Safewords

[TickleTortureGuy]

The power exchange is mind blowing. And knowing you can have the chance to switch and gain revenge can be the icing on the cake. It's wonderful to be in a relationship with that much trust. Thank you for sharing.
Just curious, who do you think is the most ruthless when Lering?

Without a doubt, SHE is the better Ler and much, much more ruthless. No question in my mind. 100% it’s her.

 

[SirTristran]

Safewords can be a bit of an annoying anti climax if overused sometimes, BUT, I think they're pretty much an absolute "must" for most sessions because the respect and trust you place in each other during a session is huge. I probably wouldnt play without a safeword unless it was a regular lee and friend, and she told me categorically she wanted to try something more extreme. Even then Id be hesitant and constantly checking them.

I finally broke one of my most regular lees last year and it took me some real doing but once I heard the safeword, she honestly looked broken bless her. Was nothing but cuddles for next hour to come back to ground level because it meant that the limit was hit. If id carried on, and we hadnt had a safeword, it would have ended up in tears no doubt.

The safeword is super frustrating when you find a good spot and its just shouted every single touch, but regardless, if you agree to play, you gotta respect it. I had a lee last year who must have safeworded at least 30-40 in a few hours anytime I touched her feet 🤣 which is a shame because she had great feet to tickle lol

 

[torturoustickle]

Safewords can be a bit of an annoying anti climax if overused sometimes, BUT, I think they're pretty much an absolute "must" for most sessions because the respect and trust you place in each other during a session is huge. I probably wouldnt play without a safeword unless it was a regular lee and friend, and she told me categorically she wanted to try something more extreme. Even then Id be hesitant and constantly checking them.

I finally broke one of my most regular lees last year and it took me some real doing but once I heard the safeword, she honestly looked broken bless her. Was nothing but cuddles for next hour to come back to ground level because it meant that the limit was hit. If id carried on, and we hadnt had a safeword, it would have ended up in tears no doubt.

The safeword is super frustrating when you find a good spot and its just shouted every single touch, but regardless, if you agree to play, you gotta respect it. I had a lee last year who must have safeworded at least 30-40 in a few hours anytime I touched her feet 🤣 which is a shame because she had great feet to tickle lol

Playing without a safeword does put an increased emphasis on: knowledge of your Lee, trust in the relationship, vigilance while tickling.
I like how everyone has agreed with these sentiments. For those (mainly couples) who have ticked those boxes and feel comfortable in not using safewords, much congratulations to you. I believe it does add a whole new dimension to tickling play. ✌️🪶

 

[hiphophooray4]

Without a doubt, SHE is the better Ler and much, much more ruthless. No question in my mind. 100% it’s her.

So is she really actually the better ler....or are u just more ticklish than she, so it makes it seem that she is the better ler?

 

[TickleTortureGuy]

So is she really actually the better ler....or are u just more ticklish than she, so it makes it seem that she is the better ler?

Both. Yes, I’m very ticklish… but she knows exactly how to use that to her strengths and takes full advantage of each and every spot to get the fullest reactions out of me and to make me suffer the most. She doesn’t just “go through the motions” and then quickly quit. No no. She really takes her time and thoroughly ENJOYS what she’s doing and takes her time and explores all ticklish spots completely until she break me. She is definitely the better tickler.

 

[Bellylaughs]

🤔 theoretically, I could "have" a safeword but my stubbornness could make a mule do ballet. So..... Not likely at all I would actually use it. I probably would rather go with the alt of "dropping an item" or "making a gesture" bc if I know anything I'm probably not verbally cohesive enough to make words anyway.

 

[JohnTK]

I have used safewords when trying to convince a girl to try to be tied and tickled for the first time. It is a great way to make her feel comfortable and at the same time create some good mood by choosing a funny word..! With girls that I did that more than a few times I find that it is not so important - if they really want it to stop they will tell me something in a different tone that I will understand. Usually instead of safeword I use a clock so she will know for example it is 5 minutes so try your best to go through it and during the tickle i might say something like 'oh good you only have 2 more minutes to go' and then of course dish out the most torture which she will take thinking that it is just a little time to hold on.