TicklishLurker said:
I think "Christians" would have a bigger problem with the lustful feelings tickling brings up in us.
Of course, I consider myself a Christian. I believe in God, in Jesus, in Heaven and Hell. But I also believe the Bible has been messed up by men to reflect their own views. I believe the only true sins are murder, rape, pedophila, drug abuse, things like that. I don't believe in one true religion - though I do believe a religion can be evil such as Satanism or have ideals that are wrong.
Most "Christians" who'd call us sinners aren't really Christians at all because they forget one of the main teachings of Christ - Love thy neighbor.
Wow-I'm simply blown away!
*claps and cheers!*
This statement sums up the last 4 years of my life. I was a church-going, bible-thumping, "Christian". I was learning the religious "rules of engagement" and was following them pretty much to the letter. I tried hard to do what I was told from pulpits every Sunday, Tuesday, and Thursday. And if I didn't make it to all services, I was made to feel guilty and useless. If I didn't participate durinig services, I was made to feel I didn't love God as much as those who did.
Then my "cold slap in the face" moment came when I started to notice how my son was getting treated. For the few who might not know, my son is autistic and mentally handicapped. He loved going to church until he turned 13 or so. That's when he realized that he couldn't make friends and the kids (mostly children of the "leaders" of the church) would exclude him from activities or make fun of him behind his back. It was so bad that he refused to go to teen bible study and stayed with me and his sister during services. He never told me what was going on and he suffered for years. The adults would treat him differently too-only a few people saw who he was, respected him, and treated him as an equal to his sister.
I ignored the obvious and kept burying and suppressing my feelings about it to the point I fell into a depression. I could not get out of bed on Sunday morning and take my kids to church anymore. That was going on 5 years ago and I haven't been in a church since.
I don't know why I consumed so much space in this thread, but ticklishlurker's post gave me rapid-fire flashbacks! She put the last few years of my life in print-it's rare someone is able to do that.
Now, back to the origiinal question..................
Why does God make us ticklish if we weren't meant to tickle or be tickled? Why did God take something that some find distasteful and abusive and others love doing and having done to them? Why all of the sexual overtones to tickling when during our childhood it was playful and fun?
I am still washing away guilt and shame over my love of tickling. I still get uncomfortable when watching vids and sometimes getting turned on by them. I have an overactive imagination and begin to imagine being the ler or even the lee in the vid and I occasionally get "overwhelmed".
I still believe in God, but I don't believe that relationship with Him is conditional of going to church and dealing with His so-called "people!" I caught more hell in church than I ever did in the street! Religion excludes and finger-points at those who are different regardless if the differences are born or made. It creates expectations that are virtually unattainable then says "do it or else you're going to hell!"
I'm sorry this post was so long but it's a personal thing and sometimes I just have to go there!