Question to people who tell others about their fetish?

[rockshock28]

How do you do it? I mean, your friends might be easy but your family? Personally, I find it weird to discuss my sexual desires with anybody, let alone relatives. I mean, spouses, of course you could do that, but what about your parents? Did you just call them up one day and say, "Hey mom, hey dad, I have a sexual attraction to tickling?" Please explain.

 

[Artoo]

How do you do it? I mean, your friends might be easy but your family? Personally, I find it weird to discuss my sexual desires with anybody, let alone relatives. I mean, spouses, of course you could do that, but what about your parents? Did you just call them up one day and say, "Hey mom, hey dad, I have a sexual attraction to tickling?" Please explain.

Why would I want to tell my family about it? I tell my friends if I think they'd be interested, but why would my mother or father want to know what I get up to in the bedroom?

As for telling friends, it helps to be friends with people who aren't as hung up about sex and sexuality as many people within our society are. University was a god-send for that. It just gets brought up in conversation. You'd be surprised how many of my friends think that the fact I was in a "Tickling Fetish Porn" is the coolest thing ever.

 

[♡AimLEE♡]

The way I look at it is ... would you tell your parents you just had mind blowing sex last night? Most people wouldn't. So why share your tickling fetish with them? If it's something personal / private to you... why share it with your family especially if it will only make you feel awkward, ya know?

I would never EVER tell my family about this. It's none of their business... it's my own life and my own feelings.

 

[Carsomyr]

I think Artoo and Aimee pretty much nailed it. 🙂

 

[rockshock28]

Yeah same basic opinion. I just know people who do share stuff like that and I don't get it so I just wanted to know if other people did it too.

 

[Angel77]

I couldn't tell my family and I would be devastated if they ever found out. I haven't told any close friends, perhaps one day? It's not that I don't trust them because I do. I think it's just that this side is so personal to me and I'm not sure if it would benefit me to let my vanilla friends in on my "little secret." Who knows what the future will bring but this is how I feel at the present time 🙂

 

[texastickler]

I have never told my family anything. Many of my friends and ex-friends know. I am very open about it and I guess if someone were to ask me I would tell them. There is no law however that says you must tell anyone. Having secrets is not a bad thing.

 

[Filthyweasel]

My method always end up being the same with every girl I've been with. My way to tell a girl was usually if the convo got around her her being ticklish, which somehow it does on it's own. She'd say something like "God I'm just ticklish everywhere!" Usually if I'm kissing her on the neck. I then say kinda playfully "you shouldn't have told me that." Of course most would know what that means regardless. So she would reply just as playfully, "oh yeah, why?" To which I get kinda sheepish on purpose and say, "I kinda...have a thing for it." She can see I'm acting shy about it, and every time so far it's been considered as adorable. Her reply after would be "tickling somebody turns you on?" I would nod, even more sheepishly. So far as the time it's never occurred to me to say the words "Or being tickled myself." I think if I did, I'm sure near every girl would have likely pounced straight away.

People seem to think that admitting a tickle fetish would have the same reaction as admitting foot fetish, which sadly has a bit f the opposite effect in mainstream life. The two are related somewhat, but not really in the eyes of the vanilla crowd. More people than you know have some sort of kink, and tickling is very tame compared to most.

 

[john getty]

Just tonight I wanted to post a picture of myself and feet on Myriads challenge thread, but I don't have the equipment to do it. But my neighbour does. I've known him for years and tonight was the first time I told him. He didn't seem to care, but he's very good at hiding what he's thinking. I wasn't happy with the picture anyway so I didn't use it, but we'll try again tomorrow.
It was definitely the most difficult thing I've done this year.

 

[solescratcher99]

My parents/grandparents and I do not have that kind of relationship. Its not about comfort or anything like that, its just that its an inappropriate context. Besides, I think most parents probably have a hint or are at least as indifferent to knowing about our sexual activities as we are of theirs.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

The few vanilla friends that I've told I just kind of blurted it out. That's how I roll. I suck at sugar coating things or pussyfooting around. If I have something to say that's the only way I know how to say it (not always a good thing - not always a bad thing).

As far as family, it's to the point where I can't imagine sitting any of them down and telling them, but if they'd find out on their own somehow, I wouldn't be devastated. I don't think they'd want to talk about any more than I would want to talk about it with them. The only thing they might want to know is that I'm not doing some weird sex thing, and I'm being safe. After that, when I say "Hey I'm going to Ohio/New Hampshire/Albany/Philly to hang out with friends" they'd know what I meant and would stop asking so many questions LOL

In addition, I think they'd interrogate the shit out of Michael to make sure that I wasn't doing anything super outrageous. 🙂

 

[john getty]

My parents/grandparents and I do not have that kind of relationship. Its not about comfort or anything like that, its just that its an inappropriate context. Besides, I think most parents probably have a hint or are at least as indifferent to knowing about our sexual activities as we are of theirs.

Scary thought . . .

 

[DEEPSHOTONE]

I dont think I could ever tell anyone in my family. I really dont think that they'd want to know anyway. My brother knows that I like pretty feet but that's all he knows. My sister and parents dont know a thing. I wouldnt go around telling everyone and anyone personal things, but if its ok to tell people that are close to you; really close. Be carefull who you confide in.....

 

[darman]

Why would anyone want to tell mom and dad I just don`t think it`s family thing gf`s maybe close friends yeah

 

[Radiohead 7140]

when i told my parents my mom tied me down and my dad tickled the shit out of me. omg it was SO HOT!!!

 

[baldadonis]

when i told my parents my mom tied me down and my dad tickled the shit out of me. omg it was SO HOT!!!

This explains so much about you.

 

[the tickleshow]

My fetish is not my family's business. Not really my friends' business, either, to be honest. I did tell my wife when we were dating and she was VERY into the idea. I should have known there was trouble when she still would never let me do it with her. We got married and now she suddenly thinks I need psychological help with my tickling "problem". Imagine that!

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[spike102]

when i told my parents my mom tied me down and my dad tickled the shit out of me. omg it was SO HOT!!!

Yup, explains a TON about you, my nemesis. you and your rage. hahaha

 

[Coup de Grace]

I don't do it in fear of being perceived as a freak. Most of my close friends have figured it out though since I'm always mentioning how women with french pedicures are HOT.

 

[-Hari-]

I doubt many people tell theyre families, mqaybe they accidently find out sometimes or whatever.

As for friends, if weve been on a sexual topic, ive just been open about it, at least for the last few years where ive become more comfortable with the whole thing.

 

[gilmourwaters]

I had no problems in telling any of my friends about my fetish ever...but i dont think anyones family members would feel comfortable hearing about there sons (or daughters) sexual antics as it were..lol......however, seeing the incredible amount of tickling i endured and got myself into growing up in my house i really think the response from my parents or siblings would be something like."no kidding....really?? I'm STUNNNNNED!" very sarcastically.....lol

 

[playmaker]

Hggghe

 

[leafstk]

I could definitely never tell my family. That's just weird. I don't tell my friends because it's none of their business anyway. I'm open about it to the people I date who are pretty much the only people that need to know.

Agreed... and good to see you back, Annie!

 

[Radiohead 7140]

This explains so much about you.

yea? so what's your excuse