She has ugly feet, but I love her. What should I do?

[EnchantedTKLR]

I'll play that game.......Cant the 2 of you have different opinions? Tkl_toolz_queen said how "I" feel and "To me" so clearly they were not trying to speak for everyone. And I do not recall seeing them calling anyone shallow, just that they are deeper. A pool that is 10ft deep is deeper than one that is 9ft deep, but I would not call either shallow.

Femfttickler21, Thank you for actually reading and understanding what I said. I even said that it is up to that person, threw in my personal taste (which is just me and my perspective and has no bearing on anyone else), and then ended my thought again by saying it is up to him but he did sound quite young and perhaps things will change over time. It doesn't mean they have to or will; I was just making an observation. I certainly never characterized him as "shallow". And it is true that sometimes the way people feel about certain things in life do change with experience and time. It has happened to me and anyone else who is my age and older. I just threw out the possibility that maybe the way he feels now about the feet of his mate could change with time. It may not. It honestly depends on his personality and what he is looking for out of another person. Some things about people are cardinal and never change with age, while other things do and will change. These are the facts of life. 🙂

The bottom line is, someone's view on feet is subjective. If he feels the foot structure/appearance of his mate's feet is a deal killer, it is. Anyone asking for advice on this type of problem? My answer is figure it out for yourself; we don't know you. We can gather a handful of clues about you and make a life decision for you to contemplate, but the answer has to come from within. Questions to ask yourself: Is this going to be a problem for me in the longrun? How integral is this to what I want out of a relationship? and so on. Now I am going to go have a wonderful breakfast. 🙂

 

[P[a]pi]

If you need a girl that can turn you on, but she can't, then ya gotta move on.