Receptive 'Lee vs. Non-Receptive 'Lee?

[OnnaOtaku]

It hadn't occurred to me until recently, but now that it has, I am curious as to what others think about it.

(This has probably been posted at some other point, but I am not going to search millions of responses, especially when I can only do one search every 30 seconds, to find it.)

Without further ado, when it comes to your 'lee, do you enjoy someone that loves to be tickled? Or, is there some sort of sadistic, satisfying feeling you get when you're tickling someone that just hates it (obviously consenting to let you do it, of course)?

The reason I ask is because I HATE, HATE, HATE being tickled, but I wonder if that makes me more appealing to tickle to my husband (I haven't thought to ask this to him yet, but I will next time I talk to him). Personally, me being a 'ler and dominant type, there's something kind of hot about torturing someone that doesn't quite like it, but of course consenting to let you do it. This doesn't necessarily pertain just to tickling, but other things. For instance, I have a riding crop that I love and want to use, but my husband hates pain. Knowing this turns me on. 🙂

So, all in all, does a more receptive 'lee vs. less receptive 'lee and vice versa turn you on more?

Discuss.

 

[arcstudent]

I'd have to say it depends on who you're torturing.

In my case, my girlfriend and tickle slave has a fetish for being tied up and controlled. In her case the tickling itself doesn't turn her on but the helplessness does. Of course, tickling her and seeing her get wet adds to it for me personally. Needless to say the tickle torture is followed by some passionate after play.

 

[OnnaOtaku]

I'd have to say it depends on who you're torturing.

In my case, my girlfriend and tickle slave has a fetish for being tied up and controlled. In her case the tickling itself doesn't turn her on but the helplessness does. Of course, tickling her and seeing her get wet adds to it for me personally. Needless to say the tickle torture is followed by some passionate after play.

Hmmm! That is a good point. I hate being tickled, but I love being bound and helpless.

 

[robmic]

Personally, I like someone that is too ticklish to be able to really "like" being tickled, but would tolerate it. Have had some experiences in the past like that and they were great!

 

[megsmegs]

My most recent ex is unbeliveably ticklish everywhere on his body, and unfortunately hates it with a passion. At first I used to get a kick out of tickling him relentlessly, until he started becoming physically distrusting about me touching him. I'd moveto rub his back and he'd flinch away. So that took the majority of the fun out of it. I'll still tickle him on occasion to start up a tickle war (which he usually wins since he's good at pinning me down.) but for the most part I try to leave him be.

Tickling someone who is more receptive to it can take away some of the torturous thrill, but I think it's a decent trade off considering they'll most likely be able to go longer. Also, you can still tickle them spontaneously.

 

[OnnaOtaku]

My most recent ex is unbeliveably ticklish everywhere on his body, and unfortunately hates it with a passion. At first I used to get a kick out of tickling him relentlessly, until he started becoming physically distrusting about me touching him. I'd moveto rub his back and he'd flinch away. So that took the majority of the fun out of it. I'll still tickle him on occasion to start up a tickle war (which he usually wins since he's good at pinning me down.) but for the most part I try to leave him be.

Tickling someone who is more receptive to it can take away some of the torturous thrill, but I think it's a decent trade off considering they'll most likely be able to go longer. Also, you can still tickle them spontaneously.

This is exactly how I am with my husband. If he just touches my back or something, I wriggle away. I can't trust where he puts his hands.

 

[deadlywiffeathr]

I find a receptive lee more of a turn on. You can love being tickled but still be pushed to your limits. I myself love being tickled but have been in situations where I've had to BEG for whoever's tickling me to stop and it was still fun as all hell. I think if you flip that and the person being tickled is begging for it to stop and genuinely not having a good time, it takes all the fun out of the situation.