Scared?

[TickleToy4You]

I'm curious to see how many people were scared or nervous there first time being tied up and tickled and who was nervous before they did the tickling. I know my first time it was out of no where but when I knew it was gonna happen I was a bit scared since I was completely helpless and knew I couldn't do anything to stop it. I think even he (my ex) was a little nervous since he never actually done anything like that before. Anyone else feel the same way?

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Having had numerous negative experiences with being tickled, I was afraid of the ticklign itself. But, by the time I realized that I was likely to kill someone if I wasn't tied up, I'd become comfy with the idea. Plus, I'd only do it with someone I truly trusted. So, that eliminates the need for fear in my case. There IS a bit of trepidation in the simple fact that I've become increasingly more sensitive with the hormonal changes of peri-menopause, however...knowing that I can't escape it. But, that's more like the "thrill of fear" of a thrill ride or extreme sport than actually being "afraid". There's almost always a part of me actually wanting to be pushed. 😉

 

[-Hari-]

Yeh but it was abit of a disaster, My first two session I was so nervous that I became not ticklish, So that wasnt ideal.

 

[ViperGTS]

When I was first getting started, I was so nervous, it wasn't even awkwardly funny. Sweaty palms, quick breathing...I was so excited to have this opportunity to tickle this gorgeous, helpless woman, and I DIDN'T WANT TO FUCK IT UP!

Even now, I still get a bit nervous when I am having a session with a friend or even when I am filming or doing a photoshoot with a model, but for different reasons. I'm fairly confident in my skills as a tickler and D/s partner, but even with all the safety precautions in the world, there's still a chance of something going wrong, and that's what I worry about from time to time. Also, with someone I'm not that familiar with, I get a little nervous as far as getting to know their body and their ticklish spots.

 

[TicklesFemales]

TickleToy4U I still recommend Viper as someone you need to meet and get tickled by. I love his work, and he seems like a really cool guy. Go for it. Viper please if you ever get to tickle this lady, please post the clips.

 

[No_Style]

I have yet to know what it's like to be tied and tickled, and I'm a bit scared as well...but I know it'll be with someone I love and trust...and that i'll have a great time.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Oh my gosh, the first time I was tied up I. Was. Terrified. It was one of the most difficult, uncomfortable things ever. I have major control issues, so to just lie there and let someone tie me up was....nauseating. Luckily I was totally comfortable with the person I was doing it with, and he was funny and reassuring and blah blah blah - everything I needed him to be. But yeah...it was scary.

 

[TropicThunder]

I wasn't nervous at all.

But then again, the first guy I let tie me up and tickle me had to spend a few days with me so we could get comfortable with eachother. Tickle fights helped.

Oh...the memories.

 

[Lamashtu]

lol, first time I was tied up, I was a lil concerned. I hadn't spent alot of time with the person yet. It was interesting cause I didn't really know what to expect. Turned out to be tons of fun. lol, big fan of the restraints now. I wouldn't use the word scared though.

 

[rhiannon]

I was almost scared to death. But it was great from the first second. 🙂

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Scared? No.

Nervous? Yes.

Still get that way.

I don't think it's because of the actual act of being tied up, it's because the sonofabitch who is doing it is in complete control.

 

[milagros317]

No, I wasn't scared the first time that I was tied up to be tickled. I trusted Mistress Zara absolutely. 😀

 

[tkltease]

my very first experience with tickling a stranger was when i was 24 and i tickled the feet of my chineese landlord and she went nuts and started laughing like crazy and bouncing around so much i stopped because she actually scared me with her reactions and then honestly she looked at me and said why did you stop i liked it do it some more.

 

[skipsfirstspike]

Interesting question... because that is me right now!!
My boyfriend will be here to pick me up in about 20 minutes. We are going for dinner, then back to his place for some bondage/ tickle/?? fun.
My idea, have been hinting about it for a while, finally I told him a few weeks ago that July 17 was the night one of us was going to be tied, his choice who.
Turns out it's me!
So I am very exciting, but starting to get nervous. A lot.
Kind of like a roller coaster: My choice to get on, I know it will be fun, but why does that first hill have to be so High? lol

 

[skipsfirstspike]

Oops, last post I wrote that I am exciting, meant excited.
Well, both actually! 🙂

 

[Sandisk444]

i agreed to get tied up and tickled soon, i'm pretty nervous about it because i've never done that before and i don't know how bad it'll actually be but i'm pretty excited. Actually what skipsfirstspike said, it's like a roller coaster haha, good analogy 😀

 

[Smuggy Bear]

I wasn't really nervous my first time as a 'ler, even though it was also my first bondage experience. Mind you, I mean actually having my ex tied up, not just some kind of a casual tickle. At that time, I was just a tickler - not a switch-hitter like I am now. I knew what I liked and I was nothing short of THRILLED that I had this hot-ass girl tied up and she was gonna let me tickle her!

But as soon as I got done making this girl shake the bedroom with her laughter and screams, she told me she wanted to tie ME up and tickle ME. And I had never been tied up before; we hadn't been together that long, so I was actually kinda nervous. I mean, I trusted this girl, but I had never been tied up before - and I knew how ridiculously ticklish I was. Not to mention the fact that I was pretty ruthless when I was torturing her But I let her, and it was fucking horrible/awesome at the same time. It wasn't until after it was all over and I caught my breath that I realized that I like being a 'lee AND a 'ler, so I'm glad I let her do it...

 

[porcelaindoll2]

I wasn't scared at all. I was super excited! I just kept sitting around counting the days until my first session. I was excited to have my spots tested out and I'm dying to do it again. With some close to my age of course.

 

[MsRose]

I'm curious to see how many people were scared or nervous there first time being tied up and tickled and who was nervous before they did the tickling. I know my first time it was out of no where but when I knew it was gonna happen I was a bit scared since I was completely helpless and knew I couldn't do anything to stop it. I think even he (my ex) was a little nervous since he never actually done anything like that before. Anyone else feel the same way?

I was very nervous. So nervous I kept laughing even before it started.

 

[Naughty Summer]

I'm always nervous the first time with anyone new tickling me just because you never know what they are going to do. Being tied up you have no control and that is scary in it's self. That is way it's always great to have someone with you that you know and will help if it gets out of control. Once you get use to the person tickling you it is much more comforting but still you never know what they might do. It's always a fun adventure!

 

[Smuggy Bear]

So Summer, you have a "tickle bouncer" that you take with you to sessions with new people?

 

[ticklemepls]

i don't think its so much nervous as it is... anticipation... which isn't all that bad 😀 kinda adds to it i think.

 

[Flatfoot]

I was scared, and very apprehensive. My first session that incorporated bondage wasn't... "right" for lack of a better term. It was a "Christmas gift" from someone I had a friends with benefits arrangement with, which I didn't exactly ask for. She went through a lot of trouble and even bought bondage for the occasion, so I didn't wanna say no, but it was just... awkward.

 

[Gadilici]

I don't think scared or nervous really is right for either one (for me). Yeah, the nerves were cranked up to 11, and I was almost unable to breathe, but scared gives the wrong connotation. So does nervous. I was fumble-fingered for a bit, and kinda shaky for a while, but it was 100% pure endorphin charged adrenaline soaked jitters. In the best possible way 😀

Christopher