Persuasive_Ben
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Rock Stars Make Better Ticklers Than Poets
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Sorry, but that's not true for me at all. When it comes to tickling, I don't care for social value at all, neither would I care for celebrity status. What matters to me, is that I like the person who wants to tickle me, trust them and know they're into it as much as I am and therefore know what they are doing. 😉
First, allow me to welcome you to the TMF and congratulate you on your first post. I sincerely hope you stick around get to know people here.
Your ideas are interesting, but in truth I've not seen this correlation between alfa males and tickling. If a male boss grabbed my knee as you describe, he'd get an elbow hard to the jaw, and than a "oh, gee I'm really sorry."
Personally, I don't ascribe some of these extraneous concepts to tickling that many here seem to, like power, control, domination, etc. For me, tickling is more about playfulness, affection, attention, and even therapy.
Your ideas are interesting, but in truth I've not seen this correlation between alfa males and tickling. If a male boss grabbed my knee as you describe, he'd get an elbow hard to the jaw, and than a "oh, gee I'm really sorry."
Personally, I don't ascribe some of these extraneous concepts to tickling that many here seem to, like power, control, domination, etc. For me, tickling is more about playfulness, affection, attention, and even therapy.
brianspencer66
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Hi Yorkshire Lad, Welcome to the TMF and first off congrats on your first post.
With all that said, I understand where your trying to go with your point and though to a tiny extent there may be some truth to it, I really need to go along with what Drew and Minerva said. Most of us males here are not this fictional "Alfa Male" as we dont happen to be rock stars or investment bankers or have the right kind of social standing for the most part. We are simply people who enjoy tickling and being tickled. And I dont think one is a loser or creep or has a built in "yuck" factor if he is not Bruce Willis or the company boss.
Most of what your saying works well in tickling video clips or stories or some of the art work you see here. But its really fantasy. For the real adult world does not work the way you described it. I see your 23 and from England. Im sure your not even this mythical manly man you talk of? My guess is your a nice young guy from the UK with alot of imagination and these are nice things to imagine but most of us here are just hard working ordinary people who like this sort of outlet under the ideal context. Id not want a woman who was looking for what you described. And most women would be hard pressed to find the kind of superman you talk of. Im happy to be with a nice lady who simply likes me for who I am, and I the same for her.
Now maybe if you put a little more clarity in what your saying and say perhaps we can suspend our beliefs about ourselves for the short duration when playing, then perhaps we are on more common ground here.
With all that said, I understand where your trying to go with your point and though to a tiny extent there may be some truth to it, I really need to go along with what Drew and Minerva said. Most of us males here are not this fictional "Alfa Male" as we dont happen to be rock stars or investment bankers or have the right kind of social standing for the most part. We are simply people who enjoy tickling and being tickled. And I dont think one is a loser or creep or has a built in "yuck" factor if he is not Bruce Willis or the company boss.
Most of what your saying works well in tickling video clips or stories or some of the art work you see here. But its really fantasy. For the real adult world does not work the way you described it. I see your 23 and from England. Im sure your not even this mythical manly man you talk of? My guess is your a nice young guy from the UK with alot of imagination and these are nice things to imagine but most of us here are just hard working ordinary people who like this sort of outlet under the ideal context. Id not want a woman who was looking for what you described. And most women would be hard pressed to find the kind of superman you talk of. Im happy to be with a nice lady who simply likes me for who I am, and I the same for her.
Now maybe if you put a little more clarity in what your saying and say perhaps we can suspend our beliefs about ourselves for the short duration when playing, then perhaps we are on more common ground here.
cabalist
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Hmm...was Alfalfa an alfa male?
I think you're speaking mainly of your own preferences and attempting to rationalize a "scientific" generalization from it. It may well be true of some, but has very limited value, if any, as a generalization IMO. The variety of preferences is almost infinite in this area, I think.
(Speaking for myself, I'd prefer all males keep their hands off of me, maybe especially my boss. I'm not particularly homophobic, but it just doesn't do anything for me. Although I'm generally more a "ler" than a "lee" anyway.)
I think you're speaking mainly of your own preferences and attempting to rationalize a "scientific" generalization from it. It may well be true of some, but has very limited value, if any, as a generalization IMO. The variety of preferences is almost infinite in this area, I think.
(Speaking for myself, I'd prefer all males keep their hands off of me, maybe especially my boss. I'm not particularly homophobic, but it just doesn't do anything for me. Although I'm generally more a "ler" than a "lee" anyway.)
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Paultickler
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Hi, Yorkshire. Congratulations on your first post.
I follow you on your association between tickling and status (I assume you meant "alpha male") and that you're trying to make a point, but I can't really tell what the mood is. Are you pointing that out in response to something else, or to complain, or to raise awareness, or just to celebrate it because you like the idea?
I follow you on your association between tickling and status (I assume you meant "alpha male") and that you're trying to make a point, but I can't really tell what the mood is. Are you pointing that out in response to something else, or to complain, or to raise awareness, or just to celebrate it because you like the idea?
Thankyou
Your own Ian Anderson,of Jethro Tull was in his day a poet of the first order in my never to be humble opinion.😉
ChosenofMystra
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How true this rings my good friend!!!!
Oh yes, and as for poets being worse ticklers than rock stars...was it not Shakespeare that said "if you tickle us, do we not laugh?"
Yeah, we've got you beat pal 😛
Rock stars notwithstanding, generally I agree with the lad's post (and welcome!).
But I don't think that "alpha male" thing is as objective as all that. Yes, it's true that I do prefer being tickled by an alpha type, but MY idea of alpha, not someone else's. In fact, I guess really I prefer that he be alpha to me, rather than necessarily to his male peers.
As for rock stars, there's a big honkin' difference between Art Garfunkel and Bruce Springsteen, you know?
But I don't think that "alpha male" thing is as objective as all that. Yes, it's true that I do prefer being tickled by an alpha type, but MY idea of alpha, not someone else's. In fact, I guess really I prefer that he be alpha to me, rather than necessarily to his male peers.
As for rock stars, there's a big honkin' difference between Art Garfunkel and Bruce Springsteen, you know?
