Separation and Dating

[Illtcklu]

Thanks babe(s)!
I thought ayla's respone was hilarious and sooo totally something I'd have told 'em--good one doll!
XOXO

Ohhhhh yeah! I think (strangely enough) the order should be as follows:
1. Date
2. Marriage



.......I don't know why but life goes easier that way!

 

[kered]

Ohhhhh yeah! I think (strangely enough) the order should be as follows:
1. Date
2. Marriage



.......I don't know why but life goes easier that way!

....and with a lot less paperwork.

 

[fttickler]

I love it....

I’m “separated”. It took years to get him to move out… but only weeks to start dating. I was SO done with my marriage.

Six years later, we are still “separated” but only because we can’t come to terms on the divorce (and the fact that he’s an ass… but I digress). We are each living with the people we plan to spend the rest of our lives with and the marriage couldn’t be any more over. It’s just a matter of making it legal.

So I guess my point is, that sometimes it’s more a matter of it taking a long time to iron out the details than not being sure.

On the other hand, I have also had men tell me that the are “practically separated” only to have an angry wife call me and ask me why my number was in her husband’s pocket. I always came clean and said “because he asked me for it, was cute, and never said he was married.” Let him deal with bed he made.

Ayla's line at the end. The wives are blaming the wrong people. IT is not the woman's fault the guys is a lying louse. Now in regards to seperation. If you are seperated andliving elswhere...then dating should be ok. If you CLAIM to be seperated andliving in the same house as Spouse, then you are a lying bastard. Simple. So I guess now when people date besides having the opposite sex ( male or female ) fill out the medical info, I guess a ident checkwith DMV should be included..LOL.. BTW Tamis hun.. I still have 2 kids...lol ( private joke )