapy I can see.

And I used to wonder why I don't get many dates...

😀

Dave,
Since when did you become one of the ladies? LOL

As for you not being fantasized about, your stories and pics are what fantasies are made of. 😉

Jen