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Real-Life Nonconsensual Tickle Torture

bl3518

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I'm a bit new to the site so forgive me if this isn't an appropriate place for my post. Has anyone here ever endured genuine, real-life nonconsensual tickle torture? By that, I mean a situation where someone actually tortured you with tickling against your will for a prolonged period of time. This is something I've been through myself, and I'm hoping to connect with anyone who has had a similar experience, or anyone who may have thoughts/advice for someone like me who has experienced it. If you have been on the receiving end of involuntary tickle torture, what was it like? How are you doing now? How has it affected you, if at all? Feel free to reach out in a private message.

Thanks for reading.
 
I never had the experience but I actually witnessed it.
I you want to know more about it you can DM me if you want?
I think its a bit too personal to just expose it here
But I would love to talk about it with you
 
I never had the experience but I actually witnessed it.
I you want to know more about it you can DM me if you want?
I think its a bit too personal to just expose it here
But I would love to talk about it with you
Wow!
I'm intrigued and horrified at the same time~
Haha
 
can't say I have I always find tkling to always be between 2 lovers
 
I hope the starter of this topic wants to response to my DM.. I hope he reads this 🙂
 
I HATED being tickled as a kid. I don’t know if the phobia/fetish flip happened for me or what but I was legitimately tortured many times when I was younger. I would get physically violent in response and REALLY inconsolably mad. (There was some trauma issues involved, very willing to discuss privately if it would help you in any way)
 
I HATED being tickled as a kid. I don’t know if the phobia/fetish flip happened for me or what but I was legitimately tortured many times when I was younger.

I can identify with this in a way. A few relatives used to get me under my arms when I was little, but here’s the hook.

I wasn’t ticklish. I just could not stand being touched there. It was irritating. But based on that reaction they would just keep it up. It wasn’t until I started getting seriously angry they stopped.

Fast forward years later, my girlfriend, who would eventually become my wife would try to tickle me in different spots when we were playing. But nothing worked, not even a little.

Fast forward again, we’re married for a couple years and she accidentally tickled me under my arm. To my surprise it tickled, a lot. Now it’s her go to spot and I actually enjoy it.

I think there’s a lot to be said about having a deep emotional connection with someone and how it can effect you on so many levels.
 
I was meerly saying that the subject was interesting... I had not seen this subject in the forum before.

My apologies if some of you took it the wrong way.
 
I was meerly saying that the subject was interesting... I had not seen this subject in the forum before.

My apologies if some of you took it the wrong way.

I feel the same way about this topic! Being intrigued and horrified is just showing natural curiosity, you are fine <3
 
I was subjected to this when I was younger; interestingly, it became a diversion from adult stressors later because I remembered that I was tickled to the point of seeing stars and having my mind go blank, something like a natural high that I crave on a regular basis now.
 
I was subjected to this when I was younger; interestingly, it became a diversion from adult stressors later because I remembered that I was tickled to the point of seeing stars and having my mind go blank, something like a natural high that I crave on a regular basis now.


Very relatable. And odd taste of aversion and attraction developed.
 
"Intrigued and horrified" is totally understandable, considering the razor's-edge aspect of our fetish, i.e., the discomfort/pleasure aspect. For me, personally, outright nonconsensual is too rapey. It's only kosher when the ticklee has a "thing" for getting kidnapped/tickled or feeling like she has no control over the situation (I've met a few of these online over the years). There's all kinds SM/BD psychology and dynamics at work here that I won't rehash from past posts, but this fetish definitely has a fear/anxiety level that can't be denied.
 
Well, considering most tickling situations are non-consensual I can think of many. One was where a group of female friends were laying on a bed, one was trapped under all of them with her feet sticking out so they decided to tickle her for a straight minute, her feet were very ticklish so she went berserk and eyes were tearing after they were done.
 
I've never been a fan of non-consensual tickling, I'll always ask first
 
consentual non-con where the ler has blanket consent 😀

Brilliantly worded. I think this is essentially the umbrella of "permission" under which all of my ticklers have operated, even though the blanket consent in my case is implied rather than explicitly stated.
 
I'm a bit new to the site so forgive me if this isn't an appropriate place for my post. Has anyone here ever endured genuine, real-life nonconsensual tickle torture? By that, I mean a situation where someone actually tortured you with tickling against your will for a prolonged period of time. This is something I've been through myself, and I'm hoping to connect with anyone who has had a similar experience, or anyone who may have thoughts/advice for someone like me who has experienced it. If you have been on the receiving end of involuntary tickle torture, what was it like? How are you doing now? How has it affected you, if at all? Feel free to reach out in a private message.

Thanks for reading.

Yes, it happened to me in college. If you want to discuss, send me a PM. I've had some crappy interactions with some on TMF.
 
Well, considering most tickling situations are non-consensual I can think of many. One was where a group of female friends were laying on a bed, one was trapped under all of them with her feet sticking out so they decided to tickle her for a straight minute, her feet were very ticklish so she went berserk and eyes were tearing after they were done.

Well, as I agre that most of tickle situations ate non consensual, the starter of the thread doesn't mean the minute, rather a prolonged tickle. Me myself was tickled by my dad, which I hated because even as a kid I associated tickling with m/f and ticklishness with feminity, so m/m and my sensitivity exposed was extremely uncomfortable, like being put in girls clothes (I speak about early 80'ies, so it wasn't done then). I think the tickling itself wasn't that long and I am only slightly ticklish, so it was rather "being treated like a girl" psychological factor that was torturous.
 
I HATED being tickled as a kid. I don’t know if the phobia/fetish flip happened for me or what but I was legitimately tortured many times when I was younger. I would get physically violent in response and REALLY inconsolably mad. (There was some trauma issues involved, very willing to discuss privately if it would help you in any way)

Same. I was deathly scared of being tickled. The kicker was, I was probably only tickled a handful of times in my entire childhood. It flipped in college when I had finished growing and was big and strong and no longer felt powerless, I guess.
 
The deleted or moderated comment called me stupid because I associated being tickled with females. I was talking about 6-8 years old kid feelings. And tes, I used the word "Even as then " suggesting I still do. Yes, but that is not stupidity, but conditioning from the times, when my fetish developed and that was about 6-8.
 
The deleted or moderated comment called me stupid because I associated being tickled with females. I was talking about 6-8 years old kid feelings. And tes, I used the word "Even as then " suggesting I still do. Yes, but that is not stupidity, but conditioning from the times, when my fetish developed and that was about 6-8.

I can understand that mind-frame. Like I associate tickling with weakness almost, which is not a complaint. It's a weakness I enjoy having exploited, but seeing someone that I saw as a dominant get tickled, for me is a huge turn off / ruins my fantasy-image of their ler persona in a way, which then affects the feeling of panic and intimidation, that I enjoy, in future play. I am 100% consciously aware that the malfunction of this thinking is my issue and no one else's. I know plenty of switches and male lees through the community online and at events and I would never say or do anything to make them feel some type of way. I definitely don't want to hurt any feelings. I keep it mostly in my head or in threads like this, which I hope are more about discussing and understanding than bickering. I don't know if my response here is entirely on topic, but I guess it speaks to the misconception that ticklishness is "feminine" or "weak", though some of us enjoy playing on that weakness for humiliation kink purposes.

At any rate, no one's stupid, and I understand where you were coming from paszkowt. Hopefully, my rambling made some kind of sense 🙂
 
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I can understand that mind-frame. Like I associate tickling with weakness almost, which is not a complaint. It's a weakness I enjoy having exploited, but seeing someone that I saw as a dominant get tickled, for me is a huge turn off / ruins my fantasy-image of their ler persona in a way, which then affects the feeling of panic and intimidation, that I enjoy, in future play. I am 100% consciously aware that the malfunction of this thinking is my issue and no one else's. I know plenty of switches and male lees through the community online and at events and I would never say or do anything to make them feel some type of way. I definitely don't want to hurt any feelings. I keep it mostly in my head or in threads like this, which I hope are more about discussing and understanding than bickering. I don't know if my response here is entirely on topic, but I guess it speaks to the misconception that ticklishness is "feminine" or "weak", though some of us enjoy playing on that weakness for humiliation kink purposes.

At any rate, no one's stupid, and I understand where you were coming from paszkowt. Hopefully, my rambling made some kind of sense 🙂
I was bullied as a kid. Not phisically, but mocked and ridiculed a lot. Both by boys and girls. With boys I could do nothing, but girls I could tickle.Then I was in control of things and even the toughest girl begged me for forgiveness instead of mocking me. I think about at least one who must enjoy that secretly, because she kept mocking me, despite the certainity of getting tickled in retalioation...
The second thing was that in the first grades boys tickled girls a lot. There were never m/m tickling, we wrestled instead. But girls got "hunted" and tickled.And in that, I was like the other boys - the girls laughed for me and begged for mercy as for any other boy. As it's a tender age for triggering sexual and behavioral patterns it easily led me to "boy - dominant, tickler, girl, submissive, ticklee, easili tamed by tickling". And it stayed till today. It's not intellectual, it's imprinted. f/m tickling turns that pattern upside down and therefore is disturbing for me. (Which is a pity, because my wife hates being tickled but loves to tickle, so f/m I could have in plenty and as I understand hating being tickled taht she feels the way I feel I seldom tickle her). Tickling is definitely sexual for me and that's why m/m is not my thing as I am straight and m/m is an equivalent of gay porn for me. f/f I deal with by mentally switching the leer with myself.
 
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