Definition of "gay" in western culture: An unmarried man who does not sincerely propose marriage to at least one woman every 3 months, after finishing Junior High School, until he is married.
Please note that the man's financial stability, the man's military future, the educational plans of the man or woman, the current educational path of either the man or the woman, the woman's character, the woman's general physical appearance, the woman's family characteritics, the woman's intellect, the woman's education, the woman's financial tendencies, the religious beleifs of the man or woman, the political beliefs of either of them, the domestic habbits of either person, ,,,, none of that stuff matters.
If you aren't gay, start proposing marriage; to any human female you see.