I came back to TMF somewhere between late July and early August, I honestly don't remember. Just recently I decided to read over the posts that were on my goodbye thread. Those of you that said comforting compliments I thank you. Those of you that didn't, I thank anyways. Really the big break was what I needed. I think that I have grown a lot in the past months, with the help of therapy. I didn't realize it until my therapist pointed it out, I had an extremely bad aniexty problem. I didn't beleive it until I had my first panic attack. Though, that is no excuse to say those horrible things, and I am truely sorry. And if Phineas ever reads this, you were not the reason, I'm sorry that you thought you were. Reading what I posted, wow, I really was an immature, ignorant, pardon my french, well bitch. I really can't believe that I was like that. Half of the things that people talked about I honestly do not remember, and I really do not want to, I would just like to move forward. Anyways, I am writing this post to apologize to all that I have insulted, offended, and hurt. Some of you say, it's just a computer, but knowing that you did something like that, doesn't make you feel too good.Sure it's just a screen, but there are REAL people on the other side. But I am happy to say that I, at least, don't think that I am that person anymore. I will admit that I still have a little habit of being blunt but I truely am trying my best. And I hope that some of you will be kind and give me a second chance.
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Returning to the TMF
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ShadowTklr
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Everyone makes mistakes. That is part of personal growth. Recognition, examination, understanding, reconciliation.
Welcome back. 🙂
Welcome back. 🙂
I'm not familiar with you past posts, but I think I posted on your goodbye thread. It takes a special person to admit when they're wrong, put it writing, and post it on the Internet. You certainly have my respect.
Welcome back to the TMF and I hope your future is better than your past!😀
Welcome back to the TMF and I hope your future is better than your past!😀
Welcome back, Enny. I for one am happy to have you back. I've always liked you. You mentioned therapy and needing a break. Sometimes that can be just the thing to get a person back on track. Anyhow, I hope that now that you are back, TMF will be a more enjoyable experience.
Well, take it easy. I'll see you in the chat.
Mitch
Well, take it easy. I'll see you in the chat.
Mitch
grippedchimp
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You live and learn, Ennykins. Everyone does more than one thing you regret in your lifetime at one point, and anxiety is something we have to put up with, especially in our younger years. Anyway, it's good to see you mellowed out, and we're glad to see you back.
Welcome Back!
It's good to see you've returned... I've been absent for a long time myself, but am trying to work my way back into regular posting and chatting, as able.
There's nothing wrong with being blunt, y'know 🙂 And, I imagine... you weren't the only one who needed to grow a little.
Regardless, your recognition and efforts at self-improvement are a shining example that a lot of us would probably do well to follow. It's good to see you, again.
It's good to see you've returned... I've been absent for a long time myself, but am trying to work my way back into regular posting and chatting, as able.
There's nothing wrong with being blunt, y'know 🙂 And, I imagine... you weren't the only one who needed to grow a little.
Regardless, your recognition and efforts at self-improvement are a shining example that a lot of us would probably do well to follow. It's good to see you, again.
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Glad to see things have worked out for the best, sweetness! hope to catch u online so we can catch up.
featherfingers
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I may have joined TMF just as you were leaving so I don't know anything about you from that time. But the person you are now sounds like someone who is very nice, so welcome to TMF, Enny!
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Welcome back, Enny...and I look forward to seeing you around the chatroom.
The past is the past. We learn from our mistakes and in a way, need to make those mistakes. Hell, in some ways they're not even mistakes, but part of the trials of maturing, growing and learning. I believe that the bad parts of life are just as vital as the good, and in order to bring balance you must accept all of what you are, not just the stuff that looks pretty on the outside. 😎
Good luck and have fun again! That's what the TMF is all about. 😎
The past is the past. We learn from our mistakes and in a way, need to make those mistakes. Hell, in some ways they're not even mistakes, but part of the trials of maturing, growing and learning. I believe that the bad parts of life are just as vital as the good, and in order to bring balance you must accept all of what you are, not just the stuff that looks pretty on the outside. 😎
Good luck and have fun again! That's what the TMF is all about. 😎
BlackmoonDoll
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welcome back 😀 enjoy yourself here
Re: How Exactly Is Coming Back To An Addiction..
If the first part of your question was supposed to be formatted as a title or heading, then the words "to" and "an" should have been lowercased. 🙂
Oh, and lighten up, for crying out loud! 😉
Neutron said:
If the first part of your question was supposed to be formatted as a title or heading, then the words "to" and "an" should have been lowercased. 🙂
Oh, and lighten up, for crying out loud! 😉
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I'm Plenty Lightened Up..
And by the way Enny was always one of my favorite posters, but let's not pretend there was a huge moral catharsis here that resulted in return to the TMF, what I see is someone losing to an addiction. It's not someone admitting a mistake.
Costing someone millions of dollars due to negligence, then admitting it, is admitting a mistake. Leaving an internet message board "forever" then coming back is not admitting a mistake.
Tron
And by the way Enny was always one of my favorite posters, but let's not pretend there was a huge moral catharsis here that resulted in return to the TMF, what I see is someone losing to an addiction. It's not someone admitting a mistake.
Costing someone millions of dollars due to negligence, then admitting it, is admitting a mistake. Leaving an internet message board "forever" then coming back is not admitting a mistake.
Tron
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*Sigh* A sincere, if belated, Welcome Back, Enny...
...to be perfectly honest, I hadn't realized that you'd left. But as you can see, nothing much has changed. We're still the happy bunch that get along so famously all the time. 🙄 Welcome home. Here's hoping you find your share of the laughter.
...to be perfectly honest, I hadn't realized that you'd left. But as you can see, nothing much has changed. We're still the happy bunch that get along so famously all the time. 🙄 Welcome home. Here's hoping you find your share of the laughter.
Re: I'm Plenty Lightened Up..
Forgive me, Tron, if I offended you by saying "lighten up." Since we're online, and not face-to-face, I use the TMF smilies to indicate my intention, emotion, whatever you choose to call it. I thought that the "wink" smiley would communicate the lightheartedness of my reply. (A majority of my posts are in a similar vein.) Apparently, my intention was misunderstood.
Neutron said:
Forgive me, Tron, if I offended you by saying "lighten up." Since we're online, and not face-to-face, I use the TMF smilies to indicate my intention, emotion, whatever you choose to call it. I thought that the "wink" smiley would communicate the lightheartedness of my reply. (A majority of my posts are in a similar vein.) Apparently, my intention was misunderstood.
