saeria is gone

[Gothika]

Sounds like she's really confused and made a very rash decision by leaving without telling you. It also sounds like your relationship is strong so I would think her coming back to her senses so to speak and going back to you when things get settled with her daughter. Hang in there! 🙂

that is true and i am praying for that to happen

 

[Gothika]

So very sorry to hear this man. I enjoyed meeting both of you a few months ago, you seemed amazing together. I sincerely hope things get better for you and this situation has a happy ending. Good Luck.

thank u very much and i enjoyed meeting u to

 

[Tamia78]

Man, I'm sorry to hear about this. I don't doubt for a minute that Sae was thinking about the little one and left like she did. I'm sure she also knows that you can (and WILL, eat, please!) take good care of yourself while she's gone to fix things. If I need to take my butt to TX and kick some ass, let me know. I'll be her bodyguard if need be.

Love to you both,
--T

 

[Gothika]

Man, I'm sorry to hear about this. I don't doubt for a minute that Sae was thinking about the little one and left like she did. I'm sure she also knows that you can (and WILL, eat, please!) take good care of yourself while she's gone to fix things. If I need to take my butt to TX and kick some ass, let me know. I'll be her bodyguard if need be.

Love to you both,
--T

thanks and i have eaten a little for some reason i am feeling very scared right now and it wont go away no matter how hard i try i have not slept it sucks i took nightquill and still cannot sleep i dont know waht else to do right now and i am so nervious scared depressed full of anxiety and fear right now and it wont go away and i have tried so hard to do so waht am i goona do i am working so hard right now shoot i wish i had a way there right now and someone to get me around and someone to stay with but i dont want to get stuck or anything tho

 

[Homer28]

I wish I had some kick ass advice but I don't have any thting that hasn't been said. I will say that having met you both and had the pleasure of spending some time with you guys that you guys are great together. I wish you the best of luck and will keep you both in my prayers🙂

 

[Mitchell]

goth, I didnt read through the whole thread to see if anyone suggested this yet, but perhaps you should make an appointment with your physician. Maybe if you discuss the situation with him, he can discuss options with you, such as maybe a mild sedative or tranqulizer to aid in relaxing you, which might be of help to you. I know that I've done that on occasion when I've had stressful situations such as going to court, and such.

I hope that advice is helpful.

Mitch

 

[ParanoidChant]

Goth, sir:

I do not profess to know you, and I do not know Saeria. But I was horrified upon reading this thread.

My knowledge of you guys has been limited to whatever you two posted here in the forum and chatted about in TMFradio chatroom, but I always thought you guys were totally awesome and fun people, and reading about what's going on right now eats as me, as I feel there is not too much I can do.

All that I can do is show you my support, and let you know that you are in my thoughts, man. I'm adding the below image to my signature, and I hope that soon other people will add it as well and you can see and be reminded of how much support you guys have on this forum - a forum of friends, and a forum of strangers, but a forum where you know that you're in many people's thoughts and prayers.

 

[Leo tickles]

She obviously does not want to be found.

Even though she may not be thinking clearly and is in possible danger, unless you want to report it to the cops or something like that, I say, as hard as it may be, give her the time she apparently needs.

You can't decide the outcome of this without her, and if she doesn't want to give you closure, and is going to get hurt, there is not much anybody can do about it.

:-/ Just my thoughts, and I wish the best to both of you, no matter what happens.

 

[Gothika]

I wish I had some kick ass advice but I don't have any thting that hasn't been said. I will say that having met you both and had the pleasure of spending some time with you guys that you guys are great together. I wish you the best of luck and will keep you both in my prayers🙂

thanks my friend

goth, I didnt read through the whole thread to see if anyone suggested this yet, but perhaps you should make an appointment with your physician. Maybe if you discuss the situation with him, he can discuss options with you, such as maybe a mild sedative or tranqulizer to aid in relaxing you, which might be of help to you. I know that I've done that on occasion when I've had stressful situations such as going to court, and such.

I hope that advice is helpful.

Mitch

i have thought of that it probly would be a very good idae right now i need to do that thanks

I do not profess to know you, and I do not know Saeria. But I was horrified upon reading this thread.

My knowledge of you guys has been limited to whatever you two posted here in the forum and chatted about in TMFradio chatroom, but I always thought you guys were totally awesome and fun people, and reading about what's going on right now eats as me, as I feel there is not too much I can do.

All that I can do is show you my support, and let you know that you are in my thoughts, man. I'm adding the below image to my signature, and I hope that soon other people will add it as well and you can see and be reminded of how much support you guys have on this forum - a forum of friends, and a forum of strangers, but a forum where you know that you're in many people's thoughts and prayers.

that is friggen ousome dude thanks makes me feel goood

 

[Gothika]

She obviously does not want to be found.

Even though she may not be thinking clearly and is in possible danger, unless you want to report it to the cops or something like that, I say, as hard as it may be, give her the time she apparently needs.

You can't decide the outcome of this without her, and if she doesn't want to give you closure, and is going to get hurt, there is not much anybody can do about it.

:-/ Just my thoughts, and I wish the best to both of you, no matter what happens.

i just need support right now not anything negative thanks tho for that thaughts

 

[BellybTickler]

She obviously does not want to be found.

Even though she may not be thinking clearly and is in possible danger, unless you want to report it to the cops or something like that, I say, as hard as it may be, give her the time she apparently needs.

You can't decide the outcome of this without her, and if she doesn't want to give you closure, and is going to get hurt, there is not much anybody can do about it.

:-/ Just my thoughts, and I wish the best to both of you, no matter what happens.

Please crawl back under the rock you came from, Goth isn't asking for you opinion just your support, if you don't want to give FINE, then don't post

 

[Cavum]

Not much I can do here in Norway to help, but I wish I could man! 🙁
Hope things work out! Hang in there and be strong!

Hails from Norway

 

[Frowg]

Ok Brother, I don't even know you guys personally, and I know you both are batshiat crazy for one another. Go get her, help her, love her. She's only doing what she thinks is best for her child, and she is of course right to protect her, but she needs you as much as you need her.

 

[♡AimLEE♡]

You know you have my thoughts. You guys are awesome people on this forum... hang in there! <3

 

[TheTickleMonster]

Please crawl back under the rock you came from, Goth isn't asking for you opinion just your support, if you don't want to give FINE, then don't post

but that's what people on the tmf do though, all the time..

 

[TheTickleMonster]

if the father is really as bad as you say he is why does he have her kid? Did she not fight for her orriginally? Did they not go through the court system to get custody? Or did the court just be stupid and give him custody becuase he doesn't seem like the kind of person that would get custody if he's as bad as u say..

 

[Fangz]

I read a few pages back that you haven't been eating or sleeping much. That's perfectly understandable as your world is being turned upside down but as hard as it is try to get a good nights sleep and maybe go to a diner and get something to eat. When your stressed as you are your body needs fuel and rest or your asking for trouble. I don't mean to bring you down as a lot of posts here who "give their opinion" mask trolling but I just want to remind you of something you might have forgotten. She'll be back after she calms down I believe and you have my support 110%. Hang tough!

 

[Carsomyr]

I read a few pages back that you haven't been eating or sleeping much. That's perfectly understandable as your world is being turned upside down but as hard as it is try to get a good nights sleep and maybe go to a diner and get something to eat. When your stressed as you are your body needs fuel and rest or your asking for trouble.

I agree with this, but at the same time when you are so upset and worried that you can't even eat, then you're likely not hungry either but you're just feeling "sick", in lack of a better word. The question then is if you can even keep the food down.

Goth, the most important thing is that you remember to stay hydrated, but yes you really should try to get some sleep and something to eat as well. It is perfectly understandable that you spend all your time worrying about Saeria, but that's when the rest of us will have to remember to also worry about YOU. Your body can only take so much abuse, so please, if not for yourself then for the community, for all your worried friends here, at least TRY to get some sleep, and at least drink some water, maybe try eating a fruit or something. You can't help Saeria if you end up destroying yourself! =/

Stay strong dude, and have faith. I am not religious, but there is one thing I DO believe in: Love. After watching you two on the forum, I am confident that your love for each other is strong enough to overcome any obstacle. I'm sorry if I'm sounding cliché, but I really believe in this, and I believe in you. Love conquers all. Just have faith, and never give up.

 

[Tckleme]

Goth, we don´t really know each other, but you´re in a fucked up situation, and I really, really hope that everything will turn out fine! You don´t deserve that. Keep your head up bro!

 

[Leo tickles]

Please crawl back under the rock you came from, Goth isn't asking for you opinion just your support, if you don't want to give FINE, then don't post

You are not supporting him in this post, but you ARE giving your opinion about me, so, why don't I hand you my rock, you can crawl under it, while I go post something positive.


Go to your favorite diner, goth, and order your favorite meal. It will give your body what it needs to continue dealing with this, and temporary enjoyment is a big bonus. Just try hard to enjoy something, no matter for how long, and things will get much better.... hopefully.

 

[Gothika]

Not much I can do here in Norway to help, but I wish I could man! 🙁
Hope things work out! Hang in there and be strong!

Hails from Norway

i am working to stay strong aint easy thanks

Ok Brother, I don't even know you guys personally, and I know you both are batshiat crazy for one another. Go get her, help her, love her. She's only doing what she thinks is best for her child, and she is of course right to protect her, but she needs you as much as you need her.

ya that is true dude and i understand that and i will continu to fight

You know you have my thoughts. You guys are awesome people on this forum... hang in there! <3

u r cool to i am working very hard to hang in thanks

if the father is really as bad as you say he is why does he have her kid? Did she not fight for her orriginally? Did they not go through the court system to get custody? Or did the court just be stupid and give him custody becuase he doesn't seem like the kind of person that would get custody if he's as bad as u say..

not trying to be mean or anything but i already explained that part a while back thanks

I read a few pages back that you haven't been eating or sleeping much. That's perfectly understandable as your world is being turned upside down but as hard as it is try to get a good nights sleep and maybe go to a diner and get something to eat. When your stressed as you are your body needs fuel and rest or your asking for trouble. I don't mean to bring you down as a lot of posts here who "give their opinion" mask trolling but I just want to remind you of something you might have forgotten. She'll be back after she calms down I believe and you have my support 110%. Hang tough!

ya i know dude its so hard right now i am so down and everything
my stomic kinda feels bla from stressing so much and i am trying so hard to be calm it aint easy but i will work at it

I agree with this, but at the same time when you are so upset and worried that you can't even eat, then you're likely not hungry either but you're just feeling "sick", in lack of a better word. The question then is if you can even keep the food down.

Goth, the most important thing is that you remember to stay hydrated, but yes you really should try to get some sleep and something to eat as well. It is perfectly understandable that you spend all your time worrying about Saeria, but that's when the rest of us will have to remember to also worry about YOU. Your body can only take so much abuse, so please, if not for yourself then for the community, for all your worried friends here, at least TRY to get some sleep, and at least drink some water, maybe try eating a fruit or something. You can't help Saeria if you end up destroying yourself! =/

Stay strong dude, and have faith. I am not religious, but there is one thing I DO believe in: Love. After watching you two on the forum, I am confident that your love for each other is strong enough to overcome any obstacle. I'm sorry if I'm sounding cliché, but I really believe in this, and I believe in you. Love conquers all. Just have faith, and never give up.

thanks dude appriciate the kind words and i am trying very hard

Goth, we don´t really know each other, but you´re in a fucked up situation, and I really, really hope that everything will turn out fine! You don´t deserve that. Keep your head up bro!

thanks appriciate all the kind words and support everyone is giving me it makes me feel better u all rock i love yaz

 

[Gothika]

wow dude this is so hard and i am trying my best to keep it together it seems like the simpelest thingss trigger some type of emotion like i just heard the sound of the icecream man and that made me sadder and about cry i look at her suff and it makes me sad and cry i see her pic and it makes me cry its so hard and i appriciate all here that are shoing support for me all helps and i thank u

 

[rhiannon]

Are there any news yet?

 

[Gothika]

Are there any news yet?

no wish there was bye now she should be in texas but she is probly resting from the long ride and reunighting with her daugher and freinds everytime the phone rights im like please let this be sae but it has not been yet i am still keeping faith as soon as i hear something everyone will know

 

[fttickler]

Goth.. I agree with Slacker here.

Thing is, does he legally have the right to hold her daughter like that? If not, he could be charged with kidnapping. I'd definitely put a call into the locals in Texas and see what they can do. Considering he's just been released from prison, he may be on parole and could easily be in violation.

So yeah, I'd say if you can't fly there right away, then call the cops down there and contact any helpful family members you can. Then get yourself there as quick as possible.

If he was just in prison, 9 times out of 10 he does not have visitation rights. Did she just let the kid go down by themselves?. Call the police down there and find out... if people are "missing" somewhere between 24 or 48 hours you can report it. And if all else fails, see the cartoon in Slackers profile.. and think how to apply it 🙂